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Video: How To Understand That A Man Is Cheating. Is There Cause For Alarm?
Any married man, no matter how an exemplary family man was, at least once in his life thought about treason. Psychologists who work daily on the problem of cheating in the family are confident that even the very thought of cheating will affect a man's behavior. Which will primarily affect his attitude towards his beloved woman. And maybe already to the unloved one.
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1 Causes for alarm
Most often, a woman knowingly begins to suspect her husband of hiking to the left. And, as a rule, guesses are not empty. How to understand that a man is cheating if no evidence was found against him? After all, often those who are not averse to sharing a bed with another woman successfully disguise themselves and think over everything to the smallest detail.
Women are delicate and sensitive natures. If a woman suspects her husband of treason, then, most likely, not without thoroughness. It's another matter when a woman herself does not distinguish between her thoughts and feelings, because in a stressful situation it is quite difficult to act judiciously. It is very good when female guesses remain guesses. Another situation is when ambiguous signs are systematically observed behind a husband or a young man, which in one way or another make one think about his loyalty.
But why the husband's betrayal is dreaming, you should find out in our article further on the link.
Causes for alarmi
Women very often force her husband to confess to treason, without even showing him more than one fact. The thing is that a woman has a very well-developed intuition. And even if she does not notice clear signs of treason from her husband, most likely, in her guesses, she will be right. But what if a woman is initially very jealous and by nature is accustomed to suspecting her husband of all mortal sins?
From this it follows that one must believe in obvious signs and facts. And how many articles and women's forums have already been re-read, where the signs of male infidelity are specifically listed. There are even lists that contain a list of what a girl should pay attention to. But these concepts are so ambiguous and cannot be applied in the same way to every situation.
What factors of male behavior should you pay attention to? Among all the reasons, direct and indirect signs can be distinguished.
1) Frequent and close communication with another woman. Suddenly, out of nowhere, a man may have a new interlocutor - a former colleague, an old friend, or just an acquaintance. Close communication with her should already alert an attentive wife. At the same time, a man may move away from his wife, which will lead to resentment and quarrels. In turn, the husband stubbornly insists that he is not interested in a new acquaintance as a woman, he behaves with her like a sister, etc. - in general, standard phrases for men.
2) Regular delays after work. If a man began to constantly linger after work, go on business trips on weekends, more and more often leaves home under the pretext of going to the bathhouse or fishing with friends, or stops spending time with his family altogether - this is an occasion to think about his possible betrayal on the side. After all, as a rule, instead of a bath and fishing, a man sleeps with another woman.
3) Chilled feelings for his wife. Naturally, in any family there are moments when, against the background of misunderstandings and conflicts, interest in each other disappears. Over time, sex happens a couple of times a month or even less, the man stops paying attention and giving compliments.
He often prefers to be alone with himself. In this case, the factor is not excluded that he has already removed the thirst for communication with another woman.
4) Direct facts of treason. Clear evidence of flirting with another woman or infidelity is SMS and calls from other people's numbers, intimate correspondence on the phone or social networks. As a rule, only one man out of 5, upon presentation of these facts, immediately confesses to the deed. The other 4 are trying to vaguely explain or cheat, change the conversation to another topic, or, on the contrary, go on the attack, reproaching the wife for using other people's phones.
How to find out about a man's betrayal is quite simple. And then what to do with these guesses and knowledge, which will eat up from the inside and cause complete distrust in the relationship? In such situations, emotions and jealousy rule us, which further exacerbates the situation and prevents us from making the right decision.
If we consider it objectively, all of the above factors can both confirm the fact of betrayal and deny it. And even if a woman called a man and you heard her voice in the receiver, this does not mean at all that the chosen one is cheating. Maybe this is really an old friend, for whom he has no views and perceives her exclusively as an old acquaintance.
It is necessary to try to bring trust to a high level, so that later you do not play Agatha Christie and do not look for evidence of treason.
The most common reasons why men are cheating are collected in the article at the link.