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If you move between home and work, occasionally running into the grocery store, dating men in Moscow will be very problematic. Basically, all the men you meet will be your colleagues, but most often all the existing ones are already married, and an army of unmarried young ladies immediately pounces on the new male colleagues. The situation is even worse in the women's team.
The content of the article
- 1 Banal options
- 2 Unusual options
- 3 Where to look not worth it
- 4 General recommendations
To meet a man for a serious relationship, you need to make adjustments to the environment.
It should be noted that Moscow offers much more chances to meet its destiny than an urban-type settlement anywhere in Karelia. However, here you will have to try, not letting go of the search for love.
There are many sites on the Internet that offer serious dating with men. When registering, you need to fill out a short form and add a photo, and you can start chatting.
It is better to choose a photo from the recently taken, and not "from Lenka's wedding in 1990", because if it comes to a personal meeting, the date may end without starting.
The main danger of such communication is that anyone can be hiding behind a pretty photo. Some young people use dating sites to seduce women, and when they become attached to them, they try to lure out money.
However, it is still possible to meet a decent man on the Internet, but you have to sort out perverts of all kinds, mothers' sons and other inadequate people.
We will share the verified information on which site to meet a man with a prospect in the article at the link.
Sports teams, fitness room, martial arts and other options to tighten the body and expand the circle of friends.
Team sports are good for outgoing girls who can easily connect with people. Moscow has a large number of teams for every taste, from volleyball and football to water polo. To start practicing, you just need to find a team and write to the coach.
It should be noted that the teams are mostly either male or female, and you can get to know the men if the team belongs to the club, that is, female and male teams go somewhere together, support each other in competitions, etc.
The martial arts hall opens up more opportunities for meeting men, but is not suitable for all ladies. Firstly, these are large health restrictions, and secondly, not everyone likes wrestling as a hobby, because it is more injury and a chance to walk with a black eye for a week after training.
Finally, the fitness room option suits everyone. The coach will help you choose a training program, and in the gym you can always ask the young man you like to help you with the simulator.
Familiar acquaintances and friends of acquaintances men
The most popular and effective way to meet men in Moscow and throughout the country is through mutual friends.
More often go to the birthdays of colleagues, brothers and acquaintances, do not miss celebrating even such seemingly silly holidays as St. Patrick's Day and Bastille Day. The more often you leave home and find yourself in the company of people, the more chance you have to meet men in Moscow, and, as you know, it is much easier to choose when there are several options.
If you do not like big noisy gatherings, ask familiar men or husbands of married girlfriends to take you with friends. Firstly, it will be a proven person, and not just a guy from a party, and secondly, if you are an introvert, it will be much easier for you to meet in the company of people close to you.
In big cities, some men prefer to go to their intended goal not in a roundabout way, but directly, entrusting the matter to professionals.
If you contact a dating service, you will be selected several profiles of people who are in the mood for a serious relationship, which distinguishes this option from a dating site on the Internet. The advantage of such a decision will be the known general information about the man and confirmation of his intentions. The downside is that older men often resort to such means, but in war all means are good, you should not reject this method of dating, perhaps you will be lucky.
Traveling to work and on vacation alone can also change your life for the better. On vacation, people do not have to hide behind the mask of a serious person, which greatly facilitates the search. Although it may turn out that the man you like will turn out to be from Ulan-Ude, there is a high probability that you will meet a Muscovite on a nearby sun lounger, since Moscow is one of the largest cities in the world.
Of the minuses, we can note a large number of married young people who want to have fun on dating sites with men, where they have complete freedom. You should not rush into the whirlpool headlong without feeling the soil. Ask a man about his wife and children, pay attention to the ring or trace from it. Be vigilant, but do not scare the chosen one with questions.
Some options are not suitable for all girls, but they cannot be ignored.
Rafting and campfire gatherings attract romantics of all sorts. Tourism requires from a person the ability to endure difficulties, cold, heat, omnipresent mosquitoes and other inconveniences, in return it rewards a feeling of unity with nature, pride in oneself and true friends.
Hikes test the strength and identify problem traits in any person, going on such an adventure, you can get to know a real person, without embellishment.
However, this option for expanding the social environment is not suitable for everyone. The more severe the campaign, the more men there are, but at the same time, greater demands are placed on women. Also, few girls are willing to put up with the lack of hot water. And finally, if you met the man of your dreams on a hike, be prepared that from now on you will have weekend hikes with tents, ice fishing and a vacation in the woods on rafting along the rapids of another river that your beloved wants to conquer.
