What If You Find It Difficult To Show Your Feelings?

The question of the relationship between a man and a woman often becomes a cause for quarrels and misunderstandings in a couple. Sooner or later, one side suddenly begins to think that his half does not show those feelings and emotions as we would like. What is the reason? How to help the other half, who suddenly says: "I don't know how to show feelings." These issues are often brought up for discussion and men are not always the target. It turns out that in such a delicate matter, both he and she can act as the injured party.

The content of the article

• 1 Root of the problem
• 2 Coldness of a man
• 3 Insensitive women
• 4 Small summary

The root of the problem

Experienced psychologists argue that parenting is the reason why one partner does not express his feelings. A family in which it was not customary to show their emotions, talk about feelings, and did not even hear about the trusting relationship between parents and the child, becomes the starting point for the development of such problems in the future. Unfortunately, such family traditions turn from an open and cheerful child into a closed person.

And if everything is fine in the family, both feelings and emotions, but at the same time the other half is categorically against their manifestation? It remains only to look into past relationships. First sympathy, love, relationships. Teenagers are very sensitive to any criticism and refusal, ridicule and reproaches. Often this becomes the cause of coldness in future relationships.

The other side of the situation is when one of the partners does not talk about his feelings and does not show them the way others do, but at the same time remains faithful and loyal. In such a relationship, it is important not to focus on the fact that the partner does not know how to show feelings. The main thing is to accept a person as he is and help him learn to trust. Any attempts to prove yourself should be taken positively. Don't forget about the promotion.

Coldness of a man2

Women quickly pick up on how a man is behaving towards her. At first, coldness and a certain restraint are perceived as a sign of masculinity. But there comes a time when you want to hear compliments and declarations of love in your address, but they are not. Many women begin to delve into themselves, demand increased attention, make scandals. And this is a mistake. Behind male indifference is often a boy who was disliked in childhood. “This is not accepted in our country,” “I don’t know how to show feelings,” “I wasn’t taught,” and many other reasons can be given as arguments.

What remains in this case for a woman? If a man is open to dialogue, then it is best to be open about his expectations. It may be difficult for him to pronounce the word "love" out loud, but at the same time he shows his feelings in the form of attention and care. You should not put pressure on a man who is already difficult to be emotional. This can lead to backlash, which will result in an act of protest and even aggression.

Sensual women3

It is much easier for girls to express their feelings. From a young age they are surrounded by affection and care. They can cry and laugh, speak out of place. Therefore, when you hear from a girl “I don’t know how to show feelings,” it means we are talking about a very modest nature, which was brought up in severity and deprived of parental attention. In such a situation, you cannot cope alone. The problem can only be solved in pairs. When a woman shows stiffness or coldness in a relationship with a man, patience and love can change everything. This may take several months or even years.

Small summary4

It is worth remembering how many boys were brought up before, and even now. They were forbidden to be weak, talk about their experiences or empathize. Meanwhile, this is where the grain of insensitivity and inability to express one's emotions lies. With age, it develops into a kind of armor and interferes with relationships with the opposite sex. It is possible to convince a man otherwise only if a trusting and sincere relationship is established between partners.

Only through joint efforts can you teach your loved one to say warm words, confess your feelings, ask for forgiveness, hug, thank. And this applies to both men and women.