Video: Why Do People Get Divorced And Is There A Way To Prevent It?
Of course, each person, when complaining to their friends, puts forward their main reason for divorce. But, meticulous sociologists still decided to highlight several compelling reasons, in the opinion of Russians, that lead to a break.
So, our citizens put social problems in the first place. Living together for several generations does not add romance and cohesion to a couple's relationship. As you know, the young have already forgotten why they had a fight yesterday, but everyone around them reminded them of it three hundred times more.
Abuse is becoming the real scourge of our reality. And if alcoholism is still in the first place, then all possible chemical addictions, as well as gambling and computer addiction, are now becoming the reason for the divorce of many close people.
Many people put treason in the fourth place of the reasons for which marriages break up. But, psychologists have long had their own opinion on this matter. Lovers and mistresses do not just happen. Why look to the left when everything is fine? But if there is tension or problems in the family, new hobbies only speed up the process of separation.
By the way, psychologist and family counselor Alexei Sivov names a number of signals that the marriage is bursting at the seams.
- If all conversations in the family come down to the needs of children or animals, as well as paying off necessary payments, you should not be surprised if your significant other (and perhaps you yourself) has had another lover for a long time.
- If you are eating in the presence of a gadget, and not chatting with your significant other.
- If you are not financially dependent on each other and understand where you can live separately.
- And the presence of an only child over seven years old indirectly indicates the insecurity of your spouse will grow old with you.
You can find out more about why people get divorced in our article below the link.