Why Do Young Guys Choose Older Women?

Numerous dating sites, which are growing every year on the Internet, are full of ads that speak of the desire of young men, guys 20-30 years old to get acquainted with a woman over 40. And if 10 years ago women were ashamed even to think about such a relationship, now this is quite common.

Why do young people prefer adult women? Does this mean some kind of mental deviation? According to psychologists, here we can talk about several factors:

1. A woman in her 40s has far more bedroom experience than her young lover. Thanks to this experience, she already knows what she wants, and therefore can be considered a wise and valuable teacher for the young man. She can form a good lover from an inexperienced youth. If a woman is wise, she is able to overcome the problem of the age gap and turn it into a rewarding experience for both her and her lover.
2. A mature woman is also attracted by a favorable financial situation. She is independent and self-reliant, she can even take care of her lover, from expensive gifts to the full provision of her young partner. And the young man without a twinge of conscience becomes a gigolo, believing that he deserves such an attitude.
3. But among young men there are also connoisseurs of female beauty of Balzac's age. In their opinion, this is intellectual beauty, this is femininity, combined with wisdom, intelligence and illuminated by a positive perception of the surrounding life. No wonder Audrey Helburn said that "the beauty of a woman increases with her years."

Therefore, young men who decide to have sex with a mature woman are not at all reckless. They acquire a caring guardian, an experienced friend, and a hot mistress all rolled into one. And it is not just words. Actress Gina Lollobrigida assured her fans that a woman at 20 can be compared to ice, at 30 she is already warm, and at 40 a woman becomes just boiling water. She can still give odds to girls. How can you treat her if not with love and passion?