Anyone Who Has Changed Once Will Certainly Do It Again: Is It So?

The question, the controversy over which, never ceases. Someone, out of the kindness of their heart, forgives betrayal, in the hope that the person will change. Someone is used to burning bridges and not giving a second chance. Either way, there is no clear guideline, and it is unlikely that one will ever appear.

The content of the article

• 1 Sensational statement
• 2 Research and results
• 3 How to proceed?

It sucks to be deceived. But if your partner has a "predisposition" to cheating, and you pretend not to notice this, closing your eyes to all the signals, this is already your problem. You can help someone who wants it. If a person is ready to forgive betrayal, there is nothing you can do about it.

Another case is when a person really does not understand whether his partner is capable of betrayal. It seems that there is no catch, but everything is somehow restless in my soul. A study comes to the rescue confirming the saying "The grave will fix the hunchback."

Sensational statement

A new study, published in the Archives of Sexual Behavior, argues that someone who has had love on the side at least once in their life will definitely do it again. Before you fall in love with someone or decide to take a more serious step with your partner, it's a good idea to find out if your crush has been unfaithful to your former partners.

Research and results2

Any statement must be confirmed. Moreover, such an actual one. The study involved 1,300 people between the ages of 18 and 35. Participants were required to answer questions about their romantic relationship for five years.

The poll showed that 44 percent of participants cheated on their partners. Of this number, 30 percent admitted that they also cheated, and 18 suspected infidelity, but did not know for sure.

Now for the important part: Researchers found that after one single cheating, over 45% of the subjects began cheating on a permanent basis. Scientists say that the probability of "going left" after the first betrayal increases by about 3-4 times. Well, disappointing statistics. Now you understand how important it is to know about the past (or present) of your soul mate in order to protect yourself from trouble in the future.

How to proceed? 3

If your partner has ever been unfaithful to you, be on the lookout! Don't step on the old rake. It is not a fact that a person will change again, but it will cost him great efforts not to repeat past mistakes.

But again, let's not generalize. All people are different, and it is at least silly to measure everyone with one ruler. Perhaps the partner stumbled once, was unconscious, or fell under the bad influence, as a result of which he ended up in bed with another person. Of course, this does not justify him, but perhaps it gives the right to a second chance - it's up to you.

The Forbidden fruit is sweet. But there are many such people who, after the first betrayal, do not look towards the opposite sex at all. They tried - they didn't like it. How do you know that your partner is from this particular series? No way. Paradoxes of life. Because of this, people often trust someone who does not need or break the connection with someone who really stumbled. The problem is that we never know in advance who is in front of us.

Just take a note: if a person "went left" only once, he rarely settles on one affair. But, not the fact that your partner will do it all the time. In general, good luck in making difficult but correct decisions. Well, now you know that there is some truth in the ancient saying, so it's best to wind it up. But you should not treat this as an axiom, but rather as a relatively possible event.

Read everything you need to know about a healthy attitude towards cheating in our article at the link below.