How To Understand That My Husband Has Another? Signs That Are Alarming

It so happens: yesterday you were sure that you were the only ones in your husband's life, but today you are tormented by doubts. Many women intuitively feel the presence of the Other in the life of the husband. But besides intuition, there are additional signs that can alert you.

If your regular sex suddenly stops or the amount of male interest is much lower. This is a reason to think. But, do not immediately think about treason. Take an interest in the well-being of your loved one. Perhaps he is sick or needs help. But "fatigue" cannot last more than a month. Sometimes men get stubborn and don't want to go to the doctor. Then talk to him without hysterics. Explain that this condition is not the norm.

And, if he considers himself to be absolutely healthy, then you may suspect that he is cheating. At the same time, watch his reaction. If a man starts loudly indignant, making excuses, trying in every possible way to make him “ungrateful,” and after a while comes out to another room to call, this is a bad sign. Most likely, another woman is really present in his life. You can additionally verify this by dialing the phone number your husband called.

In general, a change in attitude towards you and joint children is a bad sign. Moreover, it does not matter what extreme your man goes to. He can begin to load up with gifts (psychologically making amends for his guilt in front of you) or, conversely, start to find fault with everything in the world. After all, this is how he subconsciously justifies himself for an affair.

Often the appearance of your husband, a change in his hairstyle and style of clothing, begins to talk about cheating. He may resume going to the gym or start jogging in the morning; do a manicure or generally show interest in the latest trends in the fashion industry.

Systematic delays at work should also cause concern. But, this is not always treason. After all, the boss can really give additional tasks. Just think about how a person should look after extra hours of work and how - after a romantic date. That's right, not at all the same.

If you feel that your husband is somehow excited and not hungry - this is hardly from a wonderful ten-page report! Yes, and one more thing. After intimacy with another woman, a man does not make tactile contact with his wife. And it's not about sex, which you may not want even after work stresses, but the general pleasant contact: massage, hugs and other little things. If a person is really tired of work, he will be happy with the same back massage. And if he just broke up with another young lady, he, most likely, will not like any of your touches.

And one more thing - new companies and hobbies that are taboo for you. Even if men initially decided to go bowling or go to a ski resort as such a lonely group, it is not a fact that they will remain "orphans" in this place. It is generally better to remain silent about resort romances.

But, do not go too far. Total control and constant phone checks are not the best option. Firstly, men are excellent conspirators, and secondly, this can, on the contrary, provoke him to do something "in revenge." Just like teenagers rebel against parental control. Therefore, provoking and expressing distrust is a bad job.

Also, think carefully about what the red-handed catch of your man will give you? Scandal? His remorse and long pleas for forgiveness "on his knees"? Okay, if that's what you want.

What if everything turns out the other way around? A husband with the words “it's good that you found out yourself, you don’t need to explain everything to the children”, will go to a new lover, leaving you without a livelihood? Or, even worse, with the words "it is her own fault" will he kick you out of the rented space, which is paid for by his company? Are you ready for this?

Remember: cheating is never one person's fault. Most likely, the man was missing something in your relationship. Take care of yourself, change your hairstyle and defiantly buy yourself new underwear. Let him take an interest in what is happening to you. After all, representatives of the stronger sex themselves tend to be hunters. Sorry for the somewhat crude comparison, but it's like with a dog. You chase her, she runs away. And if, on the contrary, you run away, the dog begins to chase.