What Shouldn't Be Said And Done In Front Of A Man?

2023 Author: Miles Ford | [email protected]. Last modified: 2023-11-27 13:10

Men are much more vulnerable than it is commonly believed. If you do not want to cruelly offend him and plunge him into the abyss of despair, remember these rules:

His dignity is not a joke. He can be infinitely confident in himself and easily make fun of himself, but this topic should not be touched upon

It is also necessary to weigh compliments on this part of the body according to the mind - do not overdo it with diminutives, he is unlikely to appreciate it. Praising its gigantic dimensions, if in fact it is not, is also unnecessary. He will either understand that you are flattering, or he will take it for a mockery.

Any doubts about his masculinity, he will take with hostility. If you want to ask him about something, you do not need to throw phrases like "well, you're a man!" He had already heard enough of this in childhood, when he tried not to sob over a broken console or broken knees. In the heat of a quarrel, you should also not throw reproaches towards his masculinity. In this way, he will inflame even more and even forget how the quarrel began

• Do not in any way compare him with other men. No, if this comparison is in his favor, then the path is open. “My friends complain that their men don't know how to listen. How lucky I am to have you attentive! " - its OK. "But Irina's guy goes to the rocking chair three times a week, does not drink or smoke, not like you!" - whoa, whoa, whoa!
• You don't want him to remind you that Irina cooks as a chef of a Michelin-starred restaurant, and does things in bed that other porn actress never dreamed of? And even more so never. Under no circumstances. Don't compare him to your exes. Otherwise, you run the risk of running into a response: "Well, why did you leave your wonderful Victor?"

Do not criticize his family in any way. If he complains about his mother's overprotection or his father's ridiculous behavior, just listen to him silently and nod sympathetically. Do not allow yourself harsh remarks towards people close to him. As much as he loves you, if you allow yourself attacks towards his mother, he may change his mind to lead you down the aisle. What if you start a fight at the wedding and dip his mother's face into a three-story cake?

Being able to support a man when he feels bad is sometimes more difficult than helping a friend to piece together a broken heart. In no case do not lament, wringing your hands. He is already feeling bad, and he hopes that you will disperse the clouds over his head. Do without phrases like: “I warned you! I told you! But no, you didn't listen to me! Himself to blame! " In all honesty, at least one person in the world has been reassured by such attacks? Hardly

A man doesn't always need advice. Finding himself in a difficult situation, he wants to receive warmth and affection from you that friends or work colleagues with whom he got into trouble cannot give him. Support him and hug him. Now he most of all fears that you will be disappointed in him and leave him for a more successful male. Let him know that you are on his side and believe in him. Do not get into his soul and let him be alone with his thoughts. You can also open a can of beer and order his favorite pizza.

Forget all sorts of ultimatums as a nightmare. In no case do not forbid him to communicate with friends and do not criticize them. Are they really such idiots, or does jealousy speak in you? And even if your friends seem like idiots to you, you can't do anything about it. He also doesn't like all your girlfriends? But he smiles patiently and holds on tight under the bombardment of their questions. He doesn't even sweat a lot when the liveliest of your girlfriends asks him about the wedding, staring at him predatory

Good relationships with friends are the key to a happy life. Psychologists argue that the absence of friendships prevents a person from feeling satisfaction in life. You only wish him well, right?

Do not flirt with his friends at all. Have you decided to build a good relationship with them? Commendable! But do not cross the line between friendly jokes and outright flirtation. Your man will not be happy with this turn of events, and your friends will not be happy either

Don't eat his brain with your complexes. First of all, he's tired of complimenting you. “Yes, you are beautiful. Yes, you are slim. Yes, you have beautiful breasts. Your lips are wonderful. Yes Yes Yes…". Secondly, the abundance of complexes is not sexual. Thirdly, you will achieve your goal, and he will see all your flaws

You were hoping that he would begin to vehemently persuade you and shower you with compliments, and he would cast a fresh gaze on you and notice everything that he didn’t care about before. What the hell is it to you, you tell me?

Don't check his phone or read his messages. It looks pathetic and maddening. Jealousy is good only in moderate doses. Constant tantrums and mistrust look more or less aesthetically pleasing only in Brazilian TV shows - you gesticulate like that, slam the door, and he runs after you, his hair back. Passionate music plays, he catches up with you on the street, and you kiss on the seashore

In real life, he will simply throw one obscene epithet in your direction (rhymes with "crazy") and go to friends, whom you, by the way, also infuriate.