Why Women Themselves Do Not Know What They Want And How A Man Should Be With It

The study of the human psyche is still under way. Women themselves do not know what they want from life, relationships, self-realization. Men are confused by the behavior of girls. The fair sex wants courtship, after which they consider it an imposition.

The content of the article

• 1 Biological aspect
• 2 Examples of behavior
• 3 Rules for men

Biological aspect

The roots of the problem lie in the distant past, where people were still not far from monkeys. The females were eager to mate with the alpha male, who was strong and healthy. It was possible to give birth to good children from him. Modern ladies have retained this need at a subconscious level.

The existence of humanity is complicated by social constructs. Men have ceased to be sources of valuable seed. They must provide certain resources:

• protection;
• care;
• money, etc.

In theory, an alpha male could have it all. Accordingly, many women apply for it. It is still possible to divide finances between them, but with care and time this will not work. Therefore, it is obvious that the chosen favorite will demand loyalty.

But there are always many females around the alpha male - this confirms his class. Subconsciously, a lady evaluates the status of the chosen partner by his popularity with the weaker sex. Therefore, when after the wedding the husband becomes a family man, the woman seeks to find a new dominant male.

In the subconscious of the girls, there are two opposite desires - a faithful, devoted spouse and a demanded womanizer. Together, these constructs cannot get along, hence strange reactions appear.

Examples of behavior2

Ladies tend to look for a dirty trick in everyday things. As soon as a guy brings a bouquet of roses, a box of chocolates or invites him to dinner at a restaurant, like everyone else, a council of friends is convened. They are looking for the reasons for such an act, trying to rationalize it. The option “he wanted to please his beloved” is dismissed as unreliable.

Incorrect upbringing, social stereotypes inspired the girls with the idea that if a guy behaves well-mannered, correct and romantic, then this is clearly a marker, if not a maniac, then a little crazy. A man may wonder why women avoid him, but the point is that he is too good.

The feminist revolution has done its job. Girls get used to being independent, demand equal rights, offers to treat them with a cup of coffee is perceived as an insult. They jealously guard their personal space and this scares off potential partners.

Women willingly give advice, share problems, but rarely transfer them to their lives. If the conditional Maria advises her friend to be decisive, to lead the future spouse with a firm hand to the registry office and not give him a chance to escape, then in her personal life she will never do that. There will always be excuses.

Men perceive everything straightforwardly, simply, calmly. Having received the messages "I'm still busy", they will not bother a friend, they will take up personal matters. With ladies, everything is different: each emoticon will be regarded as a message with a double or even triple bottom. Especially alarming is the "prints" icon for a long time. 3-4 words will come, then the man is obviously hiding something.

The fairer sex love the outside world. Therefore, it is important for them to emphasize the relationship with the guy - likes, joint photos, endless stories. She needs all these attributes to confirm her "busy" status.

Rules for men3

Since women themselves do not know what they want to decide for them, the guys will have to. The main principle: "you should always listen to yourself." If a lady wants to be constantly with a man, then in fact she wants to be alone. Therefore, she is left alone longer, in which case the meeting will be tantamount to a holiday.

In feelings there is a maximum of positive, passion, emotionality. Expensive gifts with or without reason, passionate declarations of love, crazy actions - all this will make the girl scream with delight.

Show popularity with other women. To do this, it is not necessary to go for treason, flirting and cute flirting is enough. Attacks of jealousy will be a confirmation of the right path.

A woman may not want a relationship for various reasons - psychological complexes, modesty, bad experience. You can become her good acquaintance, but without becoming a friend. Otherwise you will have to be in the eternal friend zone.

In order to achieve location, you need to become her ideal. For this, it is better to find out her tastes, preferences and create an image. Subconsciously, all women dream of being conquered. The reasons for this lie in the animal nature. Males fight among themselves for the location of the female.

Girls rarely communicate directly what they want. You will have to develop the ability to perceive hints, manipulations, etc. If she persistently talks about a ring, then most likely she wants to receive it as a gift.