How To Understand That A Man Is Cheating? Why Is This Happening?

Relationships between a man and a woman, especially a love relationship, cannot exist without trust. But, unfortunately, this full trust is not always present. Girls are more sensitive to emotions, therefore, as a rule, doubts about trust creep into a woman's head. Then the girls begin to doubt whether it is worth trusting 100% their life partner and how to understand that a man is cheating.

The content of the article

• 1 Observation
• 2 Social networks
• 3 Talk
• 4 Gestures to help you

Men are of 3 types:

• Honest - try not to deceive, even in small things, because they do not know how to lie;
• moderately honest - they always try to tell the truth, but on occasion they can inventively and believably lie;
• pathological liars - lies have already become a habit and often they themselves do not remember who and what they said, the truth or an invention, and which one, for them deception is a kind of creativity.

According to statistics, if you suspect that your man is cheating on you, most likely he is. Women's intuition is much stronger than men's, so it rarely fails, in such cases it remains to figure out the scale of lies.

Why do you think your man is cheating on you? Pay attention to what became the catalyst for this thought, he spends less time with you, became irritable, cooled towards you? But all this may well be due to problems at work, since it is clear that a man is cheating on you.

Observation i

Take the position of an observer, do not focus on your thoughts, just watch how your young man behaves. It is possible that his behavior has changed a little due to work or some kind of conflict has occurred, and you yourself have already decided something incomprehensible.

But if your thoughts are not groundless, you will be convinced of this very soon. Pay attention to whether your man is late for home, how regularly, whether he is late for a long time, whether he is hiding his phone from you, perhaps a password has appeared there that you do not know. Your man is annoyed by questions and your increased attention. This is the first bell.

Social networks2

If your man began to pay more attention to the phone, he always receives some messages that he reads with a smile on his face and enthusiastically types something in response, is there anything else to say? If you have access to your young man's social networks, then it is better to use this to calm yourself down or take off the noodles that he hangs on you. But before that, try to talk about it and find out the reason, perhaps he finally found some old friend, and now they remember past deeds and you have nothing to worry about.

Again, it is worth considering if before you had free access to the pages and correspondence of your man, but now he began to hide them and in general is ready to snatch his phone out of your hands almost along with your fingers.

Talk3

If you live together, then you constantly communicate, but how to understand that a man is cheating with the help of these conversations. As a rule, people who are hiding something are constantly in tension, especially around the person who is being deceived. Therefore, their speech becomes slower, deliberate, so as not to inadvertently blurt out too much. Or, on the contrary, they do not hear half of what you say to him, and answer inappropriately, because the head is busy with other thoughts.

It is worth paying attention to the manner of communication, if before your partner constantly gesticulated during a conversation, but now he is afraid to move a finger too soon, it means that psychologically he has erected a framework for himself that his body cannot cross, a framework of deception most often. Also, the timbre and volume of the voice may well change or change during the conversation.

Gestures to help you4

Our body also has its own language of communication, which does not deceive, especially if it is not conscious, but you need to be able to read it correctly. Ask the man a provocative question and watch his actions. If he plans to deceive you, then most likely he will need time to figure out what to say to you, so his eyes begin to run in search of a clue, his hands begin to roam the body, shake off non-existent motes, fiddle with sleeves and pull on a jacket. Lively facial expressions are also possible, a man will bite his lip or simply lick his lips, also a kind of prey of time.

As a rule, in stressful situations, a person begins to blush, sweat, turn pale, fall into a stupor. Cheating is also a stressful situation, especially if a man is trying to hide his mistress, and his wife suspects her presence and is actively looking for her. In men, in such situations, the cheekbones often turn red, and the floor protrudes on the forehead.

Even if a man is lying to a woman and is used to doing it all the time, no matter how professionally and masterly he does it, sooner or later he will give himself away. If you can't catch him, but the worm of doubt does not give you peace of mind, you can try to catch his friends, since close friends know something for sure. In a casual conversation, try to catch and draw out the information you need, or at least some hint that will allow you to draw the right conclusions.

Read about how to maintain trust in a relationship while it is still possible in our next article.