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Video: Ways To Communicate With A Woman That Men Neglect
The ability to communicate with a woman is almost the main criterion for guaranteeing a successful and long-term relationship. A lot has been said about such qualities as charm, upbringing, perky character, loyalty, kindness and responsiveness, but now it is not about that. At the center of the story is communication, when a man and a woman have passed the bouquet-candy period, and meet and / or live together for some time. What to do and how to communicate with girls, so that interest in a man does not subside, and she does not seek new sensations.
The content of the article
- 1 Listen to her
- 2 Take part in her life
- 3 Punctuality
Listen to her
There is an old saying that a woman loves with her ears, and this is really so only if a man speaks to her about her and only in flattering words. In all other cases, a woman herself is not averse to chatting, and this is where patience (great patience) is required from a man in order to listen to the entire volume of information provided, to a greater extent, about nothing.
The whole day spent at work, on trips to salons and shops, phone conversations with friends, she collected so many "important", in her female opinion, news. She analyzed all this in her head, showed interest in all the little things that happened, and looked forward to meeting her soul mate in order to retell, comment and share ingenious conclusions in all details.
A man can only listen to everything patiently. And here the question is solved: is she interested in him as a person, or is he only needed as a cook and a sex toy. Men need more than just being physically present when the flow of information is poured out. They need to try, if not constantly, but periodically look at the woman. Philosophical and instructive comments can be kept to yourself for now. Just listen, sometimes looking up at the woman.
The moment she takes a short breath for the next block of chatter, try to insert an appropriate interjection: aha; What about you; So what; well well; or something like: yes, yes, what are you doing; horror; no need to say. And if a man does not remember the names of the participants in the story, there is no need to pretend that he is frantically trying to remember everyone. This theater of one actor is useless. It is better to interrupt her monologue with a sympathetic "what-what?", "Repeat, please, I do not understand."
Take part in her life2
Usually a man returns home with a desire to have a tasty meal and topple his carcass on a soft sofa while watching his favorite show. And if he wants it to be so, then you should not dismiss your woman as an annoying fly. For the evening to go smoothly, you need to devote the first half hour to her. If she meets a man at the door, after the kiss on duty, you should immediately ask how the day went and what's new.
While the husband is changing clothes, washing, he will receive the first block of information, and now he will not even be required to voice participation. When a woman is cooking dinner in the kitchen, you don't need to run to another room. A man should be present next to her. So she will tell everything that happened to her, all her conclusions and arguments, and she will not even notice how the man was silent all this time, and how quickly the food was prepared. That's great!
The man rendered unbearable help just by being around. And if a man takes the initiative and offers help, or he himself starts cutting meat or vegetables, the woman will be simply delighted. The couple will not even notice how the time flies by for light conversation and jokes, quick cooking. How in this short time a man and a woman will get closer to each other. As a bonus, you can open a bottle of wine or beer, so cooking together will bring great pleasure to both.
A woman will definitely appreciate such participation. For her, this is not only an act of rapprochement, but also an indicator of a man's love and care. In addition, after dinner, the half will leave the beloved one alone with the TV with a calm soul. And, be sure to note the excellent culinary abilities of your passion. A grateful kiss on the cheek after every lunch and dinner will come in handy.
And so in everything. You need to participate in her life. Not only in the kitchen, of course.
Punctuality is very important. Especially for a man. In the modern age of all kinds of gadgets, this is not at all difficult. In modern mobile phones, the function of reminders and scheduled tasks will not allow you to forget something, even if you are late or force majeure, a warning call to your soul mate will remove subsequent reproaches and resentments, or at least reduce the degree of guilt. And again the man will be very attentive and caring.
After all, women are very emotional. They are able to fan the smallest spark of doubt to the fire of experiences. And they don't like to wait. When a man is 10 minutes late for a restaurant, the woman already in paints imagines how he forgot about her, how she takes offense and does not talk to him for a week. Therefore, even such a small nuance must be borne in mind. Be sure to call, report traffic jams, make yourself known, let you know that the man is in a hurry to see her, and her expectation is not in vain.
All of the above, together, is not a manifestation of weakness, on the contrary, attention and care for a woman, responsibility for a loved one is the presence of male power.
Read more about the veracity of the statement that a woman is the main one in a relationship in our article.