How To Meet A Man In A Club And What To Say To Him

Do not think that they go to nightclubs only to drink, dance and "rent" someone for one evening. Let's try to figure out how to meet in a club so that we don't have to regret it. Of course, there are also plenty of “strawberry” lovers there, but there is still a chance to meet a decent person. After all, many come there with the aim of having a good time and meeting good and positive people.

There are many examples of acquaintances that began at a club party and ended with a trip to the registry office. And since it is not fashionable to get acquainted in libraries and at exhibitions today, it is difficult to imagine a better place for easy flirting. However, if the ultimate goal is a long-term acquaintance with bright prospects, then it is necessary to take into account several nuances and try to avoid the most common mistakes made by girls.

So, there are some rules that must not be broken so as not to be misunderstood and to avoid misunderstandings.

First: appearance. There is no need to act on the principle "I will put on all the best at once," and use the entire military arsenal of the cosmetic bag. Scientists have long proven that men are simply afraid of bright women. Men rarely approach girls who look catchy and defiant, or with a specific purpose. Of course, no one says that you need to dress like a "gray mouse", but it is still worth observing the measure in clothes and makeup.

Second: carry-on luggage. In the club you will have to pay, preen, you need to freshen up, and you have to put your phone somewhere. So you can't do without a purse. Let it be not that self-respecting ladies' bag that can hold three bottles of champagne and a kilo of oranges, but a small clutch bag with a strap hanging over your shoulder. This way you can free your hands, not feel cramped, and the things you need will be within quick reach.

Third: the nightclub is about music, dancing and fun. You need to go out dancing more often. This is a great reason to show all the advantages of the figure, and at the same time grace, plasticity and the ability to move. Men always pay attention to dancing girls, so it's easier for them to look at them from all sides, and for girls this is a good chance to be invited to a slow dance - that's the reason for dating!

Fourth: reconnaissance in force. If you don't really stick with dancing, you should look around you. Maybe the dream man is sitting at the next table looking bored! How to get his attention? There is a method known to great-grandmothers. You can try to walk by and, as if by chance, drop something. The old world, however, works to this day. A decent man will definitely take the opportunity to help a beautiful stranger, and then a smile, an accidental touch, in general, further, as they say, is a matter of technology …

Fifth, the bar is a great place to start a conversation. Usually people talk and joke with each other while ordering and waiting for drinks, even if they are not familiar. A great opportunity to demonstrate your erudition and sense of humor. In addition, the likelihood that a new acquaintance will treat you to a cocktail is very high. Only we must not forget that it is impossible to exceed the dose of alcohol in any way, otherwise the evening may go according to an unplanned scenario, and it will turn out, as in the saying "There is something to remember, there is nothing to tell children!"

Sixth: the brakes must not be released. If a man begins to actively courting, treating him with drinks, and in general, hinting that it would be nice to continue the evening in a more romantic setting, it is worth a little "back". Without a doubt, such an acquaintance will end with unrestrained sex, but the next morning the hot gentleman will hardly remember the name of his companion.

Seventh: the club itself. It is advisable to choose a place according to the reviews of friends, or to search the Internet for information about this institution. What kind of contingent usually gathers there and what days can you relax on the best. Do not think that nightclubs are only for cheeky youngsters, there are also quite decent places. The main thing is to choose the right day and time, and to take the chance to meet the candidate for husband in the club. After all, many men also go there in search of a soul mate, and often expect girls to show interest and activity.

And the most important thing. You don't need to get hung up on one desire and go to clubs in search of the man of your dreams, because this is a direct path to disappointment. Better to set yourself another goal: for example, have a good rest after a busy week of work or "walk" a new dress and shoes. First of all, it is advisable to charge yourself with a good mood, take your best friend with you, tune in a positive mood - and go ahead - conquer men's hearts. This is the surest way to recharge with positive emotions and at the same time lose a couple of extra pounds on the dance floor. And the fateful meeting will not keep you waiting, the main thing is to believe in yourself and smile!