How To Kiss A Boyfriend: Mastering The Best Technique

Every girl thought about how to kiss a guy correctly at least once in her life (or rather, in her youth). Some even tried to flirt with tomatoes or use their hand as an imaginary partner.

The content of the article

1 Moral preparation
2 Preparation concerning appearance
3 The atmosphere for a first kiss
4 Several kissing techniques
5 Gently romantic kiss
6 Passionate erotic kiss

If a girl is inexperienced, then it can be difficult for her to decide to take a step towards physical intimacy: be it a kiss or something more. And, it would seem, she is ready, but the fear of failing does not give rest. Therefore, the girl rejects the guy's attempts to kiss her, while having a desire to reciprocate. This situation can be corrected quite easily, the main thing is to do everything gradually.

Moral preparation i

Whether the kiss is passionate or gentle, oriental or French does not really matter. People who are in a relationship don't think about how to kiss a guy properly - they just kiss. And this is the first thought that needs to be learned and kept in mind. There is no need to be afraid of mistakes or “wrong language movements”. It is fear that fetters a person and prevents a sensual, mutually desirable kiss from happening.

A very good tactic before kissing is honesty. A girl can safely tell her boyfriend that she has never kissed or simply does not know how to do it. There is nothing shameful in such confessions. They are absolutely normal, since people are not obliged to comply with any "international first kiss standards" (and they simply do not exist).

If a guy does not suffer from a mild degree of dementia, then in no case will he make fun of the girl for her innocence. Moreover, a standing man will always support his beloved and teach her everything she wants - be it fishing or passionate kisses.

There are some basic tips for moral preparation:

tell the guy in advance about your inexperience;
relax as much as possible;
concentrate on your own feelings.

In some cases, it is impossible to overcome fear due to deep moral discomfort. But most people just need to talk frankly with their soul mate and after that everything will go "like clockwork."

Preparation concerning appearance2

The guy will not look at his lover's millimeter pimple during their first kiss. But girls, unfortunately, cannot prove this. Even those ladies who understand that they are worried in vain cannot control their emotions.

Therefore, before kissing, you need to prepare so that in the end you feel comfortable and confident. The most important area is the face. Since the girl will experience maximum discomfort due to the fact that the guy can see some "problems" up close. He, of course, will not pay attention to this with a probability of 99.99%, but it is better to play it safe.

What appearance factors should you pay attention to:

Lips. If they are flaky and cracked, then kissing will be simply unpleasant. In this case, both participants in the kiss will experience discomfort. Therefore, before the "X moment" you need to scrub and moisturize your lips. You can make a scrub yourself from sugar and honey, use regular hygiene products as a moisturizer.
Leather. Another important point for girls. In order to feel confident, you should paint over the bruises under the eyes, apply concealer on pimples or age spots. The entire face can be covered with a thin layer of foundation. The product must have a matte or semi-matte finish, as otherwise it may be imprinted on the guy's face (it is better to check this factor in advance by holding your phone to your face). In general, it is desirable that the skin tone is even. If the face is already in excellent condition, then nothing needs to be done with it.

Eyebrows. Just pluck them out. Here, again, a funny moment, because the guy will not notice the small hairs, but the girl will constantly think about them. For the same reason, it is worth getting rid of the antennae, especially if because of them the lady is periodically confused with Mikhail Boyarsky

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Do not put anything on your face that is not glued to the cosmetic bag. Much more a guy will not like the fact that his once young and beautiful companion looks like an aging transvestite than the fact that she has an uneven skin tone or unpainted eyelashes.

Important! No lipstick. Even if it is a super-fashionable matte product that does not get imprinted on anything at all and sits on the lips in such a way that it cannot be wiped off even with a dish grater. The guy will be elementarily uncomfortable to spoil the makeup of his girlfriend (and he will also be afraid that the lipstick will crawl onto his lips). And of course, after the first kiss, the second, third will occur, and by the end of the evening in the mirror instead of her reflection, the girl will see the Joker.

Another point that cannot be ignored is the smell. A deodorant should be used at least for good human reasons. The girl is likely to sweat with excitement, and when she realizes this, she will sweat even more. Here it is unlikely that it will come to a kiss - a maximum of a run to the nearest toilet stall and an attempt to dry the armpits with a hand dryer.

Before kissing, it is advisable not to eat anything that can provoke the occurrence of bad breath. If a kind mother offers to eat her signature garlic borscht, then you should refuse. Even chewing gum will not interrupt the smell and aftertaste, so the kiss will turn out to be unpleasant.

Do not get carried away with carbonated drinks. The girls, of course, are princesses, but the desire to regurgitate because of the gases accumulated inside has not yet spared a single royal dynasty. Burping during a kiss will clearly discourage the morale from romance.

First Kiss Atmosphere 3

Many girls wonder when, where and how to kiss a guy is best. If this is the first kiss, then it is best to choose a secluded setting. There is no need for someone to distract from a responsible process. Therefore, a kiss in a noisy company (even more so on a dare) is an option to be embarrassed rather than to enjoy intimacy.

