It seems to us that we are doing things that should prove our sympathy for the girl, melt the ice in her heart. But, in fact, our attempts deserve a complete dislike. What good can you do to ruin your reputation?
# 1. You add it to all social networks. Of course, it's nice that you are now friends on Facebook and Instagram. But, believe me, your request to Twitter can also alert her. And what if, in real life, you try to deprive her of her personal space and even control her communication at the institute and in the office company? I'm afraid she will think this is too much.
No. 2. You climb into her plate. The scenes of the film look very cute when people feed each other all kinds of yummy. But, for now, her plate is her personal space. And you should be more tactful by invading him. Even if you paid the bill. Better ask permission! In addition, she may be squeamish if you crawl your spoon into her ice cream, and even worse, try to shove this licked spoon into her mouth. And the manner of pulling a piece from under her nose can give the impression that you are eating a lot. Therefore, it is worthwhile to leave as soon as possible so that you do not have to cook with buckets.
Number 3. Discussing and criticizing other women or comparing her. It seems to guys an incredible compliment the phrase "yes, in our office all the women are stupid chickens, and you, by comparison, take off, the queen." But, believe me, you've already sunk below the baseboard. It is among themselves that the girls can make out the bones of all the surrounding ladies, and a man befits all women with gallantry. At least she will not be afraid of what you say about her in her absence.
No. 4. Give banal gifts. Well, the girl told you that she doesn't like roses, and she's allergic to chocolate. Remember!