6 Tips On How To Meet Girls In The Club

Nowadays, getting to know a girl is a difficult task for any guy. Basically, young people make new contacts on the Internet. The most popular are dating apps that directly imply quick sexual connections. It is not uncommon for people to find their soul mate here and happily live together for many years. Moreover, this method of human interaction simplifies the process of acquaintance and communication. Many do not even know how to talk to girls at a party organized by mutual acquaintances.

The content of the article

• 1 Surprise
• 2 Show emotion and be sincere
• 3 Take the initiative
• 4 Imagine and play
• 5 Listen and Stare
• 6 Don't talk on sensitive topics

The ability to build an interesting conversation is a whole science. In the age of active use of gadgets and the World Wide Web, young people overlook the need to learn and improve in verbal ways of interacting with the opposite sex. This is easy to explain.

In social networks, each of us builds an ideal image of his "I". We select photos for a long time and carefully, apply special filters to them, and only then share them with friends and subscribers.

The dialogue takes place in the same way. Correspondence implies that a person has plenty of time to respond. He can make the message unread and think about the answer with high quality, without unnecessary emotions. Also, the respondent is not limited in the ability to rewrite his text - now the function “delete message from both users” is being actively implemented. That is, everyone can change their mind and quickly correct what they have written.

Another disadvantage of the virtual dialogue is that we cannot see the interlocutor. Instead of emotions - emoticons. Sometimes you can confuse sarcasm with a really serious saying. There is no way to feel the mood and energy. You can often find funny screenshots of correspondence in which girls are offended that a guy sent an answer to a question without a single emoticon. For them this means total indifference and insufficient attention to their message.

When they collide with each other, young people are very squeezed and shy in expressing their own thoughts. Of course, because the word is not a sparrow. Having said nonsense, you cannot erase it from the memory of the interlocutor. There is no way to make a joke if the moment is already missed. Many people now say that writing is easier. There are couples who correspond even while sitting on the same couch. They simply lost the habit of communicating with each other using verbal methods.

Therefore, an article on how to talk to girls at parties, dates and even in the office will be very appropriate. Now we will reveal several useful secrets that many knew about, but have long been forgotten as unnecessary.

Surprisei

There are many guys at the party, so it won't be easy to draw the attention of a girl you like to yourself. At the same time, this does not mean that she will wait for completely extraordinary actions. Striptease on the table or pouring champagne are not at all attractive antics for girls. Rather, the joker will be perceived as a strange person or others will decide that the guest has specifically sipped alcoholic beverages.

A more intelligent and sophisticated approach is worth taking.

Even an unusual first phrase will be enough. Again, we are not talking about hackneyed options like: "Does your mother need a son-in-law?" or “Are your parents by any chance terrorists? Then where did they get such a bomb? " Such tackles can only cause a storm of sincere laughter, and not interest a pretty young woman. The maximum that you can count on later is an embarrassed smile and expectation when this strange character will understand the complete futility of communication.

Only a sincere person can arouse interest. People quickly realize that they are being lied to or trying to appear as someone they are not in real life. We are betrayed by facial expressions, excessive gesticulation, even a glance.

Now you can generate genuine interest even by just starting a conversation. Modern men are afraid of communication in real life. Girls are able to appreciate the efforts and courage of a guy who was not afraid and came up first. Plus, it's pretty easy to do at a party. You can start a conversation about mutual acquaintances, but, naturally, avoiding gossip and unpleasant statements behind your back. Another win-win option is to tell stories from life that contributed to meeting mutual friends.

The girl will be much more interested and open in front of a man who has any contacts with her close people.

Show emotion and be sincere2

When approaching a beautiful girl, you should not silently stand next to her or talk in a dry business language. People who sincerely and emotionally talk about themselves, friends, hobbies, and even the weather cannot seem boring and uninteresting.

For a conversation, it is worth choosing topics that can evoke a response from both sides. Even if you are very versed in boxing, this is not the best topic for the first conversation with a girl. At the first stage, you can only casually mention this hobby. A person who is very active in talking about the last fight of two heavyweights in all colors can alert and even scare.

It is a well-known fact that men love with their eyes and women with their ears. It really is. At the same time, girls, in the overwhelming majority, are able to recognize whether the interlocutor is experiencing real emotions or fake ones. We do not recommend starting your acquaintance with exaggerations and lies. If it continues, then problems will surely arise on this basis. All the secret eventually becomes apparent.

What can you talk about with girls at a party so that it is not perceived as an outside invasion of personal space, but interesting to both? Memories evoke especially strong emotions in all people. Be sure to keep this secret in mind and push this pedal. The mentioned, as if by chance, the memory of a childhood friend with whom you played pranks in kindergarten, will prompt the girl to share her moments of youth.

