Why Does A Man Not Leave The Family, But Wants To Have A Kept Woman?

In our society, many women dream of marriage. But, not many people know that for men this very step (to offer a woman to become his legal wife) is not at all easy. But, now the family has been created, time passes and an interesting need appears. This need in our time is expressed simply - to have a kept woman, but without encroaching on marital status. Why is that?

The content of the article

1 The reasons why he does not leave his wife?
2 Then why is he looking for a kept woman?

The reasons why he does not leave his wife? I

Well, first of all, the wife of her husband's house can be, first of all, his friend or business partner (or the daughter of this very partner). A man can be emotionally or realistically dependent on his spouse. They do not leave such people, they live "happily ever after" with such people. Moreover, the wife is already a tried and tested "partisan". She will not betray or sell important information about the business, if only because it feeds joint (read - her) children.
Second, the wife can be part of a man's personal "ideal" self-image. That is, the ideal should have, among other things, a wife, two children of different sexes, a house, a car, a yacht … Therefore, the usual woman in the status of a wife remains for many years. And, if it more or less remains in the proper niche and does not interfere, no one changes it.

Thirdly, and most importantly, you can really feel feelings for your wife. If only because too much personal energy, experiences and emotions have been spent on it. Do not believe the husbands who say: "I live with my wife for the sake of children, I do not even sleep with her." In 85% - this is a complete lie. The wife is preserved as a sexual partner as well

Then why is he looking for a kept woman?

So why, with all this, does a man want to find himself a kept woman? Because, in addition to pleasant moments, the wife often becomes "silent proof" of the aging of the man himself. Looking at himself, a man feels himself still "hoo", looking at his wife of the same age, he understands that "time cannot be stopped." Remember the famous joke: "It's not as scary to become a grandfather as sleeping with a grandmother"? This is just from this opera.

In addition, the novelty of the relationship is lost. A man always wants to surprise. Well, how to surprise in marriage in the third decade of marriage?

There is another option - they take care of their wife. Well, she doesn't want to have sex in the style of BDSM. And bruises from handcuffs can be misunderstood by children and the environment. So why not find yourself one that is ready to experiment for a generous reward. Moreover, they want to leave this woman for a certain time, and not be limited to one time. After all, you might even like it very much, why should you look for a new one every time?

A kept woman for a man is an opportunity to plunge into the atmosphere of a masquerade, try on a new role, and experiment. But, at the same time, many representatives of the stronger sex prefer to return to their familiar, proven and psychologically “safe” environment. It is for this that they avoid mistresses who can claim a different status and bring scandals into family relationships.

They are looking for kept women who do not touch their privacy. And they are even willing to pay for a certain game. Or for the fact that it is impossible to change these very mentioned wives. For example, for eternal 18-year-old charms in your bed. After all, a spouse is able to look great, but still her age will not “freeze” for any money.

In addition, it is not for nothing that they talk about a kind of "professional deformation" of any person working in a certain area. Have you noticed that the tone and expression of the school teacher is different from the way other people communicate in real life? Doctors often sin with black humor. Models feel uncomfortable without make-up. And the list goes on and on.

So businessmen want to solve their problems in the way they are used to - with the help of "discussed and agreed on mutually beneficial terms." Without long courtship and wasting time on speculation or omissions. From you - this, from me - this. And then home, because the family remains a family.

Therefore, when deciding to become a kept woman, it is important to psychologically adjust yourself correctly. This is a job. Not a relationship, not love. Leave the illusion of "marrying a sponsor". The less personal emotions you have, the easier it is to understand and feel what your benefactor wants, and the more fruitful your relationship will be.