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Video: How To Communicate With A Foreigner On The Internet? Communication Rules
Many girls and women living in Russia really dream of meeting a foreigner. For some, this is a lifeline in their difficult situation. For some, this is a step forward to improve the quality of their own life. For some, it is a way to find a person who will truly love and appreciate their woman.
The content of the article
- 1 Reasons for meeting foreigners
- 2 Rules for communicating with foreigners online
As regrettable as it may sound, in the opinion of many women, a foreigner can provide a much happier and more dignified life than compatriots. Although people always think that it is good where they have never been.
Reasons for meeting foreigners
Every girl who wants to enter into a relationship or just get to know a resident of another state has her own reasons for this. Some of them will be obvious to others, and some may come as a real surprise. Several sociological studies were conducted, during which Russian women admitted for what reasons they want to communicate and meet with foreign men.
Most often, women are motivated by the desire to improve their lives in material terms. Yes, it may seem callous and mercantile, but undo the fact that the living conditions of most Russians cannot be compared with European ones. Living abroad is easier, more comfortable and more peaceful.
The average income level is much higher, especially in comparison with the Russian one. Taxation is, of course, quite serious, but the beauty of European tax policy is that all government spending and revenues are completely transparent. When a European pays taxes, he gives money not to the state, but to society, and sees the results of his investments.
Also, some of the girls pursue a desire to find a man who will truly appreciate his partner. Due to the fact that in Russia there are much more women than men, almost every representative of the male population does not particularly appreciate and care about his partner, because he knows that if something happens, she can be replaced.
Many visitors from other countries are in a real shock when they see a well-groomed, polite and beautiful girl next to some grumpy and unkempt man. Foreigners do not understand the behavior of such guys and men, because, in their opinion, such people are incredibly lucky to have such a wonderful partner.
The desire to find a foreigner for the reason that there is very high competition for worthy candidates in their country. As you know, after all the events of the last century, the male population in Russia has significantly decreased. According to statistics, there are about five free women for every free man.
In Europe, there are about 1200 men for every 1000 women. These are very optimistic numbers. In Russia, according to the girls who voiced this reason, it is very difficult to find a truly worthy man who would be ready to treat them with respect, was not a lazy person and a bum and was ready to participate in the development of relationships and family.
Some girls suffer from the fact that they cannot realize their ideas of an ideal family. Such women are emotionally and physically ready to take on all the worries of caring for the house, household, raising a family, that is, to play a traditional female role.
But they are faced with the fact that their Russian partners do not appreciate this quality at all, do not respect their work, take it for granted and often show dissatisfaction. Europeans, on the other hand, are sensitive to partners with traditional views on family life.
Many men from Western countries are experiencing difficulties due to the developing emancipation of the female population of their countries. European girls are often not ready to play the traditional role of "keeper of the hearth", considering it humiliating. Therefore, Europeans and Americans are often looking for wives with a more conservative outlook on life.
Many people have heard about the desire to try sex with a foreigner. This is a really common reason to meet foreign tourists or men on dating sites. It is very interesting for girls to try intimate relationships with representatives of other cultures and mentalities in order to evaluate their sexual abilities.
Of course, not everyone was ready to admit this openly, because in Russia sex for one night for a woman is considered something unacceptable, denigrating her, creating a bad reputation. This is all due to outdated views on personal life, which make it difficult to adequately perceive the natural desires of women.
Meeting foreigners is also a great opportunity to travel around the world and practice a language. Not all Europeans and Americans who come to Russia and are looking for acquaintances with Russian girls want only a serious relationship.
Some of them are consciously looking for a pleasant company for their travels, and the girls do not mind going with them, because it will be a new and unusual experience. This is often the most affordable way to communicate with native speakers of a foreign culture and learn about their life firsthand. Unlike Russians, according to the girls who voiced this answer, foreigners know how to maintain friendly relations with representatives of the opposite sex.
Rules for communicating with foreigners online2
Of course, the easiest way to find a man from another country is to use special services on the Internet designed for this. There are many sites for dating foreigners, also forums, applications for smartphones, groups in social networks, where you can easily find people from abroad who want to meet Russian girls.
There is no particular point in talking about them, because anyone can easily find them using a search engine. But there is really not a lot of information on how to behave and what to do in order to establish acquaintance and communication on the Internet.
