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Video: Is Content And Commercialism The Same Concept?
For many men (and women too), kept women remain a kind of synonym for absolute commercialism. Is this really so, we understand from a psychological, sometimes even a philosophical point of view.
The content of the article
- 1 What does content mean?
- 2 And where does the commercialism?
So, commercialism is defined by dictionaries as excessive prudence and selfishness. Therefore, from the most exaggerated side, a relationship when a girl receives money for her time (and not just sex) looks just quite mercantile. But, this is only the most superficial view. And we, as inquisitive people, dig deeper.
What does content mean? I
What is sponsor girl content? This is, first of all, the formulation and fulfillment of certain requirements by them. And although there is a lot of discussion about these things, it's not just about sexual preferences. A girl is chosen with certain interests, hobbies, intelligence levels, or even a degree of shyness (imagine, but this is also in demand).
The sponsor gives preference to those applicants who were able to attract attention, who are suitable for certain parameters. After that, the nuances of the relationship are discussed. That is, it says what the girl should do, when, how much, and what is categorically unacceptable. Stop. Doesn't it look like anything?
To me, this is very similar to a job interview. And in fact, it is so. After all, the relationship with your sponsor and the efforts that will be made to preserve and extend these relationships become daily affairs (read - the production process). Not sex on a conveyor belt, but improving yourself as a girl. Where does it all start? That's right, with a properly filled out questionnaire (or a kind of resume, as you wish).
If you look from this point of view, then all people hurrying to work in the morning are materialistic. After all, for their efforts, they want money for their lives. But is this "excessive prudence"? Rather, a necessity.
In addition, if we ask people what associations this notorious word "mercantile" evokes, they are likely to talk about something related to deception. A simple example, we go to the market and buy apples. We understand that we will pay money for them and do not consider the seller to be mercantile. But, here is our colleague invites us to the dacha to eat apples just like that.
And then it turns out that he is doing this so that we pay for gasoline, remove the entire garden, and even make a report for him at work. And that's when we get a sense of deception. And we are ready to accuse such a friend of prudence. The same thing happens with relationships. When a woman swears her love, and then gives out a whole list of "necessary help" - this is real prudence. But, nothing like this happens in a duet sponsor - kept woman. The contract is initially built on fair terms.
And where does the commercialism have to do with it?
Why are kept women still classified as mercantile girls? It's all about our cultural heritage. First, it was not customary to evaluate oneself independently. This was considered a kind of bragging. Remember the thesis that "you need to be more modest"? Secondly, it was not customary to ask a man directly.
On the contrary, the representative of the stronger sex himself decided how much to "make happy" his passion. After all, that's why he is a stronger sex. As a result, we have a lot of women who are struggling with constant lack of money, and even urged in the sluggishness and squandering of their men.
But, these prejudices are a thing of the past. Now we are convinced that we should not let everything go by itself. On the contrary, the level of aspiration is directly related to the level of a person's success. If a woman values herself highly enough, then others will treat her the same way.
If a man does not behave like a breadwinner, does he have the right to demand from a woman everything that she can give him? And it doesn't matter how their relationship is called - marriage or content. So let's not hang labels, and finally get the opportunity to enjoy and get what we really want and deserve.
After all, no one forcibly pulls either sponsors or kept women. And you should only listen to the opinion of third parties if they themselves are in the subject. And even then, taking into account personal bias. After all, as they say, the taste of capers can only be argued with those who have tried them …