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"Successful man" is a magic phrase that makes a woman's heart beat faster, evoking the image of the rich, elegant, strong and smelling of expensive perfume in the mind. Dating successful men for some girls becomes the meaning and purpose of life, and each wants to become that one for him. Many even manage to do this, because even very successful men get married (sometimes not even once). So how to become the lucky woman who gets a man-leader, a man-winner, a man who is followed by success?
The content of the article
- 1 A critical look in the mirror and more
- 2 The most common mistakes when dating successful men
A critical look in the mirror and beyond i
It is important to understand that a man, even if he is successful, remains a man, regardless of his income and ambitions. It's just that income and a certain social status impose certain requirements on the companion. The higher the status, the higher the requirements. Moreover, the beauty of the face and body is not at all in the first place in the list of requirements. In this list, there is no division at all into important and not very important, everything is important there.
The figure and face should be well-groomed, while the correctness of facial features and breast size may not matter at all. For all men, without exception, it is important how a woman presents herself, how harmonious she looks, how confident and charming. They see the big picture, rarely breaking it down into individual details. Therefore, the figure must be fit, hair, hands and skin well-groomed, and clothes are selected in accordance with the time and place.
Successful men often have to be in public, and not so much to "hang out" as to establish new contacts and promote business. When looking for acquaintances with successful men, it is important to remember that increased requirements are imposed on the companion of such a man, especially if she plans to become not a temporary hobby, but a permanent partner. If a woman is beautiful, but does not know how to keep herself in public, maintain a conversation, show off erudition or smooth out the awkwardness in communication, you should not count on the status of a constant companion. If a man has to blush for what his woman says and how she behaves in society, you can be sure that the relationship will not develop.
Therefore, it is important to take care not only about external attractiveness, but also about reading, the level of erudition, manners, oratorical qualities and the development of a sense of humor.
The most common mistakes when dating successful men2
1. Hanging on a husband's image of a future husband from the first minutes of acquaintance is a dangerous mistake. A man who is used to striving in life, and not getting everything ready, wants to be a winner in his personal life. He definitely does not need a woman ready for anything at his sight. You cannot insist on meetings too actively, call, plan a joint vacation. With such behavior, a woman deprives a man of the opportunity to care for her and repels her with excessive persistence. If a man does not call and does not insist on meetings, this means only one thing - he is not interested in a woman. No matter how busy a man is, he always finds time for a woman he likes.
2. Modesty adorns a person, but shyness does not. Therefore, in the presence of a man, you should not turn pale, blush, bellow with embarrassment and cannot utter at least a couple of coherent phrases. Knowing your strengths will relieve you of unnecessary embarrassment, and the ability to present yourself without unnecessary obsession will attract the attention of a successful man.
3. Erudition and open-mindedness are the undoubted advantages of any woman, but in the desire to defeat a man on the spot with these qualities, you can go too far. It is not worth turning communication into a stream of redundant and incoherent information. This behavior will make anyone want to end their acquaintance as soon as possible. Hiding your sharp mind and appearing dumber is also a wrong strategy. Successful men are not afraid of smart women, but they are afraid of stupid ones, since it is simply a shame to show such in a decent society.
4. In no case should you boast of your “victories” and “being in demand” in the circles of the successful, rich and famous. At best, a man will decide that a woman is too easily accessible, at worst - that she is a swindler or a kept woman in search of a new sponsor. Generally speaking, it is better to avoid talking about "ex".
5. Even if a woman has a good job, an excellent salary and the ability to achieve everything in life goes off scale, it is important to make it clear to a man that she will not refuse help and a strong man's shoulder.
When relations with a successful man continue, in no case should you focus only on them, stop communicating with friends, stop the development of professional and personal qualities. It is important to continue living your rich and interesting life, otherwise, soon the man will begin to think that he is communicating with himself and will want to communicate with another person.