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- Why should a man provide a womani
- How a woman can quickly recognize a man who is not ready to provide for his family2
The man's role as a breadwinner dates back to ancient times. At that time, humanity did not yet have money relations and in order to feed itself, it was necessary to make physical efforts to get food. Even then, a man had to provide his woman with food. This role was played by men, and women devoted themselves to whatever chores they did best - cooking, caring for offspring and their breadwinners.
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- 1 Why should a man provide a woman
- 2 How a woman can quickly recognize a man who is not ready to provide for his family
In the modern world, in many cases, it is possible not to use physical labor in order to make money, and many processes in the kitchen have been greatly facilitated by household appliances. Some women have learned to earn on an equal footing with men, but in matters of providing for a family, the requirements for men have not changed. And then the question arises: why should a man provide for a woman?
Why should a man provide a womani
A man should provide for a woman, even if they have no children together and she earns good money, primarily because he is a man. If he loses his masculine qualities, relaxes greatly and floats limply with the flow of life, convincing himself that he does not owe anything to anyone, then he will lose all his male attractiveness and strength. It will be difficult for such a man to build relationships with people of the opposite sex. “A bad soldier who doesn’t dream of becoming a general” is an expression we know very well, and it concerns a career, but in relationships it is the same.
A girl can earn herself a chocolate bar, a dress or a seaside vacation, but she is unlikely to be interested in being next to a partner who does not seek to take responsibility for her and her future family. One of our main instincts is procreation. And when a woman gives birth to a child, she needs some time to restore her own strength and health. At this moment, someone must take care of her and her offspring, take on the task of providing for the family. And who else can do this if not a father to his children and her husband? A good earner nearby is a woman's confidence in the future, her protection and the realization that children will not need it.
No matter how much a woman earns, a man should not forget about his direct responsibilities to provide for the family. This will make you respect yourself more, and your wife and children will definitely appreciate your efforts. It so happens that men are afraid of excessive financial control from their wife. A man is not obliged to give all his money to a woman, this is not necessary, but there should always be enough for a family. If a woman works, she must also supplement the family budget, but to a lesser extent than a man.
If you think your wife is asking too much of you, talk to her in detail about the needs of your family and material costs, and then try to come to a compromise. Many families fall apart due to the fact that people cannot agree on financial issues. At the same time, a couple can have great sex, they have children growing up, they have mutual interests, but some of them have no desire to understand the other in matters of money.
Men are inclined to accumulate funds, invest them, and women will always find where to spend their money. Talk to each other in a calm tone, write down the family budget and make joint investments in it.
If you are a man, then do not forget to leave some of the money for gifts and pleasant surprises for loved ones in order to pamper them from time to time and even for no reason, making their life more pleasant.
How a woman can quickly recognize a man who is not ready to provide for his family2
Usually, men who are not ready to provide for their family can be recognized at the initial stages of a relationship, one has only to observe their behavior. You should also ask him frankly about it. If a man does not want to support his family, you should not try to start a serious relationship with him, and especially children.
Male gigolo. Every woman can get into the gigolo's network, regardless of her age and social status. Alphonses or gigolos will always find something to profit from a woman - be it money, connections or registration in an apartment. The main thing for a gigolo is to get into trust. Therefore, you can hear stories from them about how generous they really are, but at the moment they are having temporary difficulties. Alphonses are very courteous with women, but you won't get real help from them
A typical and simplest example of a gigolo is a man who is in an eternal search for work, but for now he does not mind that a woman pays for him. How many women marry gigolos and then drag their children, a mortgage, and a bummer's husband, who does not bring a ruble into the house, for many years. In order not to repeat their difficult fate, even before marriage, ask the gigolo for help, borrow money from him and see his reaction. If every time he will find reasons and evade requests, you should not associate further life with him, especially family.
The man is a half-man. The rule "a man must provide for a woman" does not work for him. He, as a rule, has an overly rational approach to his costs. Men of this type usually divide all expenses in half. For dinner at a restaurant, he is ready to pay only half, and he does not refuse to take half of the money from you. If he pays for everything in full, his mood may deteriorate. If you dream of going on vacation with such a man, get ready to pay for yourself. These people are reluctant to make gifts for no reason, but if you show them attentions in the form of gifts, they reciprocate
It is difficult and boring for a woman to be a “half-man” with a man. How much material means he spends, he wants to receive in return. Just imagine what will happen when you go on maternity leave and cannot work. You will have to explain to him for a long time why you need new tights or why you want to buy this sausage. Maybe then he will give you money for these purchases, but you will have nothing left to change. And when you can work again, he will remind you of how he kept his family alone and that now your turn has come.
The man is misery. It is very difficult to be in a family relationship with a greedy man or miser, even if he loves you madly. That is the paradox - he loves something, but he is not ready to give a lot of money to the family. At the same time, men are sometimes ashamed of their greed in front of a girl and skillfully hide or disguise her for a long time. At the beginning of a relationship, you may be doing well. If a man is interested in you, you can regularly receive flowers, gifts from him and not notice his stinginess. But as soon as you become his wife, you will be put into economy mode. It will be spent on you only from time to time. And yet, such men love to buy not what they need or like, but what is sold for promotions or with discounts
To expose the miser in time, arrange a shopping trip with a man. There you can quickly understand what he is. And it doesn't matter if you meet jewelry stores and boutiques on your way, or it will be the shelves of an ordinary supermarket. Choose the thing you like and tell me that you dream about it. The miser will begin to dissuade you and take you away from this thing or pretend that he did not hear your words.
A man must provide for his woman, with whom he lives, and his children, but this does not mean that he must constantly bathe them in luxury. This can be done on a case by case basis and as far as possible. In order for a family to take place as a full-fledged and successful, a man needs to take all the main expenses for it. This is his direct responsibility, and this is not disputed, especially if the family has children.
An exception is the case if a man falls ill and becomes unable to work. A woman in a family should become a support and support for her husband; a caring mother for children; a good hostess who always has a warm dinner. Then the man will have more incentives to carry all his earned money to the family.