Do Not Judge Others, But Look At Yourself. About Folk Wisdom

Almost half of all women fantasize about other men in bed, according to a study by British sex toy manufacturer Love Honey. I can imagine what a wave of outrage rose among women after the publication of the results of the study. After all, many of them will perceive them as an accusation of “treason”. But facts are indisputable things. The survey found that 46% of women fantasize about another person when having sex with their partner. Although men are also not a mistake: 42% of them also imagine themselves with another woman.

It turns out that many women are disingenuous when they blame their partner for all sins. As the proverb says: do not judge others, do not look at yourself. There is only one thing that can reassure women: only 1,300 women were interviewed, which hardly reflects the real picture. Well, if the results do not deceive, then you need to look for reasons. And then the conclusion immediately suggests itself: the man who is not able to satisfy his partner in bed is to blame.

But blaming each other is like throwing the ball. There will be no result. We need to look for a way out of this situation and change the tactics of behavior during sex for both men and women. You need to recognize each other's desires. But here's the catch: if men calmly talk about sex and openly talk about what they want in bed, then women usually keep silent about secret desires, thinking that the partner himself must understand what his beloved is dreaming of.

But in any case, if a man does everything to make a woman feel like a goddess next to him, she even out of gratitude will answer him with the same card. And, of course, he will stop dreaming about other partners. Well, women also need to be more energetic. Maybe it is worth taking an example from the actress Halle Berry, who does not wait for her partner to figure it out, but takes the initiative into her own hands.