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At all times, the highest degree of compatibility in a relationship is based on love and spiritual attachment. Nevertheless, there is another type of compatibility, based far from feelings, but on completely mundane material benefits.
The content of the article
- 1 Vedic vision
- 2 Comfortable or mercaltile
- 3 Services of priestesses of love
- 4 Is love material
In the crazy rhythm of our life, it is increasingly possible to draw attention to the fact that meetings on a material basis are becoming more common. There are several reasons for this. First, men no longer have enough courtship time.
Thus, romantic meetings, bouquets of flowers, walks under the moonlight and other components of the candy-bouquet period become simply irrelevant, since a constantly busy business man does not have time for them.
It is much easier for him to take the material as a basis and simply “buy” love. This in many ways violates the very concept of "relationship". This is how the connection between people in a couple is determined, expressed in mental and material relationships.
Even the absence of this kind of connection, the so-called indifference, is also a "relationship", since it says that there is no connection with a certain person.
Even the ancient Vedas speak about the material basis of relationships. This teaching says that the center located just below the navel, which is responsible for feelings of fear and calmness, also controls the material basis of relationships.
Their meaning is to establish the most comfortable standard of living for yourself. That is, people unite in order to receive certain material benefits. It can be expensive clothes or furniture, an apartment, a car, a luxurious country cottage or a yacht. However, everything that can be bought if you have enough funds in your wallet.
It is worth noting that this level of relationship is considered both between spouses and between partners in relationships without obligations. The main desire of one of the partners is the ability to live at the expense of the other. In this case, it does not matter which of the pair - a man or a woman - is the consumer in this case.
A partner who is avid for material values and a comfortable standard of living most often goes to find a couple in expensive restaurants, visits luxury resorts and places where self-confident and successful people gather. In this case, the chances of finding someone who can provide a comfortable life are much greater.
This relationship is considered fairly stable. There is only one risk here - if the flow of material dries up, in 99% of cases the relationship fails. Couples, whose “love” is based on finances, can have a wonderful time together - relax, play sports, attend various events, and just live only until the financial crisis hits the family. The lack of mental, spiritual and sensual connection of people and, accordingly, a common life goal is affected here.
Comfortable or mercaltile2
Oddly enough, relationships built on the financial well-being of one of the partners have their own varieties. We are talking about "comfortable" and "mercantile" love. The first denotes a relationship at the "rich - poor" level. One of the couple provides financial well-being and, accordingly, a stable and reliable life. The second, being only a consumer, must provide his beauty, youth or sexual energy as compensation.
This kind of relationship is quite stable. This is ensured by the fact that each of the partners is clear about both responsibilities and opportunities. This is a kind of "buy and sell" in the family. However, this kind of stability can be instantly violated if one of the couple flares up a real feeling - love. And, if the “consumer” can still try to control emotions and not violate his level of well-being, then the “giver” will simply not do this.
Mercantile relationships are characteristic of emotionally cold, calculating people. Doing nothing just like that, they immediately announce the cost of all services. The main thing for them is to achieve what they want. At the same time, they are not at all worried about either the thoughts or, moreover, the feelings of the partner. Here we smoothly move on to the question of “selling love”. It is she who is the most striking example of mercantile relations.
Services of priestesses of love3
Again, returning to the fact that the modern world does not leave enough free time for business men to find a constant life partner and provide her with enough attention, turning to girls of easy virtue is the best option for communicating with the opposite sex.
It should be noted that this is not only about purely carnal pleasures, but also about simple human communication. It is no secret to anyone that almost all "priestesses of love" from time to time perform the role of psychotherapists and "vests". Often, they can talk to a man all night without finishing the matter in bed.
This is a vivid example of mercantile relationships. In fact, the prostitute does not care deeply what happens in the soul of her client. At the same time, receiving an hourly wage, she is financially interested in him staying as long as possible. And what is needed for this? Correctly, professionally portray empathy, understanding and empathy.
Many skilled "moths" are even better at psychoanalytic techniques than psychologists in state polyclinics. This makes it no surprise that many of them have their own regular customers.
Is love material4
Thus, meetings on a material basis in our society are more the rule than the exception from it. And, often, this is the only option for a business man who is constantly immersed in business - the river to find at least some stability in a relationship.
Again, the realities of modern life force many to be sincerely confident that today absolutely all relationships between the sexes are not at all romantic, but precisely material. How many girls would agree to walk in the park for months and sit on a bench without money? It is unlikely that they would rather choose the same evenings, only spent in chic restaurants, and even cooler, on board a luxury yacht of snow-white color.
What is the relationship between lovers or just people interested in each other. There are similar moments in married couples who have lived together for years. Take, for example, such a case - the well-being of the family has deteriorated sharply.
Meetings on a Material Basis - the Rule or the Exception How many spouses will be able to refrain from quarrels and mutual reproaches in this situation? Unfortunately, the statistics are by no means comforting - only a few married couples will be able to overcome material difficulties together, without blaming each other for what happened.
That is, the material component in a relationship is inevitable. However, it is strong enough to form strong and stable relationships. Here's the truth, despite all the realities of our urbanized computer age, the Golden Calf can be overthrown at any moment by a powerful and invincible feeling - Love.