Table of contents:
- Childhood period
- Genetic inheritance2
- Family education costs3
- Influence of mother's appearance4
- Ladies teachers5
- Outcasts of their environment6
- Adult youth7
- The practical side of the question8
- Lack of communication9
- Family Runaways10
In most cases, the question of why adults like women is not too urgent for young men. Sympathy for the opposite sex of any age can be purely visual and embrace a huge number of people. Problems arise when platonic passion goes into direct contact. But here young lovers should think about whether such a relationship will lead to a radical change in their life, moreover, not for the better. Why is this happening? And when is it born?
The content of the article
- 1 Childhood period
- 2 Genetic inheritance
- 3 Costs of family education
- 4 Influence of the mother's appearance
- 5 Ladies educators
- 6 Outcasts of their environment
- 7 Adults
- 8 The practical side of the issue
- 9 Lack of communication
- 10 Family runaways
The system of behavior of adults is laid down in deep childhood literally from the moment of birth.
Modern scientists prove that even more serious deviations from standard biological norms are inherent in a person even in the womb. Dissatisfaction with one's own gender, homosexual attraction, frigidity. Therefore, no one will forbid to classify other less significant oddities as hereditary traits. It is possible that the age preferences of the ancestors crossed as the genus multiplied and were given to the descendants in one form or another.
Family education costs3
Smart boys are most inclined to sympathize with adult women. In their minds from childhood, an image of an object of love is formed, based on what they read, seen and assimilated. Usually this is an adult lady, the heroine of literary works. Such adolescents have little interest in their peers of the opposite sex, which do not correspond to their idea of the object of love.
Late marriage is common for them. In fact, this is the moment when the ideal of a woman, inherent in their subconsciousness, becomes the norm in everyday environment, when girls of the same age turn into those very ladies.
Influence of mother's appearance4
Boys who have beautiful feminine mothers grow up hostages of this image. They instinctively throughout their lives are drawn to their ideal.
However, the appearance of the mother can play an influential role on opposite impressions. If a mother looks too young, too thin or overweight, her son may have an increased desire to find his ideal Aphrodite. The habit of daily maternal care also plays a significant role. Finding the same caring nanny is sometimes the main goal in relationships with the opposite sex.
School is the second after the family unit of society, which has a huge impact on the teenager. If a boy fell in love with a teacher, then in his later life the answer to the question: why he likes adult women is absolutely clear. It is not uncommon for such couples to marry. The most shocked are the parents of a learned groom, but, nevertheless, such bonds can be very strong. Even if he does and the guy finishes school safely, he will always not mind getting to a lesson with a woman who personifies his ideal teacher.
Outcasts of their environment6
During the school period, another type of young man develops, preferring adult women. These are guys who, for whatever reason, are not perceived properly by girls of the same age. The contempt of classmates pushes individuals deprived of attention into the hands of those women who treat them adequately. Although, they are often the same individuals deprived of worthy attention of society.
When young men reach an age that can be called "almost men", in addition to heredity and sins of upbringing, they are superimposed on their first life experience and their own vision of their future.
The practical side of the question8
Advantage in contacts with adult ladies can be found not only by people in whom this kind of physiological attraction has been laid since childhood, but also by the most ordinary opportunists. You can gain sexual experience with a woman of the same age, but under the wing of an independent lady it is safer and safer in the sense of unwanted pregnancy.
Ordinary gigolos are also drawn to unequal relationships, thus ensuring their material wealth. Such relationships in the work collective can arise from the desire for career growth, when the adult passion is the direct boss of the young man.
Lack of communication9
A craving for older ladies can be based not at all on high feelings or material gain, but on the attraction of intellects. Young people who are already married also fall for this bait. When a wife is an insufficiently educated girl, and a spouse on the path of life meets a worthy intelligent interlocutor, albeit of Balzac's age, he will be drawn to her to make up for the lack of human communication. This can happen without carnal pleasures. Long smart conversations over a cup of tea will replace any physiological satisfaction.
Why a man is attracted to a woman of mature age, these men know for sure. A young spouse, whose family is in constant turmoil, finds comfort in the arms of older experienced, tolerant, understanding friends. Here he becomes indispensable in economic matters. An intelligent advisor on all matters. A handsome man with a perfect character. And, of course, a lover at the Casanova level.
The attraction of individuals of different ages to each other on a sexual basis is still an abnormal phenomenon for society. Although according to statistics for the past ten years in Russia, marriage between peers is only 28%. The rest of the unions are unequal in age in one direction or another. The gap in years often exceeds 20 years.
And yet, people prone to such passion should think about their behavior. The main argument in this matter is time, because with its course people come to the finish line of their respective years. Will everyone be able to adequately perceive the violation of the harmony of ages at the last stage of life.