Table of contents:
- Character traits and personal qualitiesi
- External data2
- Ability to show initiative4
- Respect for men5
- Ability to speak correctly and listen to a partner7
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The All-Russian Center for the Study of Public Opinion (VTsIOM) conducted a social survey, during which it turned out that 94% of women consider the birth and upbringing of children and the creation of a good family the main meaning of their lives. The fair sex want to know what kind of women men prefer in order to interest a worthy candidate for husbands and fathers of future children.
The content of the article
- 1 Traits and personal qualities
- 2 External data
- 3 Self-confidence
- 4 Ability to take initiative
- 5 Respect for men
- 6 Intelligence
- 7 Ability to speak correctly and listen to a partner
Unfortunately, there is no single study that told which women exactly like men. But there are different polls conducted in America, Britain and Russia, which in combination will tell you what the stronger sex values most in the weak: what figure, character traits and skills. Based on this, you can make a list of the qualities that the "ideal" girl should have.
Character traits and personal qualitiesi
They are greeted according to their clothes, and they are seen off according to their mind. This old truth also applies to men in relation to girls. Even if she hooks him initially with her appearance, but turns out to be stupid or boring, the relationship will not start. What kind of women do men choose, if we talk about internal qualities?
At York University (England), an experiment was conducted among students, which showed that a person makes the first impression on an interlocutor in the first seconds. In order for a man to form his first opinion about a woman, only 33 seconds are enough. If this time he looks at her face, appearance and clothes, he will definitely understand whether he likes her or not.
Accordingly, a woman's appearance is very important. American columnist Gabrielle Seirig put together hundreds of scientific studies in 2017 on which girls attract guys the most. In the course of one of them, it turned out that 50% of men like it when the fair sex is dressed femininely, in the appropriate image (skirt, high-heeled shoes). Less than 10% answered that they prefer women in sportswear.
Besides a certain style of dress, guys pay attention to makeup and prefer those girls for long-term relationships who have a minimum amount of it. They don't know that the weaker sex even has the concept of "makeup without makeup". Loose, healthy hair also attracts men.
One of the universities in Britain conducted a survey among men regarding the figure of girls. 45% of 2 thousand respondents answered that they prefer ladies with forms, even if there are a few extra pounds. But at the same time, it is important that the body is generally toned, and not flabby. 34% of respondents are attracted to very thin girls.
Thus, there is no single answer what appearance men like. The taste and color, as they say …
This does not mean go ahead and consider yourself better than others. This means not to dwell on your shortcomings, to be independent, to realize yourself to the maximum in areas that are interesting for yourself. A girl who loves herself will look sexy in the eyes of a man. Such a woman wants to match. But if she constantly repeats “I am fat”, or “I don’t really see cellulite?”, The guy himself will begin to doubt the beauty of his companion. Therefore, you should not criticize yourself. At least in the presence of a man.
The inner state of a girl who is confident in herself and loves herself attracts men literally with a magnet. She enjoys herself, her life, knows how to be happy. Age, appearance or social status in such a girl fade into the background for a guy.
Ability to show initiative4
This quality emerges from the previous one. Men love initiative. It is not necessary, of course, to impose on a man, it is enough just to show him that there is reciprocity and sympathy. If the girl is not ready to express this verbally (in words), you can play with gestures and actions - smile, hug, touch the hand. Not all worthy men are ready to run after the proud and unapproachable, without receiving a drop of reciprocity in return.
One Scandinavian journal of psychology conducted a survey among its readers, which showed that 60% of men approve of the ability to take initiative in the fairer sex. After all, this directly shows their interest and readiness to continue communication. If a girl considers herself confident enough, she will easily invite a man to go to an interesting place, take an arm while walking in the park, etc., but will not be available. With such a woman it is much easier in a relationship, men understand this and choose her.
Respect for men5
Women also want to be respected? And the guy who considers all the fair sex to be strange and stupid, clearly will not be chosen. So it is with men. A girl who considers herself perfect, and men full of flaws, they will never love.
The girl that the standing guy chooses does not compare her gender with the opposite. She does not believe that life is harder for her, does not try to re-educate her companion, but clearly understands that every man is an individual. She focuses on his strengths and does not turn into a man-hater during critical days (in any case, she does not speak it out loud). Such a woman will never become a member of the feminist movement, even if she survives betrayal or faces the imperfections of the stronger sex. And it is she who will be chosen by a worthy young man.
Dr. Marcela Centner, who works at the York Institute, found that in Western countries, men value intelligence in women more than others. Appearance also fades into the background. This is probably due to gender equality in these countries. Many women work on an equal basis with men, both sexes perform the same roles, therefore they are looking for an intelligent and promising person as a partner.
In other countries, intelligence for a girl is considered more of a bonus, but which man would not be pleased if his beautiful and sexy companion, understands something in financial matters, or is widely informed in the literature?
Ability to speak correctly and listen to a partner7
Young guys believe that the main thing in a girl is that she does not "endure" the brain. Men at any age do not like hysterics who express their dissatisfaction with every little thing. Ladies who know how to say even unpleasant things correctly and without anger become companions of the most worthy men.
It is important not so much what the woman says, but how she does it. A calm tone, endurance, benevolence will only elevate it in the eyes of a man and will not humiliate his dignity. Thanks to such criticism, a man will not close in himself, but will begin to work on his shortcomings. But even here, a wise woman will leave the choice for her partner - if she wants, then let him change. If not, his right.
It is equally important that a woman knows how to listen, and even behind the irritation or nervousness of a companion, she can hear tiredness or resentment. If she knows how to listen, the state of a man next to her will be calm and peaceful.
So which women are attracted to men yet? Cheerful, positive, economic. Skills in bed matters worry them least of all, since this can be easily learned together. So a girl, if she dreams of a "prince", should work on herself and develop her best qualities.