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People strive to create families, have children, live happily ever after, and die on the same day. These are the dreams of most young creatures who are just starting to touch adulthood. These patterns, which have been imposed by generations and are genetically woven into the minds of people, do not allow looking at many things from the other side. People are used to the fact that divorce is incredible stress, horrible horror, horrible nightmare and, in general, universal grief, forgive the tautology.
The content of the article
- 1 Why divorce is unsettling
- 2 Pros of divorce
Why divorce is unsettling
Usually divorce resembles the end of the world. But the whole problem lies in the fact that people are simply trying to screw up each other in everything, from the division of property to the living of children. 1 pair out of 20 peacefully disperses. The rest arrange such battles that sometimes there are doubts about their adequacy. It immediately becomes clear that "love has passed, the tomatoes have withered." And even if one side starts yelling that “I love you so far!”, But at the same time selflessly divides the TV and the washing machine, then this is a blatant lie.
In general, people themselves arrange a hassle for themselves, I want to squeeze the maximum benefit from divorce in material terms. Civilized divorce is usually peaceful. The couple simply decides what is left to whom based on the possibility of re-acquiring the necessary things. As for children, here women hold the palm in hysteria, forgetting that the father has the same rights to the child. Even if the man is the initiator of the separation: he left the woman, not the heir.
Pros of divorce2
And now, the stamp is in the passport, the divorce certificate has been received, a new life begins. It's not interesting to talk about men, they have everything according to a template: first, a protracted booze, then a global party, a round dance of girlfriends for one night, and new networks of love, into which they stick with enviable regularity. Although, many are beginning to relate to their freedom so anxiously that they remain bachelors for the rest of their lives.
And what about the woman? According to statistics, women go through a divorce much more difficult than their ex-husbands. They have a child in their arms who needs to be supported, whether there is alimony or not - they also strain. Sometimes in the load there are loans that the couple took for large purchases. It's good if the faithful left the apartment, but if not? This is also a problem. In general, what kind of benefits can we talk about if there are only misunderstandings around. And there are benefits! And here are the ones.
To begin with, a woman has a lot of free time. Earlier, when I came home from work, I had to get up to the kitchen open-hearth and cook dinner for the whole family, because the trembling one hardly bothered to at least cut bread. After a divorce, this is no longer necessary. The child eats little and you can't drive it to the table, but a glass of yogurt itself is enough. So instead of a stove, you can drive for a walk with a child. And in general, there is no desire to scrub the floors?
Yes, these rags will wait, no need to iron a pile of shirts and print arrows on trousers, no need to ask for a meeting with girlfriends, who can now freely come to visit themselves, at least for the whole night. You can do whatever your heart desires and no one not to report to. In short, "I turn what I want." It is after divorce that many women flourish. And all because there is a lot of time for yourself: for salons, for fitness, and for other "sweets". How else to take such a lot of free time?
Quite unexpectedly, it turns out that the money is not just enough. They even stay. And why? Because less money is spent on groceries. Previously, in order for the spouse to be satisfied, it was necessary to endlessly cook meat and other male nishtyaks. The volume and quantity of dishes is sharply reduced. Now there is no need for a frying pan of cutlets and a 5-liter pot of borscht.
Children cannot be driven to the table, they generally do not understand what they eat, but a light salad is enough for dinner, which is prepared in 5 minutes. A kilogram of buckwheat is eaten for two months, but you can generally keep silent about the amount of bread and milk. It was after the divorce that many women lose weight, attributing it to stress. Not a fig! It's all about the amount of food consumed and its calorie content.
Change of world view
Seeing a new self, and assessing their capabilities, women, as a rule, understand that they no longer want to get married. And what for them all these pots and nightly viewing of militants? Women begin to value their freedom no less than men. But you won't be cuckolding for a century.
And then another hunter appears on the horizon, wanting to pick up a strong and independent madam. Naive! Well, let him take the risk. The maximum that he will be allowed is to come 2 times a week, with his own "meadow" at strictly defined hours. And rightly so, at first they are all white and fluffy, but if you just give up some slack, everything starts all over again: borscht, cutlets, socks under the bed. Do you need it?
So it turns out that if a divorce looms on the horizon, then there is no need to fall into hysteria: the world will not collapse, the sun will not go out, life will not end. Only the first 2 - 3 months are hard, while all systems and processes are being reconfigured, and after that a bright, free, sweet life begins.