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Video: Top Reasons Why Men Don't Like Strong Women
A paradox can often be observed - women who are successful in their careers, who, moreover, don’t peck money, are absolutely unhappy in their personal lives. Or the henpecked husband, who exploits the finances of his beloved, making her a second mom, or a successful business woman is generally lonely, and she has to spend lonely evenings in the company of her favorite movies or purring cat. But why don't men like strong women?
The content of the article
- 1 Who is she - a strong woman?
- 2 Why is a business woman unlucky in love?
- 3 What to do?
Equality is equal, but a beard suits a man, not a woman. It is the same with actions and with human qualities, because, whatever one may say, there are male character traits and appearance, but there are female ones. For a man - strength, for a woman - tenderness and love. But can a strong woman be attractive?
Who is she - a strong woman? I
Let's first figure out what kind of beast is this - a strong woman? There are universal human qualities such as courage, courage, self-sacrifice. Possessing such qualities, a representative of the fair sex can remain feminine and at the same time be much stronger than many men, but we are not talking about strong mothers who jump under a train after a child, but about women building a career.
But even if we consider the first example, when a lady is brave, but feminine, she will still lose in attractiveness to an ordinary fool who cries because she lost her phone. Such is human nature, a man is attracted by the most feminine appearance and extremely feminine behavior. And there is no getting away from it. And with a lady who went through all the hardships to the long-awaited stars and built a career it is still more difficult.
Why is a businesswoman unlucky in love? 2
There is a strong independent woman who has achieved everything herself and has a lot of money. What's wrong with her? Why does she a priori lose to an ordinary student with a dandelion wreath on her head? Why are men afraid of smart and beautiful women?
There are several reasons for this:
- The business lady does not have a dandelion wreath. That is, it's not even the wreath itself, it's just that a certain lifestyle leaves an imprint on the appearance, and often the lady looks too businesslike, not allowing herself to be feminine. But if that were the main problem.
- if a woman has a lot of money, then unhealthy competition develops around her, and a lot of men (if you can call them that) immediately rushes in, who are not averse to living off a rich lady. And it would be fine if they were outwardly slobber, otherwise they often look good. And what words of love they say! If we add to this. that a woman does not look very good and generally does not really meet where, because there is no time, then it is difficult for her to meet an ordinary man. So it turns out that, most likely, next to a successful lady there will be a lazy gigolo who will not be able to make his chosen one happy, but will only use her money, aggravating the wife's already low self-esteem.
- men do not like strong women also because it is very difficult to realize themselves with them, because a representative of the stronger sex wants to pay for a lady in a cafe, to comfort her when she is upset or just buy a gift. But in practice it turns out that the only benefit from a man in bed and a heavy bag to help carry to the car. Of course, gifts are pleasant not because of money, but if a woman has everything, and is very expensive, then it’s somehow scary to give a trinket. In addition to everything, expensive and respectable things are an attribute of a successful lady, therefore a cute trinket is doomed to gather dust in the closet.
- there is another reason why a man does not want to associate his life with a rich lady and be provided for by her. You can't quarrel with such a lady, because it's scary that she will put you out on the street. If the situation is completely opposite, that is, a rich husband kicked out a poor wife from his apartment, then she is automatically in the role of a victim, and he is a bastard, but how could he, reproached her with her financial situation! What a scoundrel! Such a girl can complain to anyone and they will sympathize with her. But if a man was kicked out of the house, then he is henpecked and a loser, an object of ridicule and reproaches. Realizing this, representatives of the stronger sex try not to get into such situations at all and bypass strong rich women.
But there is one more nuance here. A man has no leverage to influence the "strong and independent", because it is impossible to scandalize a woman, and it is unpleasant for a man to scream uselessly. If a man's actions are limited by the morality of society, then a woman's actions are often limited only by the fear of losing a loved one. And then after the scandal, because she's all on emotions. So it turns out that quarreling with your wife in your own home or in the common living space is not at all the same as quarreling at her house. And if you don't quarrel at all? Sounds pretty. but conflicts sometimes arise anyway, but are they constantly afraid of being thrown out the door? Oh no, no real man would want that.
often "strong and independent" begins to look and behave not at all feminine, because after spending a long time in a male team, a lady begins to look like a man, plus work in a managerial position often requires a business woman to have firmness of character and qualities that are directly still the opposite of femininity. And if for a man such behavior is natural, because both hormones and upbringing contribute to this, then a woman has to learn to be like that at the expense of her femininity, and therefore it can be very difficult for her to combine softness at home and hardness at work. Such a woman behaves in a relationship as if she were a boss. It is clear that men run away from such a lady, setting world records in steeplechase
What to do? 3
What to do to develop a career and find personal happiness? And the answer is very simple - do not forget that you are a beautiful lady.
- watch your appearance. Correct makeup, beautiful dress and, most importantly, a smile, you have such a beautiful face. No need to frown, the work day is over.
- learn to enjoy things that don't depend on money. Admire the starry sky, draw, go to the cat show. In a word, you should have something that can please you for free and that you can share with your beloved.
- and most importantly, you should not be afraid to be weak next to your chosen one, because only with a real man you will feel like a woman one hundred percent. If you find such a macho, then you can not worry - everything will be great with you.