Table of contents:
- Impossible to give up love
- Different mentality2
- Language barrier3
- Different perceptions of the family4
Video: Is It Worth Building A Relationship With A Foreigner And What Could Be The Consequences
Men love with their eyes and this is a well-known fact. They like everything beautiful, and especially incomprehensible. Therefore, so often in the lists of male sexual fantasies, a possible relationship with a foreign woman appears.
The content of the article
- 1 Impossible to give up love
- 2 Different mentality
- 3 Language barrier
- 4 Different perceptions of the family
At the same time, such a desire is quite simply realized. It is not only Russian women who dream of a rich and handsome overseas prince. Russian men are valued all over the world. The image of the “Russian hero” attracts women from all over the world and it is sometimes difficult not to take advantage of it. Moreover, a man is pleased when his masculinity, strength, a certain savagery are appreciated.
But is it as cool and easy as in the pictures that a man's fantasy draws? Let's try to weigh the pros and cons.
Impossible to give up love
It happens that this feeling overtakes a person absolutely suddenly and it is unlikely that something will work out with it. At first, it is quite possible to go with the flow. The candy-bouquet period is rarely overshadowed by digging in a partner, quarrels and conflicts of interest. But after it comes a period of deeper knowledge of your soulmate. Here is a man who has chosen the difficult path of building a relationship with a foreign woman.
Many people generally deny the existence of a national mentality. But, no matter how we deny, there is a difference between people from different countries.
In principle, love relationships are a rather difficult system, requiring constant work on themselves. And the relationship with the "exotic beauty" is complicated by obvious differences in the perception of the surrounding world.
The problem can come from where you don't expect it at all. History and past of the country and the society that lives in it. It would seem that what was, that was. But our past shapes our future as well. Many of the habits of today's Russian are determined by upbringing based on the experience of his parents. And our Soviet experience leaves a rather noticeable imprint.
A conversation between two lovers is the basis of a harmonious relationship. Even with a Russian beauty, it is not always possible to immediately establish contact. Quarrels often arise due to the fact that you simply did not understand your partner. What can we say about the fact that the language barrier separates you with a foreigner.
In any conflict situation, it is extremely important and at the same time difficult to clearly define your position. It will be much more difficult to convey your opinion to your beloved using a foreign language.
Likewise, expressing your love is not an easy task. In moments of emotional experience, even joyful ones, thoughts get confused. You will have to work hard to competently express all the tenderness and awe that you feel in relation to the chosen one.
Even if you yourself or your partner speak a foreign language at an excellent level, there are many such turns in linguistics that you cannot learn in courses or cannot be found on the Internet. Pay attention to this fact, you should be patient in order to master the language at such a level in order to achieve complete mutual understanding.
Different perceptions of the family4
In Russia, patriarchal building of relations is an undeniable norm. Most men are used to being leaders in the family. All important decisions are made individually, a woman must look after the children and create comfort in the home nest.
How hard it is for international couples who were not prepared for the clash of interests in this zone. Let's say you fell in love with a hot Spanish woman or a sophisticated French woman. At first, it may not even be noticeable how much they differ from our ordinary Russian girls. But it is worth digging deeper and a whole flurry of stunning discoveries can fall on the head of a male in love.
Europeans value their personal space as much as possible. Feminism reached Europe much earlier than our country. Would you like dinner? There is a million and one restaurant food delivery service. Dedicate all your free time to cleaning? You can also call the cleaning agency for help. Sit with children? Why then did mankind invent such a noble profession as a nanny?
This is just the tip of the iceberg. Foreign ladies, formed in the conditions of a progressive civil society, react sharply to the invasion of their personal comfort zone. It is clearly not worth infringing on their rights. In this case, they simply turn around and leave, or suffer greatly from the pressure characteristic of the Russian. For them, independence is important, the opportunity to self-actualize in what they love. In their countries, it is simply not customary to give up your career and settle at home in the status of "housewife and lovely mommy."
No one disputes that all of the above aspects can be overcome. The main thing is to be ready to put in serious effort. Be patient, because for the sake of true light love you can always make various sacrifices.
And what foreigners think of Russian women and Russian men, you can find out in the next article! Follow the link further!