Mercantile Men And How To Avoid Them. Tips For Girls

Very often you can hear men's complaints that girls have now become very demanding, mercantile, they think only about the finances of a man and expensive gifts (for themselves, not for men). Surely there is some truth in this. However, it is also extremely curious that nowadays, mercantile men also began to meet quite often. Although it is worth noting that gigolos have always been. That is, the phenomenon of commercialism is characteristic of both sexes.

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1 How to minimize the danger

What is the trick of mercantile men? They won't ask for a Tiffany ring, they don't care about a brand new iPhone. Mercantile can most likely be called a man who marries the daughter (very often beloved and only) of a successful rich dad; who achieves that a loving woman supports him for a long time, buys him cars, an apartment, pays his loans. For some it may be wild, but it happens, and quite often.

Sometimes women so want to see only the best in their "princes" that they do not notice the obvious things. In some cases, you can secure yourself by creating a marriage contract. If a man is offended and categorically refuses to sign the document, this is more than a good reason to think. An adequate man, seeing the difference in income, will understand everything, although at first he may also be a little puffed up.

We'll tell you why guys sometimes become like girls in our next article.

How to minimize the danger

In the meantime, it has not yet come to the Mendelssohn's march, some simple rules should be followed.

• Yes, everyone has hard times: anyone can be fired, or a crisis at work. But wait too long for better times to come. There is no need to delay and maintain a man on a permanent basis (although here it is already worth taking a closer look, we are talking about commercialism or infantilism. Which in any case should not be tolerated). Why give all your money to a man's debts or needs? After all, there are all adults here who are able to feed themselves and earn for all their needs.
• If you want to make an expensive gift to your man, you need to assess the situation sensibly: if he does not give anything but stars in the sky, and you are going to please him with a new Lexus…. Well … Of course, men need to make gifts, you just need to reasonably judge how much the chosen one is worthy of this gift (no matter how awful it sounds).
• Many wealthy ladies arrange such checks: when they meet, they absolutely do not advertise their income, rather, on the contrary, they diligently hide and mask it. For example, on a date they offer to go to the cheapest cafes, they come not by their own car, but by metro. Of course, such a technique will not eliminate problems by 100%, but in any case it will reduce the level of mercantile men in their personal lives.

Intuition has been a good helper for all women throughout the centuries. Yes, evidence does not always have a tangible shell, sometimes you need to listen to the sensations. Or even to the advice of girlfriends. It often happens that just people from the outside can notice what the lover does not want to notice

It has become commonplace now when a guy, having nothing, is looking for a wealthy girl with a good dowry as a bride. Basically, it's not that bad. One side. After all, everyone wants to live in comfort, not to wait for a few years until you can buy an apartment yourself. And in a metropolis it is extremely difficult to do it. The problem here is precisely the desire to come to everything ready-made and at the same time will not hit a finger on his finger.

Unfortunately, it is not always possible to calculate a mercantile man right away. Most of them try to take care of themselves, they look neat and well-groomed; sometimes they pay expensive bills. True, the tales are told by the corresponding ones, which all boil down to one thing: “dear, I’m generally rich and a tough owner of a company / I’m about to execute several awesome business projects, but specifically now there is a debt, the ex-wife is a reptile, some gangsters are threatening … So, darling, such and such an amount is urgently needed, "and so on.

The essence should be clear, it is about the same everywhere: a loved one urgently needs money. True, more than once. And regularly. And the woman is trapped, because, because of her natural sympathy, she seeks to help her loved ones and loved ones, and how can one not help when they are surrounded with such beautiful words?

Of course, mercantile men, like women, will always have too diverse relationships between the sexes. In order not to get hooked, a woman must now learn to love and respect herself first of all, and not to hold on to the first comer "would be nice next."

It should be understood that such men take an example of their behavior from childhood. Often, they simply did not have a picture of a happy, complete family, where both loving parents are present. In most cases, the father in such a family, if he was, was a tyrant, an alcoholic. Or the child was not loved in the proper measure, but only “bought off” with gifts. And they didn't ask for anything in return. The "wonderful" relationship that a man now repeats in his adult life. Paragraph

Of course, mercantile men, like women, will always have too diverse relationships between the sexes. In order not to get hooked, a woman must now learn to love and respect herself first of all, and not to hold on to the first comer "would be nice next."