Table of contents:
- Being late for a date
- Your attention is anywhere but with her2
- Inability to keep up a conversation3
- Intimate conversations4
- Rudeness and obscene language5
Video: Five Common Male And Female Mistakes On A First Date
Statistics show that most first dates are not followed by a second. We will not look to blame, count losses, or jump to conclusions from such general observations. Let's be honest: a casual acquaintance, especially a virtual one, rarely ends with the phrase "and they lived happily ever after." More precisely, it ends quite often, only they lived separately and never met again.
The content of the article
- 1 Being late for a date
- 2 Your attention is anywhere but with her
- 3 Failure to maintain a conversation
- 4 Intimate conversations
- 5 Rudeness and obscene language
- 6 Summary
But there are certain things that will almost certainly ruin your first date. If your goal is cruel trolling of a naive girl, you can use this as a guide to action. The rest should think about whether they make such mistakes? And if at least one of them is your constant companion, it is highly likely that it is she who prevents you from taking the next step towards a closer acquaintance. So we begin.
Being late for a date
In our crazy world with its traffic jams, changing plans, frantic paces and other troubles, you can have thousands of excuses why you are late. But for her, they almost certainly won't work, especially if she arrived on time. You could still take into account all the possible obstacles on your way and move out early, not the first day you live. However, if you arrived on time, and the girl was late, it is up to you how to treat it. Perhaps you think that girls are always late and this is normal, in which case there is no point in worrying. If punctuality is your main requirement for a future passion, perhaps you should ask someone else out on a date.
How to be: set an alarm clock, set yourself every possible reminder, make an event in the calendar, free the day from extraneous matters and do not plan anything else. If you arrive at the scene too early, you will surely find something to do with yourself, but you should never be late.
Your attention is anywhere but with her2
Want a quick, guaranteed way to ruin any date right in the beginning? Just stick to your phone! Everything, a negative ending without a continuation is provided to you. Despite the fact that gadgets are ubiquitous in our lives, such behavior shows a girl a mixture of indifference and disrespect for her, and this is definitely not the best start for your relationship. And here's how a quick end - that's it. If a girl on a date does not crawl out of correspondence or is constantly distracted by calls, draw conclusions. Most likely, the conclusions will not be in her favor.
What to do: put your phone away, and best of all, turn it off completely so that nothing interferes with your communication. And do not try to stare at the TV behind her in a cafe, even if they are showing the final of the World Cup. The world will not stop if you disappear from its information space for a short while, and such a pause will not hurt you yourself. Give your attention to the girl completely and completely, and you will have the right to count on reciprocity.
Inability to keep up a conversation3
If on the first date you have nothing to talk about, don't even dream of continuing. If you have a complete lack of common themes and interests, how did it happen that you ended up on this date? Was it a blind date? Don't worry, it will be over soon.
But there may be another problem - in principle, you are not the most sociable person, and the very fact of a conversation with an unfamiliar girl confuses you. Alas, this is really a problem - most girls prefer open and sociable guys, and those who cannot connect two words make them reject. On rare occasions, you might meet an equally taciturn and shy girl, then you're in luck. How did she decide to date at all remains?
However, if a girl prefers to listen rather than talk, don't worry. It is likely that she is afraid to seem intrusive and draw too much attention to herself. Try to get her to talk!
What to do: If the problem is in the complete absence of points of contact, then nothing. You just don't fit together, it happens. If it's about your communication problems, you need to … communicate more. You don't have to do it on dates, but if you do choose this path, be prepared to suffer one defeat after another, but sooner or later you will succeed.
If the only thing you are interested in is whether the girl can take it whole in her mouth, you should not go on a date. A prostitute will not cost you more, and with her you can afford anything you want. To start a conversation about sex on the very first date means to designate yourself in her eyes, as anxious, who needs only one thing. Or as a pervert. Or worse, a preoccupied pervert. Do you think the girl will want to continue communicating with the worried pervert?
However, if the girl willingly supports such a conversation, or even initiated it herself, you have found each other. Most likely, she will not be the most suitable couple for a stable and long-term relationship. Whether she has low social responsibility or just a nymphomaniac is not so important, you can invite her to come to you today, and it is possible that you will be happy with the result. Just do not forget to protect yourself, in this case it will be very good advice! We have warned.
How to be: keep your penis under control and don't let it replace the brain. After all, you can relieve tension by masturbating before a date so that unnecessary topics don't get into your conversation. Everything has its time, and now is definitely not the time.
Rudeness and obscene language5
Most girls don't like it. This will not give you the image of a brutal macho, you will look like a tramp from the heating main, whom someone washed, shaved and for some reason brought to a decent place. And the girl will try to get rid of you as quickly as possible, perhaps even after the very first such phrase.
If your new friend herself is not shy about four-story expressions, remember that the norm is a broad concept. After all, if this is your common language, why not? Compete with her in wit, try to win and win her heart. Fans of the Leningrad group will be happy together. If, however, the girl's vocabulary disturbs you, do not try to correct and educate her. The train has already left, and you were not invited to it. The next stop will probably be better.
What to do: don't be rude and brute. If the norm of your communication in the presence of a girl is swearing, rudeness and rudeness, you should not be surprised at the unsuccessful result of the date. However, if you accidentally escaped, try to get out of the situation with humor. Remember the football commentator Roman Naguchev, and his "brilliantly!" and take an example from him. Perhaps the girl will appreciate it.
We are not talking in this article about the obvious things, such as the fact that you need to come on a date neat, clean, sober, and so on. All these things are already obvious. However, if everything that we have listed in the article also seemed obvious to you, you hardly have any problems dating girls. We can only wish you good luck!