Show initiative3

Having taken the first step, you should not allow pauses and awkward silence. You came up and started a conversation, you are a man and you need to demonstrate this right away. Even in the animal kingdom, males, who are in the process of fighting for the best female, try to prove their worth and strength. So it is with the human world. How to chat with girls at a party?

There is only one answer - confidently. No matter how handsome you are, no matter how competently and emotionally you speak, the secret of men is in their masculinity. This is not a tautology at all. Any girl will confirm that male energy and pressure are capable of breaking through even the strongest and most impregnable defense.

In order to be ready to communicate with a girl face to face, you need to have in stock such questions and topics for conversation so that she scrolls the dialogue on the way home from the party. This is a way to be remembered for a long time. Thus, questions about things at work and love of sunny days are absolutely inappropriate.

Imagine and play4

Surprising a girl is not enough. A man should be able to ignite the flame of interest in his personality. The best idea for a first date, especially in a joyful party atmosphere, is to play questions. Very often we can see this method of dating in American youth films. Yes, to some extent this is naive and may even seem like a stupid idea. In fact, people open up perfectly if they feel the lightness of the revelations being spoken. The game is not a serious one-on-one conversation. There is sure to find a place for flirting, coquetry and smiles. Nothing brings people closer than laughter. You can talk about really important things, but not with a focused look, but easily and fervently. In addition, the game format of dating will immediately show a man how his interlocutor treats him. Straightens hair, shyly smiles or laughs loudly - you've hit the spot. With such gestures and manifestations, girls show their sympathy and disposition for the guy.

In addition to the question-and-answer game, the “if only, then” game works well on a first date or a noisy party. You can ask each other short questions like “if you were a man, what would you do,” and so on. This will help to lift the veil of secrecy and learn a little more about your partner. When fantasizing, we forget about the appearance and completely surrender to the surging thoughts and emotions. This way of interaction will relieve the tension from communicating with a stranger or unfamiliar person. This method is quite rare, so there is no doubt that the chosen one will remember this evening, and the interlocutor herself.

Listen and look both ways5

Girls are famous for their love of the “read between the lines” style of communication. They just love to give hints, and not only in verbal form. When you first talk to a girl at a party, it's important to be attentive to the small details. If she licks her lips or often looks at her reflection in a glass, straightens her hair or shoots her eyes flirtatiously, things are going well. If the chosen one often looks around, seeks out someone in the crowd of guests, or attracts a third person into the dialogue, there is practically no chance for cupid. This means that something has gone wrong for a long time and the interlocutor wants to rid herself of your intrusive presence.

Also an important point is to listen and hear. It is clear that when meeting a man wants to prove himself, promote all the dignity and tell a lot of entertaining stories. However, women are attracted not only by active males, but also by reserved, attentive personalities. Perhaps during the first conversation, many details and phrases will be ignored. This is normal, because you are completely strangers to each other.

But in no case should you interrupt a girl if they started telling something from their biography or decided to express their opinion. Even if your comment fits perfectly into the context of the conversation, wait until the interlocutor finishes speaking. Only then can you add your story to the dialogue. Otherwise, tactlessness and pressure can be taken as signals from the end of your acquaintance. It is important for girls to be understood and heard, just like men.

Do not talk on sensitive topics6

What questions to ask a girl when meeting her is definitely not worth it, these are those that can drive her into paint or even cause unpleasant emotions. In men's society, jokes about dirty socks or belching are great, in the company of a lady, especially an unfamiliar one, these are absolutely forbidden topics.

Your goal is to attract a girl, and not tell her about the peculiarities of human physiology or personally your unpleasant habits.

There is also a taboo on the topic of sex and intimate fantasies. For the first meeting, these topics do not fit the word at all. Having started to invest in communication with an explicit and rude sexual subtext, you can forever lose the attention from the beauty you like. Even if at the moment all your thoughts are occupied with how great it would be to sleep with an appetizing girl - keep this information to yourself.

Women are extremely sensitive to the manifestation of sexual desire in their address from a stranger. It becomes clear to them that the man is aimed exclusively at short-term intimate contact. The girl herself, as a full-fledged person with a rich inner world, does not care for him at all. But her slender legs are of genuine interest.

Discussing intimate fantasies and past relationship experiences is not the best topic for conversation with a new acquaintance. First, these topics are so personal that not everyone you meet should know about them. Secondly, the pressure in this direction is completely inappropriate and speaks of the poor upbringing of a man. Thirdly, starting a conversation with the topic of sex, you should not expect serious intentions and actions from a man to build strong and lasting relationships.

Perhaps the girl agrees to such a development of events, anything can happen in life. Sex on the first date is not very rare these days. At the same time, it should be understood that it is still necessary to come to sex. Clumsy and rude hints are unlikely to contribute even to such interest on the part of the fair sex.