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Video: There Are Never Too Many Girls: The True Psychology Of Womanizer Behavior
In the modern world, where permissiveness goes beyond all permissible boundaries, the presence of several girls in one man is the norm. Not for everyone, of course, but still. Among the people, such specimens are simply called womanizers. Women are indignant here: what makes a man have relationships with different girls and be proud of it? Why has this become the norm and how to deal with it? Men, in their defense, can say that there are never many girls and will be right in their own way. How can you explain this behavior of men and what can you try to change if you meet a real womanizer on your way?
The content of the article
- 1 Find out the main reason
- 2 Where do legs grow from?
- 3 Does it make sense to change such a man?
Find out the main reason i
Let's try to find out the reason why a man has many girls at the same time, but does not enter into a serious relationship with any of them. One of the main explanations is that a man cannot fully realize himself in a certain field of activity, in particular, in relationships. A man has not learned to truly appreciate a woman, her beauty, inner world and the care that could surround him.
A man does not know how to build relationships with a specific woman, does not know and does not understand what is the meaning of relationships between people. And if he does not know what is the meaning of the relationship between a man and a woman, he does not know the value of trust between people. And in relation to a particular woman, he shows an unwillingness to take responsibility. He has only one goal - to use the beauty and feelings of many women.
After all, they try to protect what is valuable for an ordinary person. For a man-womanizer who believes that there are never too many girls and regularly changes partners, relationships are of little value. Therefore, he easily spends his energy not looking for a new victim, instead of developing a relationship with one girl. Feelings in such relationships are only superficial and are limited to bodily contact. And if a man does not have a serious and trusting relationship with one woman, he can hardly realize his male potential in any area. In the process of promiscuous relationships with other girls, the guy loses his principles and moral qualities, which can negatively affect his future well-being. Changing partners, a man is constantly looking for happiness, although he does not know what it is.
No matter how much you use the personal qualities of women in your own interests, there will be no benefit from this. A woman can never open up completely and become really close to a man. And this, in turn, will not give the relationship a chance for development. And by acting in this way, a man can never be happy. Men, who themselves admit that such a lifestyle suits them completely, have a different opinion. They are sure that by regularly "trying" different women, they will eventually find their only one, which they can fall in love with and go through life. But this is known to be a misconception.
Where do legs grow2
It would seem that two boys are growing up in a full-fledged family. They go to kindergarten, then to school, study at the institute, serve in the army. And so, one of them has been happily married for a long time, raising children, and the second continues to change partners like gloves, and is in no hurry to start a family and take responsibility for the happiness of his wife and children. What is the reason? It would seem that the guys grew up in the same conditions, but their values are different. Genetics, family relationships and the environment are to blame.
Previously, people were raised by society. Now the era of information technology has come, where people are not imposed on moral values. First of all, children need to set an example of a good family and instill a sense of responsibility for their goals and actions. It is especially important for boys to instill a sense of leadership and purpose.
Does it make sense to change such a man? 3
As a rule, men who have several women at the same time have natural charisma. And women are just drawn to such specimens. If you fall in love with a man who believes there are never too many girls, you can change him. But this is a long and painstaking work. Yes, there are exceptions when one day a womanizer meets his woman and calms down, completely revises his values and becomes an exemplary family man. But there are only a few such cases and you shouldn't really count on it.
First of all, a girl needs to show a man what a real deep relationship can be, where people value and respect each other. A man should understand that he can be happy next to you. If he likes this state, he will begin to change himself at the subconscious level. Well, if a man still does not appreciate your efforts and continues to look at short skirts and long legs, do not waste your time. There are specimens among men that will never change.