Table of contents:
- Beautiful moment4
- Pros of mistresses5
- Reverse side of the medal6
- The future of the "secret lady" 7
Each person has his own life purpose. Someone becomes a happy family man, devoted to the family; an inveterate bachelor who gladly grows a garden, a single mother who has dedicated her life and love to children, and someone finds himself in the role of a sugary mistress. The last “marital” position of the “second lady” is firmly entrenched in the modern world.
The content of the article
- 1 Terpila
- 2 Vent
- 3 Scapegoat
- 4 A beautiful moment
- 5 Pros of mistresses
- 6 Reverse side of the coin
- 7 The future of the "secret lady"
- 8 Last
Everyone has mistresses, regardless of status and financial situation: politicians, movie stars, small businessmen, locksmiths and transporters. And for the “sweet position,“women in secret”choose the most diverse contingent, depending on taste and preferences. And, nevertheless, what is the life of a mistress, sweet, full of exciting adventures, or sorrowful expectations, torment and experiences?
Each woman has her own life path, along which they came to the role of a mistress. There is no one standard line, as well as one reason why a respectable lady becomes a secretive "kitty" for amorous pleasures. The life of a mistress, like her position in the formed triangle, differs from the life lines of behavior and the status of “like-minded women”.
It is worthwhile to figure out how the fair sex takes on this "difficult path"
“Darling, beloved, unique” is the very case when a woman really loves. She could inflame feelings for a colleague, neighbor, friend of mutual acquaintances, boss, "an interesting little man from the Internet" or meet her first love. But the fact remains - this is love. And, alas, he is married. He has: a wife and children, a house and a mother-in-law, a dog and a cat, a household and a tractor. To leave all this for the sake of unearthly love, the man does not dare, therefore, instead of a hand and a heart, he offers his beloved condoms and a key to the dacha. He does not forget to please the "lady of the heart" with warm messages on the holidays, showers with attention, heartwarming conversations, and firm assurances that he will definitely divorce. For example, when the children grow up, the wife will retire or recover (in such situations, a large number of “very sick and vulnerable wives come across),the mother-in-law will move to another country or the cow will calve. The main thing is to inspire hope for "living together" in the distant future. The mistress looks like a sad and unhappy lady, sitting sadly at the window, hoping to see a miracle in a man's coat and with a suitcase.
"Nobody loves me, nobody understands" - the motto of the unfaithful spouse, who is bored with marriage and there is an acute lack of new experiences. There is great interest and sexual attraction to the mistress. He has fun with her, cozy, comfortable and warm. Perhaps, in a domestic circle, a man takes the place of a dry and tough tyrant, but with a "secret lady" the warmest feelings and emotions awaken in him. He pampers "bunny and kitty", day and night complaining about a grumpy wife, most likely "an ugly woman who does not know how to cook, and in bed every day pretends to be dead." It can be very busy monsieur, wealthy laborers who are resting with another woman and soul and body. Mistresses are well-groomed, self-confident beauties. They do not have special feelings for the "sponsor", but nevertheless, they are ready to fulfill any man's whim,to please the "cavalier". Such a life of a mistress is full of continuous pleasures: pampering, dressing, fulfilling whims, helping finances. The mistress lives for her own pleasure, takes care of herself, beloved and does not care about the future with this "partner".
Category from the category: "What are you so impudent!" - when absolutely opposite cases happen. The man is a respectable family man. He also cherishes his wife, and spoils the children, is helpful with relatives, smiles at his neighbors, feeds the yard dog for slaughter. And then she appears - a devil who awakens in him animal instincts: rebellious, sharp on the tongue, the complete opposite of his wife. She may be a disgusting hostess, a mediocre cook, but he is drawn to her like a magnet. With her, adrenaline, passion, release of emotions.
At first, the unfaithful spouse takes care of the future mistress according to all the rules: flowers, gifts, trips, but then, gradually tying the girl to himself, he ceases to invest financially in the development of love meetings. Men’s behavior also changes. Polite and considerate with his wife, he becomes rude, jealous and unforgiving with his mistress. With her, the wildest dreams and the most hidden corners of the male soul come true. Seeing the attachment of a woman, a man feels himself master of the situation. If the impudent and rebellious soul of the "secret lady" asks for freedom, her attempts are suppressed in every possible way.
A married lover will not disdain insults and assault to keep her under control. Gradually, even the most enamored ladies realize that they are in a cage. They live in constant "fight" with the "boyfriend". The joint future life no longer tempts, and they are ready to return the husband to the faithful wife on a gold platter with a blue border. The young ladies do not look happy, and sometimes with a "painted" face.
Option: "Unfinished novel". A lover for a certain period of time. Business diva or resort lady. When a man is away from home for a long time, he temporarily finds a young lady for amorous pleasures. Usually, this is a pleasant woman who understands the essence of things, treats his family with respect and does not plan for the future. The novel does not last long, but tender and romantic, leaving a heap of pleasant memories. The couple breaks up a little sadly, but warm and unproblematic. The man fulfilled his "wrong duty" with honor, the woman adorned his everyday life with pleasant communication, passionate hugs, warmth and special charm. Not two are satisfied, but three people: he, she and, nothing suspecting, his wife.
