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- You should not count on a quick marriage if on the first date a man declares that "the family is not for him." This may not sound straightforward, but many sayings carry a similar meaning. He can describe in paints the "suffering" of his friend, who, after marriage, ceased to belong to himself (in fact, this friend is most likely immensely happy with his passionate wife and shies away from gatherings with friends, preferring another kind of leisure). A man can speak negatively about children, remember the unhappy marriage of his parents or friends. In all such statements, it can be noted that marriage for him is a restriction of rights and freedoms, and the creation of a family is not included in his immediate plans
Video: How To Understand That A Man Does Not Marry: The Main Signs
The word marriage is not very beautiful in sound, but so desirable for the overwhelming majority of the female population of the planet. How to understand why a man does not want to get married, that creating a family is not included in his plans, and that efforts to seduce this instance will not lead to the cherished goal and will not end with Mendelssohn's march? To do this, you need to know the nature-conditioned characteristics of men that affect the desire to marry.
Every girl in dreams imagines herself as a beautiful bride, a caring wife, an ideal mother. For women, marriage is a dream and a goal that allows them to realize themselves, to feel their need and significance.
And the men? For them, marriage is bondage, where the wife constantly pesters, does not let them go fishing and demands money with a rolling pin in her hands and with curlers on her head. Children interfere with sleep, watch football, they need (oh, horror!) To change diapers, and later go to parent-teacher meetings. And everyone needs to be supported, working tirelessly, forgetting about the bathhouse, the sports bar with friends and all the other joys of big boys. Fearfully? But, praise to common sense, the family in this view exists only in anecdotes and tricky male jokes. But, in every joke …
The reason for such differences in attitudes towards marriage lies in the difference in mental and physiological qualities inherent in nature in representatives of different sexes at the genetic level. With the emergence of man as a biological species, evolution provided men and women with a different set of genes and chromosomes in accordance with their purpose and role in procreation.
With women, everything is simple and clear. They needed to attract and keep the strongest male. From him, the offspring are tenacious, the cave is large, it will be able to protect it from enemies and it will bring a mammoth. For this, the fair sex is given cunning, tenderness, seductive forms, the ability to cry and naively clap their eyes.
Men had to acquire the skills necessary for a fruitful hunt, protection from enemies and procreation. Hence the classic masculine qualities: physical strength and endurance, the ability to orientate well, practical and pragmatic spatial thinking, sexual activity, a desire for adventure and travel. A sedentary life in a cave with one female could not allow a real man to throw out all the adrenaline and fulfill his destiny to the fullest.
Modern men have pacified their aggressiveness, they no longer need to chase mammoths and defend their territory. And women still strive to acquire a strong and reliable partner. Only now legally, marrying. Therefore, the applicant for a wedding ring needs to know how to understand that a man will not marry. And as early as possible, until time has left its mark on the face and figure.
The following are basic examples of male behavior and statements that make it clear that a man is not getting married anytime soon.
You should not count on a quick marriage if on the first date a man declares that "the family is not for him." This may not sound straightforward, but many sayings carry a similar meaning. He can describe in paints the "suffering" of his friend, who, after marriage, ceased to belong to himself (in fact, this friend is most likely immensely happy with his passionate wife and shies away from gatherings with friends, preferring another kind of leisure). A man can speak negatively about children, remember the unhappy marriage of his parents or friends. In all such statements, it can be noted that marriage for him is a restriction of rights and freedoms, and the creation of a family is not included in his immediate plans
- The couple does not have a joint future if the man in every possible way avoids talking about this very future. Most likely, he himself has not yet decided what he wants from life, what are his requirements for women and for what purpose he, in general, lives. You can, of course, wait until he is determined in everything, maternally directing him in the right direction. But everyone grows up differently. And it may happen that by the time of his "maturation" the existing, but already fed up partner, will not correspond to the image of the desired wife.
- How to understand that a man will not marry will not be a question if we analyze his attitude towards his partner. Inattention to women's experiences, anxieties and joys, unwillingness to discuss topics that are significant for a friend indicate a man's lack of interest in a woman as a person. Most likely, she is valuable as a comfortable constant lover, but a man is not at all interested in her thoughts and experiences.
- Having lived together for some time, you can also understand that a man does not marry, analyzing his attitude towards living together. If it is easy and convenient for a guy to live together without a stamp in his passport, then why should he take this crucial step? He already has regular sex, a clean house, delicious food and an attentive companion. Such a man can be persuaded to marry if he has really serious feelings for his girlfriend.
Men and women are very different due to their historical natural characteristics. But every person (and man too) changes, reconsidering their views. It is necessary to believe that every beauty dreaming of marriage (or just a clever girl) will certainly hear one day the cherished "marry me".