The Girl Chose Another Or How To Resurrect Phoenix From The Ashes?

2023 Author: Miles Ford | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-05-24 12:19

If the relationship in a couple went wrong, and the girl chose another guy, then her ex-lover may think that life is over and nothing good awaits him anymore. In this moment of despair, he simply does not remember that this is the end of almost every second love story. Therefore, the question is not about how to prevent such an ending, but how to improve life after parting with the cheater.

The content of the article

• 1 Why does a girl choose another?
• 2 What shouldn't an abandoned guy do?
• 3 How to revive Phoenix from the ashes?

Why does a girl choose another? I

1. Each specific situation of betrayal or change of partner has its own roots. Below are the most popular ones:
2. The longer the couple is together, the more claims people accumulate towards each other. Over time, even the most loving ones take off their pink glasses and are surprised to realize that their object of adoration is very far from perfect.
3. It is only at the beginning of a relationship that differences in social status, age, upbringing and religion do not play a big role, but over time, all these differences can become a significant stumbling block.
4. Different life values, guidelines and views on creating a family, raising children, etc.
5. Women don't like to sympathize with their men's weaknesses. Partners in love can put their partner's desires above their own, fulfill any of her whims, put up with a disrespectful attitude towards themselves. Thus, they stop being the leaders in the relationship and lose the respect of their lady.
6. If a girl does not love, then she, in fact, does not care what feelings her partner has for her.
7. According to psychologists, cheating can be a spontaneous and uncontrollable action, and changing a partner is a well-considered decision. This means that either the guy was little interested in the life of his other half, or because of his love, he simply did not notice how his girlfriend's attitude towards him was changing.
8. If a girl chose another guy, more wealthy, it is not because she is attracted by the amount of money that he has at the moment, she simply sees in him the makings that allow him to always be “with money” and adequately support his wife and children.
9. If a man is confident in himself and has leadership qualities, then he will always be more interesting than his competitors.

If a woman preferred another to her partner, then the former lover should analyze the situation and understand what exactly he did not suit his partner. Perhaps he should work on himself (pump up, change the style of his appearance and clothes, take up education and self-education) and his ex will herself crawl to him on her knees. But even if this does not happen, the new and improved abandoned guy will be able to find a more interesting girl for himself.

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What shouldn't an abandoned guy do? 2

1. You shouldn't stop your girlfriend and promise her to fix everything. And if she still left, then there is no need to call, send SMS, beg to come back and do everything that turns a normal man into a doormat.
2. If you show how much she is needed and how hard it is to live without her, then, most likely, she will decide that she made the right decision, having parted with such a nun and weakling.
3. The worst thing you can do is post sad statuses in social. nets, in the hope that her heart will tremble and she will return. This behavior will only raise her self-esteem and amuse others. Besides, a real man will never give reason for self-pity.
4. Ask the ex about the new boyfriend and find out what he is better. So you can lower your self-esteem below the baseboard and give your ex the opportunity to once again be convinced of the correctness of their choice.

How to resurrect the Phoenix from the ashes? 3

1. As the people say, "they knock out a wedge by a wedge". Having met new girls, a man can really make sure that the light did not converge on his former passion.
2. close friends and noisy companies will help you forget about a bad love experience.
3. Now you can do what was previously forbidden, namely, make new girlfriends and openly meet with them, call up and correspond. You can remember your favorite hobby, which was banned, for example, fishing, going to the bathhouse with friends, sitting in the garage, etc.
4. After parting, a man has a lot of free time that can be used more effectively, for example, work more and climb the career ladder. Surely the former, having learned about the successes of her abandoned friend, will still tear the hair on her head and regret her mistake.

Bad romantic experiences are still rewarding experiences. In the future, it will allow you to really look at girls and love relationships.

You can change your attitude to the problem by remembering feng shui. A little rearrangement in the house and the disposal of unnecessary trash will bring a stream of fresh air into life, which will help clear thoughts.

On a cool head, you should analyze your relationship with a loved one and understand exactly when and by whom mistakes were made. Having made certain conclusions, you can be sure that they will not be repeated in the future.

If a girl has chosen another guy, then after the feelings have cooled down and the emotions have subsided, it is worth understanding that everything is already in the past and there is no return to him. When one door closes, several others open at once. One of them is the future, you just need to choose the right one.