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It's good when a choice appears in life. And it's great when two girls are ready to tear a man in two. Most guys can only dream of such a prospect. Not everyone has one contender for the hand and heart. What should a guy do in such a situation and how to choose between two girls? In such a difficult situation, you need to understand thoroughly.
The content of the article
- 1 Why did it happen?
- 2 Maybe it seemed?
- 3 Both are good!
- 4 Difficult simple choice
Why did it happen? I
If you look at everything from the outside, the picture is simply amazing: two girls claim to be a guy and are equally ready to build a relationship with him. There is just one small "but": what caused this behavior? Such situations often arise when guys and girls communicate with each other in close company. Two girls choose one guy as an object of love, and an unequal battle begins for the heart of a free gentleman. All this flatters him, everything suits him and the guy does not see an obvious dissonance in this situation. Unfortunately, the most likely outcome will be the end of the struggle between the girls, the gradual fading of the instincts of rivalry for a partner and complete apathy. For a young man, this is a clear plus - nothing needs to be done, the situation will be resolved by itself. But what to do if it happened,that at the same time two girls attracted attention, both are good, but different and perfectly complement each other. What to do next? How to choose between two girls? The saddest thing in such situations is that, when it is necessary to choose between girls, the guy does not just choose with his heart, but prudently evaluates who is more profitable for him at the moment.
Maybe it seemed? 2
When happiness is at stake and you have to make a choice between two people, then one of the most popular phrases that guys hear is the words about love, sympathy, the inability to choose, because both are good.
Each of the girls at this moment is of no value to a young man. As strange as it sounds! It has long been proven in psychology that strong emotions and attachment to a person can be directed to only one object. Sexual desire can be for everyone you meet, and this is quite explainable by the sexual constitution or age. Love arises unconsciously. At this moment, there is no doubt that it is this person who can emotionally give all the necessary emotions and make him happy for many years. The prospect of choice in such a situation is due only to profit and calculation. In such a situation, there are guys who do not need either one or the other girl. They are just temporary fun, and he is a way for them to show who is more important.
Both are good! 3
Even worse is the situation in which a guy is dating two different girls at the same time and cannot decide which one is better for him. How to choose between two girls in such a situation? You should focus on your own feelings. There is a good psychological trick to help you make your choice. You need to sit down in a calm atmosphere, close your eyes and imagine in the smallest detail that the person is not around. Not at all. There is no more choice, the situation resolved itself in favor of one of the girls, and now the competitor is eliminated. What sensations are pouring in? A pity? Yearning? Or indifference? You need to remember everything and imagine the same situation from the second. Are there any emotions? If the absence of one of the girls is perceived more easily, then she must be abandoned. Perhaps this is a hint in whose favor the scales should outweigh.
Difficult simple choice4
How to choose between two girls if both are good and attractive, smart and beautiful? If there was love for at least one of them, then it would make sense to talk about love and difficult choices. So it turns out that you need to choose between two equal, equally uninteresting girls just in order not to be left alone. When everything is clear with the goal, there is just a choice. Remembering your childhood, you can take a piece of paper and write in two columns the advantages of one and the other, choose a girl who has more advantages. All this is frivolous and somehow childish!
The first thought that comes to the guys' mind in this case is to leave everything as it is and wait until the situation is resolved by itself. Keep in mind that undecided guys push girls away. In such a situation, there is a great chance that both will turn around and leave.
Another option could be a wait and see tactic for other purposes. Nothing will stop you from continuing relationships with girls until each one shows her negative sides or qualities that are unacceptable in the eyes of a guy. Then it remains to go over to the worthy side and build relationships with her.
Sometimes loneliness helps. It's a good idea to take some time to think and stop talking for a couple of days with both. Suddenly, everything becomes clear at once, or there are weighty motives that outweigh one of the applicants.
Before making a choice between two girls, you should think for a couple of seconds and decide whether it would be more honest to let both of them go and not keep someone next to you so as not to feel lonely. At some point, you can find yourself in the same situation, only in the place of girls.
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