Pros of mistresses5
Most women strive to find a suitable partner, get married, equip a home nest, give birth to babies and enjoy family comfort. But there is another type of women who purposefully choose the life of a mistress. They find a lot of advantages in this position and will not exchange erotic stockings and a glass of champagne for an apron with daisies and a pot of borscht.
What, in fact, young, and not so, ladies, find the virtues of their position? They can list a sea of tempting pluses:
- Mistresses are always welcome. They are wanted, loved, longed to possess their body. A man goes to her of his own free will, and not because they require obligations and, some kind of, conjugal duty.
- Mistresses don't have trouble. They don't cook dinners for the darling's work, they don't wash their shirts, they don't burden men with everyday problems. If the "secret friend" is at the stove, then it will be the preparation of a romantic dinner, and not the daily pasta or soup with meatballs.
- Mistresses are always well-groomed. She does not run early in the morning to kindergarten, putting on a coat over a dressing gown, does not swarm in the garden, in stretched sweatpants and a crumpled kerchief. The mistress is always dressed up in the sexiest outfits, made up and graceful.
- Lovers are pampered. It is with your wife you can save on the purchase of winter boots in order to take the secret young lady to a cozy cafe, but you cannot do this with your mistresses. They need gold trinkets, all kinds of "goodies" and other nice things. They are pampered like little girls. And wives are adult women, and can be patient.
- The mistresses are sponsored. Many lovers invest in the material needs of the "lady of the heart": they pay bills, utilities, fill the refrigerator with food.
The life of a mistress, it would seem, is like a fairy tale, but it's not so simple. And in the position of "secret friend" there are pitfalls.
Reverse side of the medal6
Do not think that the life of a mistress is like a magical melodrama.
There are also disadvantages in sexual relations on the side, and, moreover, they are quite significant.
- No matter how much the "second lady" loves her, and no matter how faithfully she waits, surpassing Hachiko's patience, a stranger's spouse, in most cases, remains a stranger's spouse.
- Condemnation of loved ones, friends, relatives, colleagues, neighbors, the priest of the local church … Gossip and sidelong glances will be in abundance! The bitter word "Razluchnitsa" is firmly intertwined with the sweet name of the young lady. She will not protect herself from the conversations of her relatives, and every time she meets them, she will observe a reproachful look and condemning, curved lips.
- Some of the "benefactors" may notify the spouse of the unfaithful husband. A desperate woman, having caught her husband of infidelity, is capable of much. Pulling out curls and scratching the well-groomed face of a mistress is only a small part of the case. In some cases, the wife is like a beast. She should be feared and avoid any contact with her. Only the minimum number of prudent spouses who will not humiliate themselves to a showdown, the maximum will honor the mistress with a cold look. Or, instead of squabbling with the "homeless woman", they will prefer to fry pancakes for dinner, for the husband who has come home from work.
- On holidays, when the family prefers to gather at the family table, loneliness awaits the mistress. Some "free" women spend time in a cheerful company of girlfriends, but sooner or later, the desire to see a "dear" person nearby will take over. And, he has a family that he will not leave on a holiday.
- And finally, the lack of a family. Time goes by, sooner or later a woman will want to have “her” husband and a couple of cute toddlers. However, in rare cases, the role of a mistress smoothly flows into the state of a spouse. Most often, unfaithful husbands do not leave families, and a mistress cannot create a relationship with another man due to circumstances.
- She has no right to call her beloved at any time of the day to "hear his voice." There is a big ban on calls and messages.
- A mistress should not be jealous and throw tantrums. No matter how the heart squeezes at the thought that this beloved "fat man" is being hugged in a dream by another young lady, she has no right to speak on this topic.
One of the disadvantages can be called her "free - not free life." A man will not tolerate flirting with other individuals of the stronger sex on her part. Despite his "marriage" position, he will be jealous and stress his girlfriend, as he considers her his property.
The future of the "secret lady" 7
The life of a mistress has several variants of the ending. Yes, some do marry their lovers. And this relationship does not always lead to a happy marriage. Firstly, Madame knows about her partner's polygamous nature, about his hobby “to walk to the left”. She turns into a jealous wife, who harassed him even more with her jealousy than her ex-wife.
In other cases, the man leaves the unfortunate mistress and finds a new one. If there were no special attachments in the couple, everyone is satisfied: he finds a new "goddess", she - another "sponsor". Thus, lovers wander all their lives, from one "pendulum" to another, left without children, grandchildren, and a loved one, who is commonly called a husband.
The most faithful lovers remain in a secret relationship for the rest of their lives. Usually, such unions exist with more mature couples, when each of them has their own children and acquired property. The family is not destroyed, they do not give oaths of allegiance, but they are so accustomed to "being together" that they do not find reasons and grounds to part. So they delight each other with secret dates until old age, until the Security Council separates them.
The life of a mistress is full of exciting encounters, passionate nights and romantic adventures. Other women: family dinners, last year's worn out shoes, boring evenings with watching the same type of melodramas and monotonous sex. And in the life of a mistress, bright colors play: trips to parties and restaurants, a variety of partners, financial assistance, an update of the wardrobe every season.
The mistress is whirling in a whirlpool of love passions and languid embraces. She does not watch melodramas, but in her own life creates dizzying "scenes" for films. Her life sparkles and shines, and there is only one drawback in it: so sometimes you want simple family happiness.