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Video: How To Meet A Guy On The Internet: Practical Tips
The modern world is, whatever one may say, the world of the Internet. There they meet, fall in love and sometimes even get married after that. It is also more free space than real life, so the girl is not ashamed to take the initiative. But how does dating a guy work on the Internet? Many women ask this question, wonder if there are any rules or in this case everything is quite free? And these are really important questions that need to be answered.
The content of the article
- 1 Where do acquaintances take place?
- 2 How to interest a guy on the Internet
- 3 More tips
Where do acquaintances take place? I
It is, perhaps, difficult to name any one place, because there are actually several of them. And each deserves special attention.
The first is social media. Today, every person, not necessarily even a young person, certainly has his own page. Finding someone nice and interesting there is easy: just go to the pages of friends and their friends to find some kind of candidate. This method is especially suitable for those who are initially set up only for communication. In addition, social networks provide an excellent chance for shy people who, even online, cannot bring themselves to leave a message to a stranger. It is enough for them to write a commentary on one or two entries - after that it is quite possible to count on at least a reciprocal comment, which brings up a conversation, or even a certain sympathy, especially if the girl took the guy's side in the dispute. You don't need to flood and be aggressive,even when it comes to protecting a young man - no one likes brawlers, it is important to remember.
At the same time, one should also realize that even a friend of a friend may not be a completely sane person, so it never hurts to be careful.
Dating sites are the second thing that comes to mind. And they take second place simply because many people are quite skeptical about them. But still, despite skepticism, the number of people who found their destiny in this way is only growing.
In addition, if you compare the option with social networks, it has many advantages - for example, you do not have to worry about the fact that the young man you like is busy or not inclined to communicate. In either of these two options, it simply would not be on the site where people meet.
Equally important, people fill out questionnaires on such resources to make it easier for them to find a person with whom they have something in common. And it really helps. Although you can dig into the history of life on social networks, dating sites still provide more specific information. For example, in any questionnaire there is a point about the purpose of dating - and it requires attention, since not everyone comes for eternal love, someone just wants to have fun.
Mobile apps are also a great way to meet a guy. But here it is important to consider that they are just originally designed for easy dating and sex without obligations. The most popular is Tinder - and it works great. And it's quite simple: you put the application, set the search radius - and that's it, you can view the applicants and like those who liked it. A mutual like makes it possible to start a conversation, which, according to statistics, often ends with a personal meeting and a very pleasant pastime. Plus, thanks to the search radius, you can make an appointment almost immediately. True, the question of whether it is worth looking for eternal love with the help of Tinder remains open, at least because few people do this.
How to interest a guy on the Internet2
Also, I must say, an interesting question with an ambiguous answer. After all, if offline he can evaluate the outfit and appearance, then online it is much more difficult. But there are tactics and methods that experienced girls use. It all depends on which method was used. But in any case, you need to attract a young man with interesting information about yourself, so that meeting a guy on the Internet ends with something significant.
This means that both the profile on the social network and the profile on the dating site and in the mobile application must contain personal information about what kind of music a girl likes, what she does in her free time, how she prefers to relax, and the like. Among other things, this approach will allow you to get acquainted not just with some abstract guy, but with one who shares these interests and hobbies. Otherwise, why all this?
At the same time, absolutely personal information, for example, about a specific place of residence (district, street, etc.), does not need to be reported to anyone. Such frankness is definitely unnecessary and will only lead to the fact that you will find yourself in a dangerous situation. This is hardly what girls expect from online dating.
At the same time, psychologists recommend not to delay the network part of the acquaintance, but, on the contrary, to quickly collapse and go to the real part. They explain it very simply: the Internet is just a tool for dating nothing more. And that is how it should be viewed. We talked for some time - we must meet, because it may well turn out that a person in network communication (where you can think about an answer, write more interesting, etc.) and a person in real life are generally different people. And the sooner a girl gets to know a real person, the better, because otherwise she runs the risk of becoming attached to an online image without the opportunity to recognize and love someone who, under other circumstances, could become her destiny.
A few more tips3
It is very important to understand that meeting a guy on the Internet can become both entertainment and something more serious, so you should not deceive and write deliberately untrue things about yourself. That is, if a girl did not fly even on an airplane, she definitely does not need to paint a hundred perfect parachute jumps in paints, otherwise it may turn out to be inconvenient later.
The acquaintance went right, and the couple are going to meet? This is great news to tell your friends! And with details - where exactly the young man invited, what time and what the girl will wear. So, just in case.