The Main Mistakes Women Make When Starting Relationships With Men

Any relationship is difficult. And the most difficult stage is their beginning, when you need to somehow conquer a person, bind him to yourself, enlist his sympathy and convince him that there is no one better. Not everyone copes with this task equally well. Especially in this matter, girls are "good", who very often ruin their barely begun relationship with their own behavior.

The content of the article

• 1 Mistake one: commercialism
• 2 Mistake two: arrogance
• 3 Error three: availability

There are three very gross mistakes women make at the beginning of relationships with guys, which they continue to commit from time to time, breaking their hearts both for themselves and their partner. And there is no person who will tell them how to do the right thing, so they continue to add new names to the lists of former partners. But then there is this article that can accomplish this task.

The first mistake: commercialism

All men are sure that girls only need money from them. But this stereotype did not arise from scratch - the women themselves created it with their arrogance and short-sightedness. It just so happened historically and evolutionarily that it is normal for a woman to choose a partner not by some external data, but by his success and prospects.

That is, even in our eyelids, women choose the healthiest, strongest and most successful "male" for themselves so that he can provide them and their children with a reliable future. There is nothing wrong or criminal in this, it just needs to be accepted as fact.

But the girls make a mistake at this point. They do not understand that they can not use a person for their own benefit, but give him support and deserve it. Girls openly declare that they need gifts, travel and attention. But for some reason they do not understand that if they charm a man, then they will receive the same without asking.

Only in addition they will still be loved and praised. All they need to do is love and exalt the man in return. Girls should not be told that they are only interested in the material side of the relationship. Nobody owes them anything, although they are sure otherwise. This repels men from them.

We will talk about how to behave at the beginning of a relationship in order to keep them for a long time in the next article.

Mistake two: arrogance2

As already mentioned, many girls are sure that men owe them something. So they are raised from childhood by parents who themselves share these views. This is what they encounter in kindergarten, when educators say that boys "must" protect girls. This is what they face in school and college days, when teachers and peers say that boys “should” help girls.

And in the end this opinion is reinforced by her friends, who say that a man "should" give gifts, take care and pay attention to the girl. Only nowhere does not a single thought slip that no one owes anything to anyone. And the lady has a break in the template when men for some reason turn away from them, when they "swing their rights", and do not fall on their knees in front of them. How so?

It's simple - it's called arrogance. It is difficult to blame the women themselves, because they are brought up like that by the environment. But still, some go to the point that this is the wrong position. That you need to show mutual respect and attention to those people who give her the same. But it is much more convenient to do nothing and wait for the prince on a white horse, who will come from abroad and "pay back" the girl's debts, isn't it? It is this path of least resistance that many girls adhere to, showing extreme disrespect and contempt for their gentlemen and not treating them as equals. This is another mistake in relationships with men.

Error three: accessibility3

Unfortunately, not all women understand the masculine nature of gambling hunters. A girl will be of interest to a man only if he is constantly trying to "conquer" her. And if she herself hangs on his neck, showers with attention, is constantly near, then with such an "easy catch" a man will simply be bored. Over time, he will stop paying attention to her, because why should he care and take care of the one who is ready to have sex with him at any time or cook him dinner? He will not respect such a "lady".

A girl, if she wants to attract men, should seem inaccessible to them. She should never fully disclose all her secrets so that a man has something to look after her for. This may seem wild and stupid, but this is the nature of men, and nothing can be done with it. There are many girls who say: "I doted on him, took care of him, had sex when he wanted, but he went to that bitch!" Why? Simply because that "bitch" was unapproachable and inaccessible.

There are many other problems and mistakes that men and women face at the beginning of a relationship. And they are quite capable of leading to the fact that the relationship will be destroyed at the very first stage. But the listed mistakes on the part of women are really gross and serious. Not only can they break new relationships, but they can even prevent them from starting.