What If A Man Offered Money?

Many women / girls do not know how to react when a man offered money … Some fall into a stupor, others reluctantly take, and still others ask: what is so little? In part, the reaction depends on which man did it: his own, just an acquaintance or a stranger. We are not talking about difficult life situations when an offer of money can follow from any simply sympathetic person.

The content of the article

• 1 Money is male energy
• 2 If a woman does not take money …
• 3 The man offered money for sex
• 4 You can't refuse to take

We are talking about the relationship between a man and a woman. For example, when a woman meets a man for a short time, and, waking up in the morning, finds on her nightstand near the bed "a certain amount" … Or, having met in a bar, a stranger offered money for the night spent with him, or perhaps the offer followed in the morning. Or a beloved man offered money for some thing to please his woman with a gift.

All these are completely different situations, therefore, the reaction to them can be completely different. Psychological professionals and practicing interpersonal relationship coaches give different assessments of how to respond if a man wants to give money.

Money is male energy

Money is masculine energy shared by a man with a woman, according to coaches organizing "female energy pumping sessions." In their opinion, if a woman does not take money from a man, she does not allow him to be a man, and herself - a woman. The exchange of energy is thus disrupted, and the relationship does not stick.

A man in this situation does not value a woman and does not value her, because he has not invested anything in her - such an opinion can be heard in many "women's courses". Money is a man's energy, therefore, if a man offered money, it is necessary to take, but not just take, but thank a man, coaches teach. In their opinion, in addition to sincere gratitude, a woman should be able to ask for money from her man, especially if the man himself did not do it.

If a woman does not take money … __8230

If a woman does not take money, she is forced to compensate for it at her own expense - with her own energy, psychologists say. She begins to work hard, turn on male thinking and spend her feminine energy at work. In this case, the man will lack female energy, and he will try to compensate for this by turning to another woman.

This is how mistresses appear, psychologists say. Therefore, accepting money is a natural process for a woman, especially in family relationships. If a woman does not take money from her man or finds it humiliating when a man offered money, this is a clear sign of low self-esteem, experts say.

If a woman does not take money from a man, including not allowing her to pay for herself in a cafe, or pay for her taxi, in which she got to the man, while at the same time, spreading rot on herself and asking questions - is it convenient? What will he think of me? I am not like that! - all these are thoughts of a woman / girl with low self-esteem. Improving self-esteem is a very relevant topic. This can be seen in the comments on various blogs of experts and psychologists who cover this topic.

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The man offered money for sex2

If a man offered money for sex - be it for one night or a long period, it means only one thing - the man does not want to be in debt. Like this? - many women do not understand, who believe that if a man offered money for sex, this somehow affects their honor. In a man's picture of the world, everything has to be paid for, and if he understands that he cannot offer a woman anything (care or a relationship that any woman requires), he offers money.

And some women, especially young girls, agree to this, because in this case, they do not count on a relationship with this man, do not take them seriously, do not make plans for the future, but simply satisfy their needs. By the way, partly in this situation, girls do not feel used, as they receive money instead of care / relationship.

You can't refuse to take 3

When a man offered money, a woman must assess the situation, listen to her system of values and decide - you cannot take, refuse or take, you cannot refuse. Only her own experience, her feelings and common sense can help her make a decision. Because no one can decide for her. If a woman does not take money from a man, then she needs it or not. Perhaps she was brought up according to certain canons or has certain views.

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Today, with the increase in emancipated women and the popularity of feminism, it can be assumed that for women with an appropriate value system, this question - whether to take or not to take, if a man offered money, does not arise. Because for them, taking money from a man is to admit their dependence on him, and this is contrary to their values.

Consider all the reasons why a man gives money to a woman and how to properly accept it in our next article.