Conferences and seminars
A great way to meet is to expand social connections through new acquaintances at work. A large number of conferences, seminars, exhibitions and other meetings in the professional field are held in Moscow.
When attending such events, you must be open to acquaintances, do not hesitate to approach other people. Preparing a list of questions is a good option. Men like to suggest and help, which means that your approach will definitely resonate among the men present.
This option is suitable for representatives of professional fields in which there are a large number of men. A preschool teacher will have to look for another way of acquaintances, because in this profession there are few men already at the stage of entering the university. Not every man is ready to associate his career with kids, but do not despair, if you met a man at a seminar related to preschool education, you can be sure that this young man loves children and will most likely be an excellent family man.
Football lovers can meet at the stadium during a football match. Most of the fans are male. You can get to know your neighbors in the sector without big problems. For men, visiting the stadium is a holiday, they are all in high spirits, at least at the beginning of the game, and are open to new acquaintances and experiences.
You should not try to get to know each other in acute and tense moments, watch the game better and get sick emotionally, the atmosphere will contribute to this.
After the game, you can go to the bar with new acquaintances, but be careful and prudent - you should drink in moderation when you first meet strangers.
The method is suitable for football lovers, otherwise you will be annoyed by an ardent fan who does not miss a single match.
If you are a dog lover you will love meeting other dog owners.
Such men are caring and attentive, because they are used to caring for our smaller brothers.
You can get to know each other at walking areas, in kennels, where you can work as a volunteer, and at dog trainings.
If you love cats, then this method is not for you. Because you will have to put up with the pet of your chosen one, and this is quite problematic, because dogs are very specific. Not to mention the fact that they will have to be walked twice a day and going on vacation will be very problematic.
Where to look not worth3
Some advisers offer options where it is problematic to meet a free man or not at all possible.
You shouldn't visit exhibitions and museums if you want to meet a man. Usually it is visited by business travelers and couples who have nowhere else to go on weekends.
Among the visitors of the exhibitions, you can undoubtedly meet interesting people, but hardly any of them will turn out to be your soul mate.
However, you should not deny yourself an interesting leisure time. Any exit from home is a step towards your destiny.
The bulk of nightclub visitors are drunk students and young people looking for easy sex at one time. Finding adventures for one night will not be difficult, perhaps it will develop into a great relationship, but with the same probability, it can bring problems of a sexually transmitted nature.
Always be careful about casual acquaintances, do not settle for a closer acquaintance, if at least something worries you, always leave the coordinates of your new acquaintance to the girlfriends with whom you came to dance., Just in case
Trainings traditionally attract notorious and insecure women and men. It is worth going to such an event if you decide to work on yourself, but you should not show all your shortcomings to the man you like.
It is impossible not to note the uselessness of personal growth trainings, more often than not, they teach basic things that you already know, there is no need to spend your time and money on this.
In a word, it is difficult to think of a more useless option for meeting men in Moscow than attending trainings.
Trips with random fellow travelers are offered as an excellent option for meeting men, because the drivers are most often young people, and what could be better than passing the road while talking.
If you do not take into account the very situation of danger when you are driving through an unfamiliar sparsely populated area with a stranger. Some time ago, the media highlighted the case of an attack by an accidental fellow traveler, not a girl driver.
You should not embark on adventures and travel long distances with strangers, it can end badly.
Many advisers offer to take tickets to the departmental sanatoriums of power structures. Some of these vouchers are indeed freely available, but the bulk of vacationers consists of married men and couples. A great option for an affair, but absolutely not suitable for looking for a serious relationship.
However, you can also find widowers and divorced men in such a sanatorium, but the former are already aged, and with the latter, the reason for the divorce should be carefully clarified. This can be a professional deformation of an employee of the structure or an unbearable mode of work that the wife could not stand.
It is better to meet men in uniform in the city, but it is advisable not to go to the police specifically for such a meeting.
General recommendations 4
Moscow is full of strong women who seem too independent for men. It is necessary to show not only strengths, but also weaknesses. Ask a man you like to help with a small rearrangement or a car, even if you are pressing a hundred kilogram barbell from your chest and with your eyes closed, you can sort out the Lada engine.
Remember to reward the helper with lunch, or ask if the man needs the help you can provide. When you at least partially change your environment, you will have a much better chance of meeting new interesting people and even your own destiny.