10 Reasons Why A Man Doesn't Give You Gifts

People love to surprise their loved ones with pleasant little things, presenting them on the occasion of memorable dates and even just like that. Many people don't even have to do something differently: it's so simple - to give something without expecting a gift in return, and the person will be pleased. But it also happens that gifts are not given. The article will focus on why men do not give gifts.

The content of the article

• 1 It all starts in childhood …
• 2 Why does a man not give anything
• 3 How to act in this situation

It all starts in childhood … i

The experience of a survey of preschool children is very interesting, during which it was found that children perceive gifts from parents as proof of love, a kind of manifestation of tenderness and care. In part, this factor can be transferred to the behavior of men towards women. There are women to whom the opposite sex gives gifts constantly and they do not even need to do anything special.

And there are other women who do not receive gifts, or receive, but somehow stereotyped, only on major holidays. Of course, they want more attention, and they begin to resent the "stinginess" of their beloved man. If a woman does not receive gifts at all, she can leave the man, or remain with him as a victim, constantly dissatisfied with such an attitude towards herself.

It is known that the rudiments of character and behavior occur in childhood: boys are taught to take care of those who are weaker, i.e. about girls, and girls watch how the father treats the mother and daughter. With insufficient or too saturated love, there is a bias in upbringing, but this does not guarantee that in adulthood a person will not rethink his attitude and behavior. There are men who were brought up in harsh conditions, did not receive gifts and do not imagine that giving a gift is a pleasant experience, because they have not experienced it themselves.

A girl brought up in love, the caress of her own father knows that she can only be happy with a caring and sensual companion. There is no need for another, she is looking for only such. She can calmly voice any of her wishes, she will never humiliate herself to demands and lure gifts that the young man is not going to give. A girl with such convictions calmly breaks off a relationship with someone who does not want to take care of her and express his love.

It is impossible to teach a man to give gifts - such a relationship is similar to the relationship between a mother and a son. A happy and harmonious relationship can only be between equal partners.

Why does a man not give anything2

• A man may not realize the importance of such a step for raising the mood of his beloved. Thinks that spending money on what ends up in the trash bin doesn't make sense.
• He may also be ashamed of the manifestation of feelings, presenting a bouquet, or fears that his gesture will not be appreciated, she will not like the bouquet. You can try to hint to the guy that the surprise will raise your spirits, but you shouldn't make a scandal, no matter how painful and offensive it is.
• A man can be greedy. It is very difficult to reveal in his behavior because he can speak beautifully about feelings and promise a heavenly life, but he will not give anything. It is useless for him to explain that cute surprises are very pleasant to you. He will accuse his woman of commercialism, because he earns money with blood and sweat and is not going to spend money on unnecessary nonsense.

The main factor forcing a man to give gifts to a woman is his interest in her. To gain affection for himself, a man pleasantly surprises a girl: he invites her to the cinema, a cafe, and in every way supports the atmosphere of romance.

Maybe there is your fault too: for example, you expressed your displeasure when he presented a bouquet of daisies instead of a bouquet of roses. The phrases “what kind of broom did you bring me?” Or “it would be better if you didn’t bring anything” instantly discourage you from giving anything at all. And if you immediately throw his present in the bucket, it will greatly offend the man

If a woman demands practicality when choosing a gift, this will discourage all desire to choose something at all. A man wants to surprise with pleasant surprises (if he really wants this), and giving something necessary is more like caring than an attempt to surprise and prove love and devotion.

A man may not give gifts because of his beliefs and views. He can really believe that his beloved does not need gifts (however, like all other women)

He may be insanely greedy about the question of gifts. He is simply sorry for the money spent on flowers and every little thing that he can hardly get. Unfortunately, such a man is not capable of a "practical" gift.

There are men who can "buy off" money so as not to torment themselves with the choice of gifts. They don't even always care if it hurts a woman

If there is no harmony in the relationship, quarrels constantly occur, and the woman now and then reproaches, the man will not give her gifts. He does not want to please the one that hunts him with surprises. A man wants harmony, comfort and care - then he will gladly give something unusual to his chosen one

Those girls who have built relationships in such a way that a man takes them for granted, and not as a gift of fate, can also be left without gifts

Men do not give expensive gifts to those women who stop breathing with joy at the sight of wildflowers, sale dresses, and everything cheap and simple. Those who, due to modesty, cannot express their real wishes, can only rejoice at what they have

C / f "Valentine's Day"

How to act in this situation3

Girls should look at themselves from the outside and analyze how she turns herself from a shy woman into a poor victim. If you save on everything yourself and constantly, your partner will do the same.

Calmly, without reproaches and tantrums, talk to a man on this topic, or simply voice your desires.

If conversations don't help, think about looking for another companion.