4 Types Of Relationships Between Modern Man And Woman

2023 Author: Miles Ford | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-24 12:19

Time passes, the world is changing, for some for the better, for others - for the worse. Modern men and women have changed their roles at the present time. Women, freed from oppression, have equal rights with representatives of the strong half of humanity, have mastered their professions, learned to provide for themselves, while helping their relatives and raising children. They, like a draft horse, took on a heavy burden and began to play according to men's rules.

The content of the article

• 1 1 type. Dominant woman, dominant man
• 2 2 type. Dominant woman, passive man
• 3 3 type. Dominant man, passive woman
• 4 4 type. Passive man, passive woman

The man is no longer the support and support that is so necessary for a woman. And it should be noted that the fairer sex copes well enough with what, willy-nilly, fell on their shoulders. They have become more self-reliant, independent and ambitious. A modern girl can already hammer in a nail and change a wheel in a car, while maintaining her femininity and attractiveness. In past generations, such self-sufficiency was much less common than it is now.

Men, in turn, have the opposite problem, they have become more infantile. There is less testosterone in their blood, the level of which is influenced not only by hundreds of cubes of tobacco smoke, tons of modified food products and beer consumed in liters, but also by the psychological ill-being of the modern world, in which strange rules have been created where women are given the right to be earners. Perhaps this is the whole point?

Most psychologists are convinced that it is women who make men such. The inability to show female weakness, the manifestation of dominance both in relationships and in sexual life, an excessive manifestation of initiative - all this leads to the suppression of the male ego, and in the future, male representatives assume a passive position.

Of course, there are many men who deliberately chose this role for themselves. The "imaginary henpecked" in the depths of his soul remains unconvinced, but he is ready to make concessions to a woman in any matter in order to keep her by all means. Thus, he chooses a “comfortable” woman, in whom he can relax and put all the responsibility for their relationship on her. A girl who is ready to “take the bull by the horns” always and everywhere takes a dominant position in a relationship, deep down complaining that she is deprived of the opportunity to be a little fragile girl who needs to be taken care of.

So it turns out that modern men and women change sexes? Why did men become feminine and women masculine? Is the current pattern of relationships between women and men today that sad?

It should be noted that stereotypes change an order of magnitude slower than life realities. And many couples begin to embarrass the moment when their relationship does not correspond to the dogmas prescribed by society. Hence the question arises, how is it possible to achieve the desired harmony in the relations of modern men and women?

First of all, you need to discard stereotypical thinking and decide for yourself which relationship model is the most comfortable and what role the person himself wants to play in these relationships. It is not the very adherence to strict rules that is important, but the comfort in them. Leadership in relationships, as a rule, is assumed by the partner who is assigned a large number of roles that involve leadership. According to the laws of maintaining harmony, the importance of who is the leader in a pair - a man or a woman is not so significant. The distribution of roles is for convenience in relationships. And it doesn't matter what specific role a man or a woman takes. More significant is the fact that they are comfortable with each other.

At this stage, there are several types of alliances from a dominance perspective:

1 type. Dominant woman, Dominant man1

As a rule, in these relationships, everything happens very violently: from sex and romance to arguments and conflicts. Most often, such unions break up due to the intransigence of both partners.

BUT! 1 type of relationship has favorable prospects in the event that both partners learn to listen to each other and find compromises. Then this "explosive mixture" will be able to become good partners in marriage, the union of which will be very problematic to destroy.

Type 2. Dominant woman, passive man2

The union is more stable than the previous one. A man takes the role of a passenger, and a woman in the role of a helmsman takes the main responsibility on herself, therefore, if conflicts do happen, it is extremely rare.

Type 3. Male dominant, female passive3

It is considered one of the most favorable for family relationships. The couple is stable, there are practically no conflicts.

BUT! 2 and 3 type of relationship has a big disadvantage: the union can break up on the initiative of the dominant if he gets bored with the passive. Therefore, it is necessary that, in addition to a sense of stability, in the relationship there are periodically notes of passion, intensity and explosion of emotions.

4 type. Male passive, woman passive4

The saddest and most unhappy couple. Partners stay together only because they have nowhere to go. The collapse of such an alliance is possible under the pressure of external circumstances, otherwise this dull and gloomy couple will continue to be in these insipid relations.

How to achieve harmony in a relationship? First, you need to decide whether both partners like the previous stereotypes, which provide for the possibility of alliances of only 3 types, or whether they are satisfied with the current format of modern relations.

If the current situation is comfortable for them, then they need to stay at the same level, because any changes can entail not the best metamorphoses. It is necessary to discard all thoughts about: "A man should do that …"; "A woman is obliged to do this …" The only people to whom people owe are to themselves. Any form of relationship takes place if both are happy in it.