Places for the first kiss:

A guy's or a girl's apartment. It is undesirable for parents to be present in the apartment at this time. They can knock and, as is usually the case according to the law of meanness, they will do it at the most piquant moment. If both partners live with relatives and are not alone at home, then it is better not to stint and rent an inexpensive hotel room. This is especially true if the couple is mentally prepared to continue the kiss.
Park in the evening. You shouldn't force a guy into a dark space. You need to make an appointment in the park in advance and choose the quietest and most secluded place. You can kiss as romantic as possible near the fountain, under the lantern and in any other atmospheric corner. The main thing is to have a minimum of people nearby (and especially screaming curious children).
Motor ship. This is a very romantic place, but, unfortunately, it is difficult to find a secluded corner on a boat. Still worth a try. Also, a bridge and in general any place near a river or lake will do. Of course, you shouldn't visit places far from the city with a barely familiar guy, but if your partner is constant and time-tested, then why not.

Any "street" option can be safely thrown aside if it's winter and -30. Kissing during the snow is undoubtedly romantic, but you need to do it quickly and in warm down jackets. It often turns out that the moment of love resembles a rather clumsy dance of two frozen snowmen.

But, again, it is worth remembering that all the described "rules" are very conditional. If you want to kiss on a crowded avenue at noon, why not. Sometimes "that" moment can be missed, waiting for the "right" one.

Multiple kiss techniques 4

All kisses can be divided into 3 categories: quick, gentle romantic and passionate erotic. There is also the category of "clumsy", but usually everyone is afraid of it.

Quick kisses are the easiest to perform. It is enough to literally touch someone else's lips with your own lips, perform certain manipulations (it is quite possible without a tongue) and, with a sense of accomplishment, move away from your partner's face. Manipulation can be anything you like. You can bite your lip, but it is very important to do it as gently and gently as possible. You can also squeeze the same lip between your lips, lightly run the tip of your tongue along it. A quick kiss can easily turn romantic or passionate. Naturally, if desired by both partners.

Many are wondering how to learn to kiss on tomatoes. The answer is no way. This is something from the series "how to learn to do blowjob on a banana." But with bananas it is at least understandable - they are similar in shape. Unfortunately or fortunately, the human body is different from vegetables and fruits. It is at least mobile.

A partner is unlikely to show the equanimity of a tomato or banana endurance when a girl bites his lip (or worse).

The kiss should be natural. You don't need to think about him, about the movements of your tongue or lips, you just need to surrender to emotions and your own feelings. The only thing that matters is mobility and lack of uniformity in movements (when it comes to a long kiss).

Gentle romantic kiss 5

For such a kiss, you need to have the appropriate mood. It is highly desirable to be inspired by your partner, imbued with his words and deeds. To convey tenderness with your touch. All touches should be soft, smooth. Before kissing, you can touch your hair, take your boyfriend's hands in yours, hug him. You can start by kissing on the cheek or nose to express a desire for intimacy.

Probably, the guy himself will take the courage and be the first to reach for the lips of his beloved. The task of the girl in this case is to respond to the kiss and duplicate its movements. If a guy only kisses with his lips (without a tongue), then there is no need to rush and try to show him the skills gained on tomatoes.

The girl may well take the initiative on her own. To do this, you need to reach for your lips, hug your neck or waist. The first touch should be soft and airy. Then you can be assertive, but do not overdo it. At some point, the tongue should be connected to the lips. This becomes appropriate as soon as the usual kiss begins to bore. You need to touch your partner's tongue with your tongue, but without enthusiasm. Smooth, sliding movements are ideal.

Important! In no case should you try to push your tongue as deep as possible into the oral cavity - this is unpleasant.

Passionate erotic kiss 6

This option is suitable for girls who, despite their inexperience, have an ardent temperament. Passionate erotic kiss, like sex, requires foreplay. The partner needs to be touched: gently, but exciting. Before kissing, you can caress his neck with your lips and tongue, touch his abs, stroke his hands. The girl's body, her appearance, mood - everything should show moderate eroticism and playfulness.

The kiss can be initially jerky. That is, you need to touch your partner's lips with your lips, and then they will move away. This is an exciting game that makes a person perceive the kiss as something disturbing consciousness. Even if a girl does not know how to kiss at all, she should not be afraid and ashamed of herself. In passion, the main touch, sensuality and return of the partner. If a guy shares this passion, then everything will definitely work out.

You can connect the language at any time. You should lick your lips, then put your tongue in your mouth and begin to "explore" the oral cavity, without going too deep. In such a kiss, it is appropriate to bite your lip. A girl does not need to be afraid to touch her partner everywhere if she wants to continue and is ready for more intimacy.

Important! You can alternately kiss the upper and lower lip of the guy, and then lick them and bite slightly. It is very exciting.

And, of course, you should close your eyes while kissing. It really helps to listen to your own emotions and understand how to kiss a guy properly.