How To Understand That A Girl Has Stopped Loving You: 7 Signs Of Discord

“A fickle woman is one who no longer loves; frivolous - the one who already loves another”- so said the famous French moralist Jean de La Bruyère. About feminine feelings, which are so changeable and will now be discussed.

The content of the article

• 1 Growing irritation
• 2 Also to me, authority
• 3 Reluctance to communicate
• 4 Rare sex
• 5 I have my own plans
• 6 Care by inertia
• 7 Frequent quarrels
• 8 Is there a chance to return to the sweet past?

There is an opinion that if a man gives a bouquet of yellow flowers, then this is a harbinger of separation. We will not argue this way or not, but we will try to find signs that indicate female indifference and rejection.

Growing irritationi

When a girl increasingly looks unhappy, this is the first signal of discord. A beloved man is not annoying, and his shortcomings are always insignificant and sweet. But if there are regular complaints, especially on the soil where previously no problems were observed, then this indicates the beginning of rejection and rejection: any defect will be noticed and voiced, sometimes in a rough and harsh form.

The pleasant and positive sides seem to disappear, a disgruntled woman simply ceases to notice all the good things that her beloved does. Raised tone, claims, omissions that bring irritation and devalue a man and relationships in general. Alas, this could be the beginning of the end.

To me, authority2

Love is built on understanding and respect. When there is peace and harmony in the family, this is the natural state of spouses. For a girl, the importance of her man is important. In her eyes, he is a hero, a warrior and the most knowledgeable of all around. Any insignificant act is equated to a feat and is worthy of admiration: a hammered nail, a picture evenly hung, and even garbage taken out without a reminder becomes a significant event that a loving girl will definitely note.

But if men's actions have become insignificant in women's eyes, and she does not even pay attention to some of them, then dear men, it's time to be wary. But if, on top of everything else, the masculine word in the family has become the last and not very important, then this is almost a collapse. There is only one conclusion: you cannot admire a person you do not respect, and without respect there is no longer love.

Unwillingness to communicate3

Women love long and languid conversations with all the details voiced more than one thousand times. Emotional contact for girls means no less than physical contact. Telling her partner about her feelings about a particular situation, a woman seeks support from a loved one. Her opinion and empathy are important to her.

Men are arranged differently and the world of sensual conversation is completely unimportant for them, and female spiritual chatter is completely unbearable. If this aspect has disappeared from life, then this is not at all a reason to breathe calmly. This means that the woman is withdrawn and does not want to contact her man at such an important emotional level for her.

Rare sex4

This side of the relationship is directly related to the emotional component. For a man, sex is a matter of course that does not depend on anything and should be done regularly. For a woman, sex is a spiritual impulse, it is complete trust and acceptance of a partner. A bad mood and misunderstanding is not just a reason to deny intimacy to your man, it is a natural pattern.

Of course, everyone understands the importance of this aspect in relationships, especially for men, so very often a woman keeps silent about the problem and has sex by inertia. But if the moment came when the girl stopped hiding it and began to refuse on a regular basis, then this is already a deeply neglected disorder, which the man simply did not pay attention to for a very long time and came to his senses only after losing an important "detail" in the relationship.

I have my own plans5

When feelings are just incipient, then you want not to move away from the object of your love. I want to be together all days and all nights. From time to time, saturation occurs, and the partner ceases to be a mystery, and life returns to its usual course: meetings with friends, their social circle and interests appear again.

But still! You still spend a lot of time together, go out together, go on a visit, or just lie on the couch sideways to each other. But if the joint pastime is coming to naught and more and more often you can hear from women's lips that she has other plans, then this is a reason to think very, very deeply.

Common interests and interest in each other are expensive. Only by having common points of contact is it possible to preserve and grow love. Everything else is only temporary. Passion, attraction, butterflies in the stomach - pass very quickly. If there is nothing else between you, then there is no need to talk about any development. At most, there will be a habit and fear of changing the "awl for soap". But this is no longer about relationships. Alas, people without common interests are just temporary roommates. Not more.

Care by inertia6

Love is also a concern. How important is it to know what a loved one is doing, what is his mood and whether he liked the dinner? When such little things begin to disappear or appear in passing, as if on autopilot, then this is a sign of the extinction of love.

Monotonous food at home, snacks on the run instead of cute evenings at dinner, everyone took their plate and ate separately? If something has appeared in your family, it is not accidental. This is a signal of a woman's coldness or fatigue.

But in any case, even if this is a sign that the woman is tired and does not have any energy left to take care of, then this already speaks of an impending crisis in the relationship. At this stage, there is still a saving way out: male help will help relieve the load on female shoulders. Caring is not a one-sided game. Very often the man himself is to blame for female indifference, if this is so, then only in his power to bring the relationship into balance.

Frequent quarrels7

Domestic conflicts occur in every couple: somewhere more often, and somewhere less often. Despite the general similarity, quarrels in a single family are still different. If any little thing is able to unbalance the woman he loves, and not a closed tube of toothpaste enrages her, then the problem has already been dug deep enough.

Dividing one space is troublesome and laborious. But if a quarrel occurs out of the blue and turns into scandals with abuse, reproaches and insults, then such a joint life has cracked.

An even stronger signal is protracted conflicts. When spouses are ready to ignore each other for more than one day, then it's a pipe. You need to be able to quarrel, however, as well as to make up.

Is there a chance to return to the sweet past? 8

Relationships are work, work and more work. Only falling in love is easy, and true love requires attention, care and warmth. When a woman, as a true keeper of the hearth, throws off these duties, no man is able to pick up and endure them.

Family harmony depends on female wisdom and love. Men, just do not go to extremes, this does not absolve you of responsibility! On the contrary. Very often, girls do not lose interest out of the blue, but regularly bumping into a wall of indifference. Both are always to blame for the discord between partners.

Falling in love with a woman for the first time is easy, but winning her favor later becomes a very difficult task. If the feelings are already gone, then it is almost impossible to return them. Talk to each other, and don't cover up problems. Don't push your relationship to the point of no return.