Women Who Are Ready To Do Anything For The Sake Of A Man, To Which The Fear Of Loneliness Leads

2023 Author: Miles Ford | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-27 13:10

Jokes about 40 cats and lonely old age can inspire a woman with thoughts about what to do to keep a man near her. Stripes of women's magazines hand out advice on how not to be left alone. Many young ladies, after reading such articles, take it for granted and make the first comer their meaning in life. Women willing to do anything for a man - loyalty or stupidity?

The content of the article

• 1 Comfortable women, where did they come from?
• 2 Signs of a comfortable woman
• 3 Why are women so afraid of being alone?

Comfortable women, where did they come from? I

Oddly enough, but you can become a comfortable woman from an early age, the methods of upbringing are different for each parent and you can easily chop off female curiosity with one phrase forever.

To be comfortable from childhood means not to bring problems, first to parents, then to kindergarten teachers, teachers, not to strain anyone and, as a result, not to cause difficulties for men. Such a position means “to grab, by all means and grab a piece,” but what you grabbed is not important.

It is for such women that magazines write "if your husband left for another, then you did not take good care of yourself," "if you want to return your husband, be cheerful, caring for him, approve of all his undertakings and fall in love with BDSM."

Such a woman is a very comfortable and unpretentious creature, she is docile, malleable, and although her career stands still, she will take over everything: cleaning, cooking, her children and husband are always well-fed and ironed. She is a great wife, she is highly appreciated but not noticed. Is this picture familiar to you?

“Women who are ready for anything for the sake of a man” - earlier this phrase immediately arose an association with the wives of the Decembrists, love, heroism, feat. Now the spectrum of associations has shifted towards the running aunt, who carries all the diseases on her legs in order to cook borscht for her husband.

Signs of a comfortable woman2

1. In every incident or quarrel, she will look for her guilt.
2. She builds plans for the future and ordinary affairs in the first place, taking into account the opinion and interests of a man.
3. He will come up with a bunch of excuses for his beloved, even if he offended her.
4. Indulges his weaknesses, forgetting about his desires.
5. I am ready to spend the last effort so that the beloved does nothing, but at the same time he is loved and appreciated, the fact that she fell in love with him and made him rich is not noticed.

She forgot about everything: her hobbies, friends, education, goals for life, books, interesting projects. He just sits and reads in magazines how to do better for him.

Life in itself no longer plays with its former colors, because he appeared next to him and he must be kept near him. Now she is a woman, ready for anything for the sake of a man and nothing, and no one else exists around.

Why are women so afraid of being alone? 3

The first reason is stereotypes. The sidelong glances of friends, reproaches from those closest to you, all this, of course, is a matter of tactlessness. But, being constantly under psychological pressure, a woman may subconsciously come to the conclusion that she is doing something wrong. There is a desire not for the relationship itself, but for the very status that she is in the relationship. It's just the need to fill the void around you with someone. And from this begins self-sacrifice so that the man does not go anywhere.

The second reason is energetic "vampirism". This phenomenon consists in the desire to make someone your meaning of life against the background of the fear of loneliness. A woman needs a man, not in order to build a strong alliance with him, but for - unconscious psychological games.

As an example, she will do everything around the house, saying at the same time that he will not pour a bowl of soup without her, although in fact no one asked her to take on all the responsibilities. Thus, she does everything for her partner to be irreplaceable to him.

This behavior is fraught with neuroses and an unhealthy need to love someone. Such women constantly want to pay attention to someone, they strive to please 100% and go out of their way to achieve this goal.

Man is a social being and total loneliness is not inherent in him. But when a woman imposes on herself the responsibility of caring for someone, just not to be left alone, the question arises about her psychological health.

Women, ready for anything for the sake of men, go for plastic surgery, exhaust themselves in gyms, try to be interesting not because they want to, but in order to find a man for themselves. Such a woman is unlikely to be sincere with her partner, she will tolerate everything that she does not like, she will not have her own point of view.

But, over the years, the goal to fill the spiritual void can be replaced by other desires. And the realization that you could not rush to look for a man for yourself, just to avoid loneliness, can catch you by surprise.

In such a situation, you should not at all succumb to the reproaches and tactlessness of other people.

Why answer their questions like: "Why aren't you married yet?", "How long can you be alone?" You'd better ask them, "What do you care?", Answer the questions to yourself: "Is loneliness suffering or a path to your Self?"