A Man Greedy For Money: Why Is This Happening And How To Predict?

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A Man Greedy For Money: Why Is This Happening And How To Predict?
A Man Greedy For Money: Why Is This Happening And How To Predict?

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Video: The science of greed | Paul K. Piff | TEDxMarin 2023, February
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People most often call a greedy person someone who has enough valuable property (money, for example) and has no desire to share it with others, including those close to them. And, despite the fact that one of the main tasks in the family of representatives of the strong half is the maintenance of this very family, many women are faced with such a phenomenon as "a man greedy for money." Why is this happening and how to check if a man is greedy for money?

The content of the article

  • 1 Alarming prerequisites
  • 2 Where does male greed come from?
  • 3 Can we fight this?

Alarming Prerequisites

If the girl is still at the very beginning of the relationship, you should not overdo it with "pink glasses". For example, here's a situation: he invited him to dinner at a cafe or restaurant. Everything is fine, the dinner went great, the waiters tried to bring everything quickly and were generally friendly. But when the bill was brought, the man pays strictly and according to the check and does not leave a dime for tea. Well, this is a bit of "fuuu …" And it's not that he decided to pay by card. Just a man greedy for money does not want to spend too much.

Or, for example, he offers to pay in half for the same trip to a cafe or to the cinema (after all, it is assumed that he is caring). Although it is worth making a reservation that if we are talking about a date with a European, then this rule is canceled: for them it is the norm when everyone pays for himself.

Greedy men love to groan about how expensive everything is (prices in restaurants, supermarkets, markets - everywhere). It looks especially unpleasant when a girl comes on a date in anticipation of how wonderful she will spend the evening, and as a result listens to miserable complaints about the economy.

Greedy for money
Greedy for money

Gifts theme. During courtship, it is customary for a guy to give a girl something: be it flowers, sweets, soft toys or expensive jewelry. If that doesn't happen, it's worth considering. But you can't directly tell the guy about your dissatisfaction with the gifts, anyone in response will simply wave a pen. It will look uncivilized.

If a woman decided to invite her boyfriend to her home for a romantic dinner, and he came empty-handed, this is also an alarm signal. Firstly, any educated person knows that coming to visit with nothing is a sign of bad taste. Secondly, if a man cannot simply guess to go to the store on the way to buy a bottle of wine or a box of sweets, and the girl spent the whole evening, a lot of her energy to feed him beautifully and tasty … … Although this may be a simple stupidity of a man, and then it will be enough just to give him a little hint.

In a shared household, greed can manifest itself in the way he shares common expenses. For example: a woman knows what products she needs to prepare food. Accordingly, she buys. She is familiar with household chemicals better (after all, she also does the cleaning), that is, all these funds are again on her. Etc. So it turns out that a woman spends all her salary on all family needs, and a man - on himself. Young girls paint a little different model of a family.

Stingy guy
Stingy guy

Where does male greed come from?

Like many problems, greed comes from childhood. The boy's family had a small income, they constantly had to economize on everything. The child was inculcated not just a careful handling of money, but a whole ritual: to shake over every coin, and money and all the rich are a universal evil.

Wealthy families also often have cases of raising a greedy son. This happens when parents refuse literally everything to a child, saying that those who do not spend it have money.

The third option is again a model from childhood. A mean father, he constantly saved and scolded his wife for every penny spent. Here a child, looking at this, grows up with an already laid down attitude of what a family "should be".

Can you fight this? 3

Branding the poor representatives of the strong half of society, it is worth considering: when a woman complains about her husband's stinginess, is it about a man who is greedy for money, or about a woman who lives beyond her means?

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K / f

It is possible that a woman, seeing another model of the coveted iPhone from a friend, or constant trips to the seas from bloggers on Instagram, begins to lament her husband. Actually, the desire to live better is quite normal. Moreover, it is quite justified. You just need to always take into account your capabilities. For example, if a family pays a loan for an apartment, a car, gets the child to school and can barely make ends meet, it is very stupid and infantile to say that a man is greedy. Rather, here the woman is wasteful and short-sighted.

If a woman loves a man greedy for money and wants to spend her life with him, then there are some tips for her on how to try to fix the situation. Just starting to earn more on her own is not an option, he will start saving her money as well.

First you need to talk to him. Softly, without reproach. If you press on a man, pour out all the negative at once, this will only bring the opposite result. You can even praise him a little for his ability to save.

Thrifty guy
Thrifty guy

If a man thinks that a woman spends too much on food - ok, let him eat empty buckwheat without meat for a week or two. It's so economical. Most likely, over time, he will reconsider his views and begin to calmly pay the bills.

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