Who Hurts More When Divorced?

It is generally accepted that women tend to marry much more than men to marry. It seems that a woman should hold on to her “married” status until she loses her pulse. But, according to recent studies, young ladies want to put an end to a relationship that does not suit them no less zealously than to get married. And no one can be stopped with a seal. Why?

Whatever one may say, but ladies are emotional creatures. They want to become a wife because a fire burns in their hearts. Men take this step after thinking three times. Therefore, as soon as everything burned out for women or (even worse) flared up in another place, they are ready to drastically change their whole life and their status. Men, on the other hand, turn on logic and begin to believe what is more profitable for them. Therefore, a man is more likely to get himself an additional "outlet" than to decide to break an already existing family.

The famous psychologist Abraham Maslow had his own opinion on this matter. He argued that upon divorce, a man feels that his property - his wife - has been "taken away" from him. Whereas women, even with a bunch of children, begin to feel that they have been “released”. That is why many former fathers of the family still try to control and dictate the rules of life to their ex-wife (and most often with the help of financial pressure).

According to Russian sociologists, in every second case of divorce, men regret it in a year and would be happy to return their wife back. Divorced men, on average, remarry three years after their ex-wives.

In a word, the representatives of the stronger sex find it so painful to experience the official breakup that they subconsciously begin to take revenge on their ex … through their children. Failure to pay alimony, unwillingness to participate in the life of their children, mean only one thing: "how could you leave me?"