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Video: Tips For Men How To Conquer An Unapproachable Girl
An unapproachable girl is that young lady who does not want to respond to the courtship of a certain man. So much time has passed, but she, like a stone, does not give in to any persuasion, no gifts touch her, no interest in him. And what does it mean? Does it mean that she will never give up and need to find another? Or is there something else you can do?
The content of the article
- 1 Why don't unapproachable girls give up?
- 2 What needs to be done to “melt” such a beauty?
Let's figure it out.
Why don't unapproachable girls give up? I
Let's start with the fact that there are men who do not believe in female inaccessibility at all. And in vain. There are girls who will not melt from a man's gaze from the first minute and will jump into bed with him. There are those who won't even look at him. Don't believe me? Pay attention to the list of reasons why girls remain unapproachable. It will be difficult to disagree with me
An unapproachable girl becomes like this if:
her upbringing does not allow the man to reciprocate earlier than, for example, a year later (this happens, however, the terms may be different) - at the same time, the girl herself would not have been so strict about her inaccessibility, if, for example, it was not her father (read - elder brother, mother, etc.) A girl from an early age is hammered into her head that the guys only need one thing, that they, these guys, immediately attack any young lady, if she just smiles, they attack and do their dirty work … And then no one needs the girl at all, no one will marry her, everyone points at her and … in general, because of this shame, girls used to drown themselves. Well, after such a picture of the future, how do you look at the male sex?
- if she just doesn't like a certain man. Here at least kill yourself. And the point is not at all inaccessibility, but in you, dear comrade. With another man, the young lady is very ordinary - and open, and cheerful, and quite easygoing. But if you didn’t come out with a face, try to take something else;
- for religious reasons. Everything is serious here. If you decide in any way to persuade a beautiful woman whose religion does not approve of relations with another faith, you either need to accept the new faith yourself, or not to spin the girl's brains. Well, or take her as a wife. Here the usual interest "inaccessible" will not work, everything is too serious;
- the girl with this young man has different social statuses. This can be found at every step. Well, you understand yourself, will Vera Brezhneva really turn out to be a fit for some Vasya Sarafanov from Nizhnepopinsk? No, if this Vasya has a couple or three oil rigs lying around somewhere, then everything changes radically with inaccessibility, but without them Brezhnev will definitely remain the height of inaccessibility;
- various diseases - including mental ones. The deviations are especially felt in those ladies who are called "old maids". If a woman has not experienced intimacy with a man until a certain time, this will certainly affect her health. She begins to suffer from various diseases, she has fears, phobias in front of a man, she is scared to be with him and, of course, such ladies can be called unapproachable;
- you have sharply negative qualities, or these are qualities that repel the lady of your heart. Very often girls and women show their inaccessibility to persons who have served time, who have some diseases or something else that does not appeal to them;
- other reasons. The most common reason is that this unapproachable girl is married. There are also various reasons why a girl refuses your attention;
What needs to be done to "melt" such a beauty? 2
In order for an unapproachable girl to surrender, you must first of all figure out what is the reason for her composure towards you. And already, based on the reasons, to act.
For example, if a girl does not respond to your advances because she has such an upbringing, then prove that you need her not only for bed scenes. Invite a young lady to the theater, cafe, skating rink. Ah, she will refuse, for she is unapproachable. Be smarter - invite her along with a friend. And do not press, buy a ticket for the most famous group, for the coolest performer - who will refuse such a thing! Even if your ice beauty curls her lips, her friend will instantly put her in her place.
It happens that she just doesn't like you, in this situation … By the way, the most important thing is to admit it. 80 out of 100% of men will find a thousand reasons, besides this very simple one. Be critical of yourself. This does not mean that you need to abandon your chosen one, it means that you will have to seriously work on yourself. You don't have to ask this girl what kind of guys she likes. Of course, she will answer that they are smart, tall, beautiful, with cubes on their belly. In fact, next to her most often they see a skinny, bald guy who sprinkles jokes with "pictures" and talks to your beauty without trembling in the knees. So take from this guy such qualities as self-confidence, ease of communication, a little bit of humor. You look, and the girl will not be so unapproachable.
I already wrote about religious motives above - if you are not going to build a serious relationship with her for centuries, let it remain so. By the way, you will be calmer too;
And yet - if you and your beloved have different statuses, you are unlikely to achieve success, but you must strive for this. Firstly, even if you fail to get to her Olympus, you will still change your life for the better, and secondly … who knows, who knows. After all, you can name a bunch of examples when a star marries a man who is not at all a star.
True, you need to remember that stardom may not be achieved, but success in your business must be achieved. Take Guzeeva as an example. After all, what a beauty! And the tongue is sharp. But her husband is not a filmmaker at all. And not any famous. However, Igor Bukharov (this is the name of this man), for a minute, is a restaurateur of all Russia. How do you like it?
It happens that the young lady is simply sick. With a girl who suffers from mental illness, you need to act simply - either treat (y-ps, the psyche is not being treated), or accept everything as it is, does not want to see you, do not impose);
If your negative qualities are the cause of inaccessibility, correct them. If this is not possible (for example, the person was serving time, and this fact cannot be gone anywhere), prove that you are generally a wonderful person. You can't prove it in two hours, so you have to try.
The conclusion is simple - an unapproachable girl can be very open to love, she just needs a little more time and attention. But any woman deserves it.