A Man Gives Money To A Woman: Reasons And Rules Of Behavior

Sooner or later, any girl who is in any relationship with a man will be faced with the fact that he wants to give money. This can be either a direct gift of crispy bills or a transfer to a bank card, or some other type of payment for items or services. For example, he pays for a girl in a movie, although they seem to be not so close and she did not ask him about it. Why does a man offer money and how should one react to it in order not to get into an awkward situation? In the course of social surveys, it was possible to find out the opinion of the men themselves on this issue, so you should not worry about the reliability of the data.

The content of the article

• 1 Reasons for offering money
• 2 Rules of behavior for girls

Reasons for offering money

Surprisingly, many ladies, for one reason or another, take the fact that a man wants to give money as a matter of course. But these are only the costs of upbringing, in which the parents instilled in their daughters that they are the very best, and everyone around them owes them. But not all are like that, and it pleases.

Among the ladies there are many who do not know how and do not want to accept other people's money, not realizing the significance of this gesture for the offering man himself. But a woman's refusal can hit their pride, even if they just offered to buy her ice cream. In Europe, this has long been gone, where both men and women pay for themselves, this is the norm, this is the influence of equality. But some people suffer from this.

What do men say about this? And they themselves admit that they want to spend money on girls. They want to give them gifts, show signs of attention, this is their nature and they cannot resist it. If historically and evolutionarily a man was the one who gave care and protection, then girls were the ones who accepted this care and protection.

Nothing has changed over the years, and the fact that the modern social policies of some states go against natural instincts is not a good thing. Men who are prevented from exercising their evolutionary masculinity suffer from it.

Here is what one of the men interviewed in the social survey replied:

“I am pleased to make gifts to a woman. I'm not trying to buy it, as many people think. Even they themselves think that if a man gives them money, he wants to get some benefit from it. This is not entirely true. If a man wants to give a girl money, pays for her, gives gifts, then he makes a contribution. With the help of money, he becomes attached to her in a good way. It is difficult for a man to express his emotions, so he found a way to do it - with the help of money. After all, it is with the help of them that he can show his care, attention and love. With the help of expensive gifts and generosity, he says that such a woman is important to him."

That is, if a man offers money, then he expresses to the girl his interest in starting or developing a relationship. For him, this is more than just spending. As the survey participant put it, this is an investment that is designed to win a girl over to his side, to convince her that he can be trusted, that he wants to take care of her, that he does not feel sorry for one of the most valuable resources in the world for her.

And, accordingly, if a girl for some reason rejects his gift, a voluntary expression of affection, then it becomes very unpleasant for him. You need to understand that men and women are different. Representatives of the stronger sex usually express their thoughts and feelings with the help of such straightforward actions.

Rules of conduct for girls2

Of course, before making any decisions, you need to make sure that the man is really interested in developing the relationship, and not just wants to bribe the lady for his own benefit. This also happens, you do not need to discount such a probability. Since a man expresses his feelings and intentions through actions, but from his first gesture (offering a gift) it is not very clear what he really means, you need to go a little further and accept this very gift. And then just watch the developments.

If a man continues to look after the girl, will continue to give gifts, then he is probably interested in a relationship. The length of this process is important here. Anyone who just wants sex will usually not spend a lot on a potential partner. In his opinion, if she does not go to bed with him after a couple of gifts, then there is no point in continuing with her. And his interest will instantly fade away. But if this period lasts for a long time, then this indicates a very serious interest of the man.

A very useful article on how to care for a girl properly and decently is already waiting for you on the link.

Many ladies find it uncomfortable to accept gifts because of modesty or shyness. But they need to learn to do this in order to give a man the opportunity to express his masculine nature. There is no need to condemn it or try to somehow fight it, as feminists in the West do. They are so obsessed with equal rights that men simply run away from relationships with similar women. Such persons simply do not allow a man to realize his natural potential. And, thank God, such a tendency in its unhealthy form has not yet reached Russia.

It is normal for a woman to ask for and accept help. You don't need to seem like a strong, independent and unapproachable lady, because this will alienate potential male candidates (of course, if this is not the woman's goal). Many men value traditional views of relationships and social roles. And they want to give care to girls, and, moreover, they want their care to be accepted. Girls should not resist nature and, albeit with caution, accept men's gifts, because there is nothing wrong with that. After all, he wants to give money himself, why stop him?

But do not go too far and start asking your partner for money on your own. This will be a signal for a man that his trust and care is neglected, putting material goals above them. Of course, you can ask, but unobtrusively, not large sums, and it is desirable that the girl could objectively explain to the man the benefits of this purchase. The argument that she just wants to usually doesn't work. In most cases, the man offers money and gifts on his own. If he does not do this of his own free will, then this indicates the extinction of his interest.

And, of course, we must not forget about caution. If a guy or a man immediately begins to literally shower his new partner with gold and gifts, then this is an alarming sign. It may well be that some kind of normal relationship will not work out with him, since he is wasting large sums of money so senselessly.

Of course, he can have an almost unlimited number of them, but the very fact of such an attitude is an unpleasant sign. In addition, a man can be stingy and greedy, and for every gift he will want to receive something of equal value in return. For example, many are sure that it is enough to buy a girl an iPhone and she becomes their personal servant. Such people should be avoided.

In general, you can accept gifts from men. You can even say that this should be done if the man is handsome. After all, gifts during the candy-bouquet period are a sign of a direct romantic interest of a representative of the stronger sex. And if a woman wants to continue a relationship with him and move on to something greater, then she just needs to learn to accept his material signs of sympathy and attention. Well, if the girl does not feel affection for this young man, then she should simply give up all this.

But why a man does not give gifts, you can find out in our article further on the link.