Ask A Girl About Her Mom And It Will Determine The Course Of Your Relationship

We are accustomed to the fact that in family matters, psychologists, sociologists and sexologists help us build good relationships. But, more recently, America's most famous family lawyers published their advice. Faced with a lot of unpleasant breakups, they decided to talk about what to be interested in on their first dates.

So, it's not a sin to ask about relationships with immediate family members, advises Karla Schiff Donnelly. Imagine, but annoying mothers spoil the life of young couples even overseas. What can we say about our realities ?! But, Karla argues, it is no less bad if the girl finds herself in a fundamental quarrel with her mother. This may indicate an inability to forgive and be tolerant of other people's mistakes. And such maximalism often destroys families.

But the tactful Carolyn Si Van Tyne advises asking the girl about her last vacation (resting place). This will help to clarify several points at once. How much is a woman fixated on her work? (And then, perhaps, she will not have time for family and children). But the other pole is vacation that does not correspond to the level of income. If you understand that a girl not only lets down everything that she earns, but also makes huge debts, you should not build a relationship with her.

Asold Miller, on the other hand, advises asking a number of questions during several dates, which relate to clarifying the main thing: how much a girl understands that relationships are work, and not just bouquets and sweets. You may ask how easily she breaks up with friends who have offended her? Or ask why her past relationship did not work out. But, Miller warns, humans tend to grow. Therefore, if a girl admits that sometimes she is hysterical, but is actively working on it, that is very good.