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Life is a very unpredictable thing, and you never know for sure today what will happen tomorrow. This rule also applies to relationships, which, moreover, are a very fragile part of our life, and to which special attention is needed. They can appear one day, and just as well they can collapse. But sometimes it happens that the girl who broke all ties wants to return.
The content of the article
- 1 How does it happen?
- 2 Reasons
- 3 What to do?
Moreover, it would seem that the gap was loud, with a scandal, screams and words that nothing binds her to you. What could be the reason why she suggests starting all over again? And isn't there any catch in this?
How does it work? I
Let's figure out in order how parting occurs in most cases. The girl declares that you disappointed her, or that the feelings passed by themselves, after that she leaves. But it is enough to understand at least a little in female psychology, and then it becomes clear that women cannot go into emptiness.
To decide on such a serious step as parting, they need to have some ground under their feet, so at the moment when you part with your girlfriend, then she almost certainly already has someone. Perhaps not a lover, but a close friend, but for this friend she probably already has far-reaching plans.
That is, it should be understood that, to a greater extent, if a man does not have a mistress, then after the girl leaves him, he remains alone, and his ex-partner, with a probability approaching one hundred percent, leaves for another, and does not suffer alone.
So why then does it happen that after a couple of months your ex starts to leave comments under your photos on social networks, write "greetings" and show herself in every possible way so that you notice her?
First, everyone knows that the beginning of a relationship is always the most pleasant and happy. People only get to know each other, show less of their not very good sides, are more tolerant, give more gifts, and, in general, show more care and attention than in moments when the relationship lasts several years.
However, every joy has its limits. Over time, feelings become dulled, Over time, feelings become dulled, the words of love from the lips of a newly-made man do not sound as often as before, the girl can no longer be capricious, and quarrels and misunderstandings arise with constant frequency. It is at such moments that ex-girls want to return. as before, the girl can no longer be capricious, and quarrels and misunderstandings arise with constant frequency. It is at such moments that ex-girls want to return.
All the previous shortcomings of the previous man no longer seem as serious as before, and sometimes rumors from friends report that the ex's financial condition has become much better after the breakup, and if it still turns out that he is alone, then with a high probability the girl will apply everything strength to return.
Especially if, after the breakup, the man did not run after her like a dog, but showed willpower, broke off all contacts and did not react to her trick.
Another reason may be a sense of ownership. Imagine a situation where a man walks arm in arm with a girl, and his ex walks past them. Of course, she will have a feeling of resentment against the new passion of her ex. She will immediately remember that the reason why she left him was stupid or even funny, and now she is alone, or the first sex with a new partner did not impress her.
In such situations, girls may try to discourage their former betrothed from his new chosen one. For this, in their arsenal there will be all sorts of tricks, from unimaginable tenderness and attention to a man, to attempts to seduce him with a frank outfit or under the pretext of ordinary gatherings over a cup of coffee, "drag" him into bed.
What to do? 3
Men who are deprived of attention, or those who do not have a moral and ethical core, often succumb to all sorts of tricks and start a relationship all over again. They completely ignore the fact that in the vast majority of cases, a person cannot change much in a short period of time.
Of course, there are situations when a girl gets into some kind of trouble, suffers a variety of hardships and failures, learns from this a valuable life lesson, and after that she tries to return to her ex. But such cases are rare.
Basically, what happens is that the new partner turns out to be not as good as it seemed initially: the care has passed, the financial situation is worse than that of the former, and quarrels and misunderstandings have become constant. Of course, no woman wants a bad father for her children, and she herself wants to be always in the spotlight. Therefore, ex-girls want to return to their past partners.
In such situations, a man must first of all remember one important truth: "if they betrayed once, they will betray twice." Yes, this is not always the case, but the fact that you were once abandoned should already hint that this situation could happen again.
When it comes to money, women go to all sorts of tricks, sometimes not abandoning their new boyfriends, but keeping such relationships a secret from their real ones. Deciding what to do in such situations is a purely personal right of everyone.
However, if you agree to resume the relationship, you need to be prepared for the fact that they may not be the same as before, and sometimes for the fact that after a while you may be betrayed again.