The Girl Doesn't Reciprocate? 10 Ways To Fix It

2023 Author: Miles Ford | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-08-25 09:40

The magical feeling of falling in love inspires, gives the desire to live and create, pushes you to crazy deeds and makes the world around you and yourself better.

The content of the article

• 1 Reasons for "cold" behavior
• 2 How to get her attention
• 3 How to deal with love failure

But all these wonderful metamorphoses are possible only on one condition - if your feelings are mutual. But, unfortunately, this does not always happen. And if this is just your case, then our article will help you understand what to do if the girl you like is in no hurry to reciprocate your sympathy.

Causes of Cold Behaviori

Before you decide to get depressed and sign your own insolvency, we strongly recommend that you properly analyze the situation. What if it’s not your fault at all? Didn't think about it? In vain! There are a number of reasons why a girl may well ignore your courtship. Namely:

• Her heart and thoughts have long and hopelessly been occupied by others. We agree that the situation is not pleasant. Moreover, the chances of its resolution in your favor are negligible. Especially if the beautiful lady who stole your peace is in a serious relationship and sincerely loves her chosen one.
• You're too intrusive. Yes, so that they do not talk about how highly valued male decisiveness in amorous matters, you should not go too far with the demonstration of your tender feelings. It is possible that the girl will simply be scared. And then, at best, you will face ignorance. At worst, with open dislike.
• You are not her ideal. Alas, this also happens sometimes. Even if you are a sexy tall brown-eyed brunette with an athletic build. And the object of your passion is going crazy for blue-eyed blondes.

• You don't know how to express your feelings. It is possible that you are truly interested in developing relationships and really feel sympathy, but there is one but. Due to your natural modesty, you do not know how to behave correctly with the girl you like. So, it may well be that she does not even suspect about your sympathy. And any signs of attention shown by you he perceives as nothing more than a friendly and polite attitude towards himself. Accordingly, nothing but the friend zone shines for you.
• Sad experiences of past relationships. This option also cannot be discounted. Perhaps the girl recently left a painful relationship and is in no hurry to enter into new ones.

It is commendable if you are determined, and none of the above reasons is a significant obstacle for you. So, it's time to move on to winning the heart of the lady who charmed you so much.

How to get her attention2

• Analyze the situation thoroughly and try to find mistakes in your behavior. You may even have to radically change tactics. You, like a shadow on a clear day, tirelessly followed the girl now and then reminding her of your existence? Then it may well make sense to give her a little break from your scrutiny. Or, frankly, he was stingy with gifts and tender words? So, it's time to try to express your feelings more clearly and give cute presents, supporting words with actions.
• A deceiving maneuver. The secret of winning the hearts of unapproachable girls was once revealed by the great Russian poet. So why don't you try to take advantage of the advice of Alexander Sergeevich and demonstrate a certain coldness in relation to the chosen one. Especially if she has long been accustomed to increased attention from you and does not even allow the thought that it could be otherwise.

• Become her reflection. Despite the widespread belief that opposites are incredibly attracted to each other, people who have a lot in common still find a common language much faster. Find out about her hobbies, ask common acquaintances about the girl's preferences, about the places she likes most of all, about her favorite books and films. By doing this, you will immediately "kill two birds with one stone." First, you can get to know her even better, and secondly, interest her.
• Forget the hints. Blushing and being silent during the next chance meeting is definitely not your option. It will be much more effective to indicate to the girl your serious intentions. Otherwise, you risk years of suffering from unrequited feelings, while not realizing the true reason for your failure. If the fear is unbearably strong, you can attract allies. Your mutual acquaintances, if any, can eloquently hint to her about your feelings for the girl.

Start to change. First of all - for yourself! Explore some fun new hobby, join the gym, start learning languages, or just change your dress code. In any case, the changes will only be beneficial. You will become much more confident in yourself, and it will be noticeable to the people around you. And among them, of course, is the one for which everything was started

How to deal with a love failure3

However, it also happens that your feelings are likely to remain unanswered. And no bright prospects, alas, are foreseen. How to proceed in this case?

• Stop flattering yourself with vain illusions. Find the strength to admit defeat, but don't get hung up on it. It is not always worth listening to the quiet voice of hope, which, as you know, is the last to die. Especially if the girl herself has made it clear more than once that a miracle will not happen.
• Let your emotions out. No, you do not need to close yourself in four walls and shed mean man's tears, suffering from a monstrous injustice. But getting rid of the accumulated negativity through intense sports is an excellent solution. A positive charge is guaranteed to you. This means that getting rid of unrequited love and resentment will be many times more effective.

• Drive anger and other destructive emotions as far away from you as possible. You are unlikely to be able to correct the situation with destructive behavior, but it is easy to aggravate it. And first of all, negative emotions will harm you. Mentally thank the girl for her honesty and wish her happiness with someone else. Surely you yourself could not build a romantic relationship with someone, relying solely on a sense of duty or pity. Therefore, learn to respect the choice of another person, no matter how painful it may be for you.
• Do not be left alone with your thoughts. Ignoring a girl is far from being a reason to give up on herself and voluntarily condemn herself to imprisonment. On the contrary, now more than ever you need a company of close friends who will help you escape from sad thoughts. Don't stay at home! Communicate actively, get to know each other, flirt, start new relationships. Just don't let depression and despondency settle in your mind and instill in you a sense of guilt.