What you need to know before submitting a profile or writing to people you like on a dating site? First, a woman needs to determine the real purpose of meeting a resident of another country. It should be understood that there is a suitable candidate for any request.
Even if a girl just wants to communicate and practice her foreign language, she can easily find an interlocutor interested in the same. A small number of users of dating sites and services believe in the positive result of their research.
And the vast majority of people register for them simply out of their curiosity. Girls who are looking for simple and easy communication will always have more fans and interlocutors than a girl who is strictly tuned in only to a serious relationship with a foreigner and carefully filters candidates. Even if it is the creation of a marriage that is initially planned, it is not worth talking about it directly and head-on, this may alienate some men.
The next important step is to design your profile. And if filling in all the available columns with information about yourself usually does not arise difficulties, then problems and difficulties most often occur with the selection and publication of suitable photographs. Regardless of the purpose of finding a foreign partner, you must definitely look your best.
The profile should contain only high-quality, attractive photos in which the owner of the account will smile. It is a smile that creates the impression of a person's joy, friendliness and openness.
Of course, if there are no free relatives or friends at your disposal, who were ready to spend a lot of time creating a suitable quantity and quality of photos, you will have to take them yourself. You may need to purchase a tripod and learn how to take almost professional selfies. But the result will definitely pay off all the time and material costs.
And then the moment came when the man wrote in private messages and in the mail. Some ladies consider it their sacred duty to play for time, forcing the gentleman to languish in anticipation. And then for some reason they are surprised that he has already struck up a conversation with someone else. If a girl is really interested in meeting and communicating with a foreigner, then she should be ready to answer him almost immediately.
You need to check your mail several times a day, and it is best to set notifications that will be difficult to miss. The same applies to private messages in services and applications. Often men write to several girls at once, and it is the one who answers earlier that often becomes the only and constant interlocutor of the man.
Any acquaintance will flow better if both interlocutors have a decent level of knowledge of English. This applies primarily to Russian girls. Knowledge of the language will make it much better to establish contact with a person.
For some, English is not their native language, and it will be many times more pleasant and comfortable for them to speak the language with which they have lived for their whole life. So that lady who speaks not only English, but one or two other languages has a much greater chance of finding a foreign gentleman.
If the girl does not really like the partner, she should not immediately refuse to communicate with him. In any case, it will be a great practice of live communication in a real language. Even from a not very pleasant acquaintance with a foreigner, you can benefit for yourself.
If everything goes well, then after some time of communication in text format, you can offer the interlocutor a video chat. The biggest problem of all people learning foreign languages is live communication with the help of it. You can be able to write and read, but simple communication will cause a lot of difficulties. Video chat solves this problem, teaches you to be liberated and boldly communicate in a foreign language.
Plus, it also allows you to get close to a pen pal, to become a real person for him, and not just a set of photos and messages. This is a great step for getting closer, but it is not recommended to be used lightly. You should be careful with your personal data, which may accidentally fall into the hands of an unscrupulous person.
No matter how good the correspondence and calls are, without a personal meeting, all relationships cannot be considered truly serious. For any real relationship that has arisen in the network, the only option for their development and continuation is to transfer to real life.
In any other case, they are highly likely to fade away over time, since people who are inclined to marry a foreigner are not satisfied with simple communication via the Internet. But you should seriously worry about your safety before meeting with your gentleman. There is no need to immediately run to meet him, the period of such "remote" communication must be maintained.
After trust and understanding has arisen on both sides, you need to ask the man to show his documents, check his phone number, in general, make sure that he is not an intruder and really is who he claims to be. It is better to hold the first meetings in a crowded place and not agree to offers to “retire somewhere”.
After a personal meeting, if everything went smoothly, there is no need to throw up correspondence. At this stage, you can already move them outside of the dating site or service by sharing your contacts on social networks or your phone number with the man. Communication with him should become something ordinary, enter into life as tightly as any other habit. This brings people together significantly.
It is also necessary to often make calls, video chats, share photos with the chosen one, so that every day of communication with him is interesting. In response, he will probably do the same, and communication will bring real pleasure. The advantage will be if the girl and her foreign gentleman have common interests. For example, you can watch a movie in an online cinema or play an online game together.
And, most importantly, don't be afraid or insecure. Friendship, relationships and marriage with a foreigner have long ceased to be something unusual and fantastic. On the Internet, you can find many examples of how Slavic girls achieved success in this endeavor. Often all that is required of a girl is to be herself and know the language at a conversational level.
