Male Jealousy: A Sign Of Great Love Or Does He Want Power?

Is jealous - means he loves? But often the manifestations of jealousy are far from the manifestations of love. Total control, interrogations, aggressive behavior, awkward situations, mistrust of friends, restrictions in communication - familiar? This is male jealousy, you can't breathe from it. Scandals from scratch devastate, annoy, and take by surprise.

To begin with, it's worth figuring out whether his suspicions are so groundless and why is a man jealous? If you have a crystal clear reputation, there is not a single reason to doubt your loyalty, then it is worth analyzing his behavior: apparently he is mistaken, wants something from you subconsciously. Well, if you have a lot of male friends and colleagues with whom you flirt like “hello”, or you often go to guests and restaurants without your spouse, there is nothing to be surprised. This is a normal reaction of a normal man.

Even the fact that you do your makeup only before leaving the house, and you go with it exclusively washed, can raise suspicions. Thoughts may creep in about you losing interest in him, and therefore, he switched, possibly to someone else.

Jealousy is a manifestation of love, to some extent, but in the case of men, it is a disease similar to depression or phobia. You will find the opinion of experts on the psychology of jealousy in our article. In no case can you provoke such men, because games with such a character are dangerous (not far from a fatal outcome). First of all, you need to be patient. Then slowly and carefully take the following actions:

Introduce him to all your male friends and acquaintances, if necessary, bring him to work or corporate, introduce him to colleagues.
All your plans should be in plain sight for him, nothing can be hidden. Without finishing something, forgetting to warn about any meetings or delays at work, with your girlfriends, you provoke the next fits of jealousy.

Lack of self-confidence makes many men jealous, and setting up another, more successful or wealthy friend as an example is equal to suicide.
Modesty in bed is a guarantee of your own safety. Too passionate impulses can be regarded as a secret desire of another man, and a man will regard new positions, interesting techniques as a fact of treason.
Go to meet him - spend more time together, it will turn out to kill two birds with one stone: to win him over and reduce reasons for jealousy. In addition, the husband will be pleased with your presence, because the reason for everything may be a banal lack of attention. Male jealousy will gradually fade away.

The best defense is offense - let him know the horror of the situation. Start calling him, inquiring about business, meetings, with whom he communicated, where he was, how long, why he dressed like that, why the shirt is dry and does not smell at all … Such a watch, monitoring the phone, the schedule will become a very transparent hint that jealousy is strong annoying, annoying.
Surround your jealous person with love - show that he is the most important thing in your life, be gentle, attentive, kind and condescending. Praise, romance, calmness, entertainment together will change the picture for the better.

In turn, men would like to say: do not treat a woman as property, then it will be difficult for another to appropriate her. Crushing a woman's personality, forbidding her to wear heels, makeup and open dresses, is not correct.

In the end, such prohibitions will sooner or later provoke an explosion: either she will spite you, or, having gained resolve, she will leave altogether. This will be the right decision, because life with such a difficult person can further lead to something terrible.