Best Places For A First Date: Useful Tips

Yes, arranging a first date is not an easy task. Since ancient times, it has become a tradition that the "heavy burden" associated with the holding of this event, in 99.9% of cases, falls on the shoulders of a strong half of society. Yes, friend, sooner or later you will have to face it. And if you really like your friend, you will certainly want everything to go, as they say, "with a bang."

The content of the article

• 1 Cinema
• 2 Theater
• 3 Restaurant
• 4 Walk

In general, you made up your mind for a long time, thought and wondered, and finally "gave birth" - called and invited her to meet, and she, without breaking for a long time, took and agreed. And now you're all in anticipation … Perhaps you got a couple of gray hairs on your head while you were thinking about how to charm her on the first date. Or maybe in this regard you are calm like a boa constrictor.

Of course, everything is purely individual. But the first date is perhaps the most crucial step. In the event that your goal is not only an acquaintance for one evening, then the options below for places for a first date are just what you need. In short, do not worry, sit down more comfortably, catch the information, assess the situation and choose the option most suitable for you.

Movies

The most harmless and safe option is to invite the girl to the cinema. First of all, you need to be responsible when choosing a movie. Do not be too lazy to find out which cinematic genre your subject of adoration most likes. Remember, if a girl, for example, likes Indian movies or family comedies, you need to go to them. Even if you are a lover of action movies and horror stories, and "hate" the topic that your chosen one prefers. Be patient. It is not for nothing that the people say: "there is no comrade for taste and color."

Different tastes in cinema does not mean at all about different interests in life. She is a girl, and loves "snot-drooling", and you are a man, give you bread and circuses. Don't take your movie selection so seriously. In no case, do not try to tell your partner something like: "How can you watch this muck" or "the movie - it sucks." Respect her choice, and try not to impose your point of view (at least in the first days of communication).

Theater2

This option is perfect for those men who, first of all, prefer cultural recreation. But still remember one thing! Going to the theater should not be spontaneous or unexpected for your companion. Before inviting a girl to this institution, be sure to ask how she treats such places. Received a positive response to the offer? Then feel free to invite her to the theater. Plus, in addition, you, at the most opportune time, will be able to alleviate her fate associated directly with the choice of evening dress.

Among other things, you will clearly understand how seriously the girl you liked took about your first date. For example, you invited her to the Nutcracker. You stand like this in a shirt and trousers all in anticipation of a miracle, and even with a rose in your hands, and suddenly She appears … in sneakers and sweatpants.

Well, how do you like this alignment? Do not get into a fever and do not jump to conclusions. It is quite possible that the girl, no matter how advanced and modern she may seem to you, has never visited the theater in her entire life. And at the moment when you invited her to go to this particular institution, I was most likely ashamed to admit to you that I was not aware of it.

If it so happened that the above happened in your life, do not try to "cut from the shoulder." You shouldn't sprinkle her with remarks like: "Why did you dress like for a run", "Do you have any dress", "Why couldn't you" google "about how normal people dress in the theater?" etc.

Observe her behavior in silence. If, at the sight of other ladies in heels and in evening dresses, she begins to blush awkwardly, apologize repeatedly, and also look for excuses about the inappropriateness of her outfit, then everything is in order, and she is quite friendly with her head.

In this case, try to forgive her for the first time (since you are already such an amateur - theatrical), cheer her up, and calm her down. Be sure that next time she will dress appropriately. Well, if, nevertheless, your chosen one behaves as if nothing had happened, while answering phone calls during a performance, yawning and indignant at everything that happens on stage, then think about the acceptability of such behavior, first of all, for yourself yourself. Are you ready in the near future to refuse to visit such establishments or tolerate such an attitude towards an important event for you?

Restaurant3

Do you want a simultaneous pathos and romance? Then be sure to invite the girl to some good restaurant. This option is primarily suitable for those men who turn to "you" with the rules of etiquette. Are you friends with a knife and a fork? Then boldly order extravagant dishes, so to speak, go ahead - show yourself: show off to the girl your ability to eat beautifully!

But remember! Be careful when choosing your food. Do not rush to order the first, second and compote for two. Let your darling make the first order. Perhaps she will order a cup of coffee and cheesecake, or perhaps a lobster and a glass of the most expensive champagne. Also, it is likely that the culture of your chosen one's eating behavior will not correspond to the parameters you set, and, in the end, visiting this kind of institution will only bring you both disappointment.

Walk4

The simplest and, perhaps, the most budgetary option, which, first of all, will suit the owners of the suspended language. Yes, man, let us tell you a secret - during the walk you will have to talk about something. And if your friend is also not particularly endowed with the gift of eloquence, your first date, most likely, to some extent reminds you of the plot of the well-known story of IS Turgenev, whose name is "Gerasim and Mumu."

Well, of course, if a friend takes the initiative into her own hands, and starts talking for the two of you, not paying any attention to your "verbosity" … But if, throughout the time spent together, you will do something that is silent, then a fiasco in the end of the date, unfortunately, is assured. So remember one thing - before you go out, think carefully about all the topics of conversation. There should be not two, not three or five. There should be a lot of topics. Only then is your success guaranteed.

And finally, we note the following. It doesn't matter where your first date is - at the theater, in the cinema, in a restaurant or in the park. The main thing under any circumstances is to behave with dignity. Do not forget that everything is in your hands. Try to think through everything to the smallest detail. Be decisive. Be confident. And then you will see, you will succeed! Good luck!